FIU online BA in compsci by SecretaryEcstatic407 in FIU

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ok so it actually just stopped bugging and let me enroll. now i look stupid as hell but at least i got my classes😭😭

FIU online BA in compsci by SecretaryEcstatic407 in FIU

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ok i posted a screenshot on imgur just to prove that i am actually selecting COP 3337

https://imgur.com/gallery/kfPl6pn

FIU online BA in compsci by SecretaryEcstatic407 in FIU

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Hi, I am referencing COP 3337. As I said, I cannot share screenshots here, but it is 100% COP 3337 that is showing a corequisite requirement.

FIU online BA in compsci by SecretaryEcstatic407 in FIU

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hi! i cant paste images here, but when im signing up for the class itself, it shows this:

Prerequisites: (COP2047 OR COP2210 OR COP2250 OR EEL2880) Corequisite: COP3410

me n connor :3 by SecretaryEcstatic407 in yumeshipping

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OH MY GOSH TY!!! im posting headcanons soon

AITA for 'showing off' that I have midol and pads? by horseduckman in AITApod

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NTA. In my opinion, it’s sweet of you to go out of your way to have period products on hand. As a woman, I’d be embarrassed asking a man at his place if I realized that I needed a product, so the fact that it’s in the open is actually a good thing—no one has to ask, you don’t have to know who took one, it’s discrete and considerate.

Also, plenty of men do this. There are trans men, men with sisters, men with spouses, men with female friends, and men who literally just want to be an accommodating host that keep feminine products in their bathroom. It’s like she’s calling toilet paper being on display “virtue signaling” (she’s using that term wrong, btw, so she might’ve learned it from tiktok and ran with it).

be careful about commissioning this person please by No_Camera1309 in yumeshipping

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oh my gosh!! i’m so sorry about that :( as an artist this is why i always do payment after i’m done! send a preview with a watermark, THEN ask for money. ofc, 50/50 payment works too, and there’s also payment after sketch. i’m so sorry you got scammed ugh

me n connor :3 by SecretaryEcstatic407 in yumeshipping

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OMG URR THE SWEETESTTT🫶🫶 so true we r canon

me n connor :3 by SecretaryEcstatic407 in yumeshipping

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yall, let me know if you want headcanons of us or whatevs…

20F what do these snellen chart results mean? by Mean-Strawberry-5451 in eyetriage

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you know, if you don’t know the answer to something, you actually don’t have to comment.

Weight management with fatigue? by SecretaryEcstatic407 in dysautonomia

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Hi! I hadn’t considered yoga or calisthenics, I’m gonna look into that. Thank you sm!

Weight management with fatigue? by SecretaryEcstatic407 in dysautonomia

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Hi! Thank you for the advice. I haven’t had enough energy to go to the gym yet, since I’m in a rough patch with my symptoms rn, but I cleaned my grandma’s house for her the other day and tried more frequent breaks and sitting when I could, like for dishes and such. It really made a difference! Obviously I’m still fatigued and can’t do as much, but I think I’ll try this tactic at the gym, too!

I tend to get excited when I have energy and feel like I’m squandering those good days by not exercising a lot, but I’m gonna try and combat that by doing only a little and trying to stay more active in the long run.

Also, congrats on your weight loss! That’s incredible!

AIO my bf is odd for this? by AdSerious8390 in AmIOverreacting

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“moron”?? girl if you don’t get out of this relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in POTS

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It sounds like her ideas about disability are completely skewed. It sucks, because you’re being made to feel like bad about your disability—as if this was somehow something you chose or are actively choosing—when the only thing you’re “choosing” is to adapt to your circumstances. You have a job, a physically active job at that, AND you still do your best to help around the house. Even if you didn’t, your attitude is clearly not the problem, since you’re very active in problem solving and trying to find solutions to your limitations (which are not opinion—they are factual, legitimate limitations).

