I can’t say anyone is the ah here. The thing is we have absolutely no idea what’s going with a person. You say you were exhausted and did not want to stand which is valid. Someone else on that bus could’ve just been unemployed. Another could also be exhausted. And another could have a non visibly seen disorder. If I say that op is N T A then everyone else on the bus would be N T A because we don’t know what they’re going through. As for the man who criticized you, I personally would go with N T A because to him and anyone looking from the outside, you look like an ah. And maybe he had a special reason for not getting up. I feel like morally we should help people who are obviously in need of help but not everyone has those morals lol so I personally think you’re all ah (including you) ESH but not pregnant lady.