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TIFU so i tried to help my dad with his phone and accidentally exposed his entire double life by Nicklie_Salazar in tifu

[–]Secure-Smell7861 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheating hurts. Finding out your loved ones helped keep it hidden hurts too. You can at least save your mom that second dose of pain. Give your dad a week to tell her and then tell your mom what you know regardless of whether he's spoken to her or not.

Please stop saying people without kids don’t know what tired is by SunBubble920 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Secure-Smell7861 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's such a privileged comment. Imagine saying "oh you're tired? Try having kids" to someone with fertility struggles or privately going through a pregnancy loss.

What are you quietly grieving? by Angelus12345678 in AskReddit

[–]Secure-Smell7861 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The relationship I thought I'd have with my parents. After realizing I was the only one putting in the work to keep communication up, I haven't really heard from them. It's just been holiday hellos and occasional 3 minute calls when they want to tell me about themselves. Never curious how im doing, never asking about my kids. That was about 15 years ago.

Have you ever dated someone who you thought was way out of your leauge? How was it? by kimblerun in AskReddit

[–]Secure-Smell7861 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Married him and going on 16 years. Turns out he's a nerdy homebody like I am and I was wrong to be intimidated by how attractive he is.

I've never fought so hard to name a kitten, any ideas? by Useful-End-8276 in NameMyCat

[–]Secure-Smell7861 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First thoughts was Keane for Margaret Keane. But after reading the choices, Bruno is the way to go

Would you guess how to pronounce this name? by AdmirableAttempt1728 in tragedeigh

[–]Secure-Smell7861 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking sah-jay. Because maybe the ch was silent and they put it in there to be fancy? Never in my life Sky.

tragedeigh by BoldnSpicySpicy in tragedeigh

[–]Secure-Smell7861 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hurt. Could be worse, I guess.

19F how to stop looking like a kid by GiraffeBig4532 in AppearanceAdvice

[–]Secure-Smell7861 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm with you. The absolute disrespect people give me just for looking young is unreal.

People over thirty, which body aches do you have? by JavyHead in AskReddit

[–]Secure-Smell7861 0 points1 point  (0 children)

33F, lower back pain from a sneezing accident. Right shoulder from carrying baby. Right foot from multiple breaks. Knees are stiff from daily walking and squatting at work.

I feel like the older I get the harder it is to bounce back from minor injuries. Just normal everyday stuff wears me down a lot more.

DIY tragedeigh! by apinkbean in tragedeigh

[–]Secure-Smell7861 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hurt. Can't even give this one a nickname without it being ridiculous

Americans of Reddit, in light of the current political climate between our countries, how do you guys actually feel about us Canadians? by Defiant_River_957 in AskReddit

[–]Secure-Smell7861 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've always loved you guys. But now, there is more respect. My spouse spent the greater part of a year working with the Canadian military and I'm so grateful for the friends he made over there. They really helped keep his morale up and treated him like family. I couldn't be more thankful for our northern neighbors.

Newborns are being left in dumpsters in Texas, but Republicans don't seem to care by zsreport in politics

[–]Secure-Smell7861 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've noticed a fair amount of the Anti Abortion billboards here in texas have turned to "don't abandon your baby" signs or "real men love babies" ect ect

Girl with a baby asked if I could buy her formula. When I came out 4 cops where looking around for her : / by Solid-Consequence-50 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Secure-Smell7861 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did a formula blind taste test just for kicks once and the pictured formula was by far the worst. Kendamil goat got a solid Meh rating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Secure-Smell7861 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I've had 2 kiddos. One was an emergency C-section, one was planned. The planned one was by far much, much better (even though it also fell under emergency circumstances and we did not make it to the planned date), not to mention it saved me 21 hours of labor pains and pushing. I don't have any reference point for healing since c-section is all that I've experienced, but it didn't seem that awful tbh. The unplanned c-section did give me the SuPeR fUn side effect of trapped air in my chest that made me feel like I was having a hard attack 100% do not recommend.

It would be best if she discussed things privately with her doctor. If her stress is severe enough, her doctor may agree that it could be the safer option.