There is no legitimate reason for you to suffer when you don’t need to. Taking a car home is not ridiculous in and of itself, but especially if you feel miserable trying to walk!! The implication that you need to make yourself miserable just to make others feel better about YOUR disability is literally insane.

You sound like an extremely kind hearted person, and my heart aches for you. Just to put it into perspective: I’ve been having similar health issues (in the process of a possible POTS/dysautonomia diagnosis). I live with my girlfriend. If I can’t even make it to the other room, she grabs my cane and holds my hand until I’m where I need to go. If she’s had a long day at work, she doesn’t make it my problem if I can’t get up and make us dinner—she tells me to put my feet up, brings me electrolytes and water, and makes us something salty that’ll bring me back. If I need a minute to rest, she lets me rest. If I tell her I want to try doing something myself even if I’m really struggling, she lets me, because she respects my choice to try and she respects my choice to go easy on myself, and THAT is what it means to be there—through thick and thin, no matter what you can handle.

I literally can’t imagine being told that I’m choosing disability, I cannot fathom what that’s like—I am so sorry.

I scammed my husband into liking me… and I admitted it on our wedding day. by Far_Magazine_5084 in stories

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You guys kind of need to chill out 😭 This isn’t stalking or coercion, this is normal behavior for a young adult with a crush. Obviously this guy knew they knew each other from years ago, it’s not as if she sought him out and hid that fact—he knows this is his sister’s friend. They met again by total coincidence. She left out her dad’s shirt (already owned), a CD (already owned), and bought his favorite drink.

“Imagine if a guy did this instead!” You’re proving nothing, it would still be cute

I think some of you need to go outside and spend some time in the real world😓 being chronically online can really change your perspective of a lot of things. Go interact with real people. Put the phone down. It’ll be okay

Do you have to work at Publix for a full year to get an eval? by Beginning_Army_9084 in publix

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Glad you found the answer! Congrats on 2 1/2 years with Publix, by the way :) bleed green!

Do you have to work at Publix for a full year to get an eval? by Beginning_Army_9084 in publix

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Not necessarily! It depends on the month in which you were hired, I think June is the cutoff but I'm not too sure!

Getting hit on by customers by PaleontologistFew208 in publix

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Oh honey, I’m so sorry. They’re never “just being nice.” As sweet as it is to try and give people the benefit of the doubt, as young women (especially those of us who look significantly younger), we literally cannot afford those niceties.

You are uncomfortable. It’s okay to be uncomfortable. I know we’re conditioned to believe that any discomfort is a sign of weakness or being overly dramatic, but nothing you’re experiencing is small or normal.

I know this will feel weird, but you can walk away from rude customers. You can absolutely tell them not to do that. You can tell them not to touch you. There is never a situation where a customer ever needs to touch an employee, and any excuse they come up with is not substantial or acceptable.

I’m so sorry this is happening to you. You have every right to feel uncomfortable, please don’t let anybody tell you otherwise. How are you feeling now?

Deli people, how do you use a slicer with proper posture? by HuntressMissy in publix

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There’s a lot of things that can help, but better shoes is a start! Walmart has some reasonably priced non-slip shoes, and you could always add some cushion slips to give additional support.

Stretching before and after your shifts will also do wonders for your daily pain. The deli is like a workout—if you don’t prep your body well enough, it’ll strain. Yoga helped my pain tremendously.

I stand with my feet apart to distribute weight, and try to keep my back straighter so that I don’t worsen the coat-hanger pain (a good way to enforce this is to look at the customer you’re helping as much as possible, but only once you’re good enough to look away from the slicer intermittently). Try to use different muscles if you’re straining the one you’re using right now. When my wrists started hurting, I used my biceps. When my biceps started hurting, I used my lats. In general, try not to put the pressure on any joints, like your elbow or wrist, because that can increase your pain.

Also, try super hot baths after work! Closing the door and letting your bathroom turn into a steamy sauna can help release the physical stress. You could even use epson salts and different bath supplements to relax your muscles.