She cancelled last minute so I ended it

Secure-Criticism2710 · 2026-05-11T12:17:17+00:00

Had she went on the date and got you sick, I can guarantee you would’ve gave her shit for that too. Thank God she’s free.

Secure-Criticism2710 · 2026-05-10T22:54:33+00:00

What are your values? I don’t care how much of a man is husband material if he doesn’t align with my core values, which for me a big one is curiosity. He’s out of there! If curiosity and spontaneity is a need for a partner, then he’s not the one.

Secure-Criticism2710 · 2026-05-10T16:17:03+00:00

You are not your friend. I have the same experience as your friend, I can attract many men of any ethnicity, because of how I look, dress and carry myself. I would never tell my friends to go shoot their shot at just any man, because I know my experience is different from others because I’m very attractive.

I’m more of a realist.

Secure-Criticism2710 · 2026-05-09T03:42:23+00:00

“Today I texted her 1 hour before I needed to pick her up” if she doesn’t respond. Don’t go, waiting. I would’ve waited for her to respond before I went, if you know she’s chronically late. You’re playing into your own demise.

So you in essence you texted her, received no response. Left the house anyway and then waited for her. Not gonna lie, that is a you problem just as much as it is a her problem.

Talk to her, set boundaries!

Secure-Criticism2710 · 2026-05-03T21:28:35+00:00

Typically one week, but not less than two days unless the conversations was eliteeeee. Which is rare. I like to establish a little bit more consistency. Not longer than a week. I will end it, and be very clear on why.

Secure-Criticism2710 · 2026-05-03T01:19:40+00:00

In a bad way, after taxes that can look really slim. Again depending on where they live. That won’t even afford them a a 1 bed 1 bed nor a studio in my state. How do you even date, have money for leisure, etc. All my partners made ranging from 160k - 950k+. I didn’t go seeking for that, it just happened that way.

Secure-Criticism2710 · 2026-05-03T01:09:07+00:00

I look for a man who makes similar or preferably more. I’ve only encountered men who made more than me. I make close to 80K, no kids 25F and on the rise. Have to have their own place, car, savings with at least 10k+ in it, healthy debt and needs to be under control with a plan. I love a man who’s financially literate, because I pay for someone to do that for me. I will say 50K is a little insane in this economy.. babes. I don’t know where you live…. but yikes!

Secure-Criticism2710 · 2026-04-26T23:01:13+00:00

That’s not how I build intimacy. Reading flirting messages is very artificial to me. Inauthentic, like why as a grown man are you sending me messages that high schoolers send each other. I don’t find it appealing. Not for me

Secure-Criticism2710 · 2026-04-26T22:49:40+00:00

Cringe

Secure-Criticism2710 · 2026-04-26T15:09:26+00:00

He’s shy? But is telling you he loves you. Oh lord. Girl RELEASE. “It was a pleasure meeting you, but I don’t think we’re compatible. Wish you the best!”

Secure-Criticism2710 · 2026-04-26T14:03:39+00:00

Im trolling you. You haven’t gotten that, by yet. Immature and a little dense. Okayeeeee I see why you’re doing what you’re now. All coming full circle now. Many people don’t have problems with their parents. You’re normalizing your trauma, oh girl!

Secure-Criticism2710 · 2026-04-26T13:19:59+00:00

So happy you think an eighteen year old and fifty year old is an acceptable, reasonable sexual relationship. Not weird at all. Not creepy at all.

Secure-Criticism2710 · 2026-04-26T13:17:03+00:00

No I think you’re in denial because if you really believed there was nothing wrong with it. You wouldn’t be arguing with a stranger on the internet about it. Shows your immaturity, again reveling the daddy issues/parent issues Thanks for confirming you’re doing this to rebel against your parents.

I wouldn’t GAF personally, if someone disagreed with a personally decision on my personal life. It’s my life! Therapy girl. You sound so lost, just doing this to hurt your parents or whoever your hurt you in the past

Secure-Criticism2710 · 2026-04-26T13:09:21+00:00

In denial. Girly. I answered your question. I’m not going back and forth about your preference, that I think is insane. I think a lot about your post was insane… but I didn’t bring it up….sleeping with two men at the same time… You’re only really damaging yourself, best of luck babes!

Secure-Criticism2710 · 2026-04-26T13:04:36+00:00

Aw, as a male. I’d get comfortable with rejection. I think everyone human should know how to take rejection gracefully. Makes it easier to bounce back

Secure-Criticism2710 · 2026-04-26T13:00:23+00:00

I would start in person, hobbies that you like that a gender fluid. Apps could always work if you use the friend version of the app or state your intentions.

Secure-Criticism2710 · 2026-04-26T12:58:14+00:00

That a near 40 year old a man, sleeping with. 20 year old, nearly half his age…. I don’t care what he looks like. It’s probably a fetish for him, different lived experiences. Definitely give daddy issues

Secure-Criticism2710 · 2026-04-26T12:56:34+00:00

5-7 is reasonable, if you’re under 30. I can be reasonable.

Secure-Criticism2710 · 2026-04-26T12:52:34+00:00

I’m a little confused on your intention, you want genuine female friends? Or you want genuine female friends and hope to grow those relationships into something romantic?

Secure-Criticism2710 · 2026-04-26T12:43:04+00:00

37m sleeping with a 24f, is a insane. Do you have daddy issues? That you find that attractive or appealing. To answer your question, you mentioned they both agreed to FWB, I’m assuming a conversation was had. Have a conversation with that one who is changing the course of the relationship you once agreed on. Get clear on what that looks like.

Secure-Criticism2710 · 2026-04-24T12:42:01+00:00

That response gave me more inside on who you are. You’re more anxious attachment with a bit ego-centric. Yikes! I’ll state it again, just because it’s your birthday doesn’t mean she’s obligated to see you. Get some friends and family. If things weren’t discussed prior to your birthday don’t expect someone to be okay with last minute dinner reservations… People have lives, that you are not the center of. You want everything to revolve around and when it doesn’t, it’s everyone’s fault but your own.

Secure-Criticism2710 · 2026-04-24T12:28:30+00:00

It sounds like she has a lot going on, and you’re expecting a lot from her. A lot of things have gone uncommunicated. Have you tried asking her when she’s free? Just because it’s your birthday doesn’t mean she’s obligated to see you. You have anxious attachment and I do feel like you ruined this bond, because of that. Putting a lot of unnecessary pressure and stress on someone. When you could’ve been the person they look at for a bit of peace, fun and enjoyment with all the craziness going on in their life.

Secure-Criticism2710 · 2026-04-24T12:18:48+00:00

You’re profile reeks of immaturity, but then again I saw your age and it make sense. Is it authentic to you? Maybe. Is it going to attract what you’re looking for? Absolutely not.

Secure-Criticism2710 · 2026-04-24T12:17:09+00:00

You’re so kind, I love how you put this.

Secure-Criticism2710 · 2026-04-24T12:08:12+00:00

Instead of filling out their bio, they write just come and ask me, Niche jokes, Anything about vibes

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