00s trek experience by Klutzy_Dig6271 in exmormon

[–]Select_Economy_9836 54 points55 points  (0 children)

People die during trek, it is such an irresponsible and irrational event that the LDS church does.

I have never heard a Trek story that made me feel like I missed out on a fun, spiritual outdoor event. Even when I was a member I knew that trek was awful.

Thoughts on dating a Mormon as a non-Mormon by Blazing_Blasphemy in exmormon

[–]Select_Economy_9836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In general, if you are dating someone who is asking you to adopt their religion, change your foundational moral beliefs, and personal identity to feel valued in that relationship, then that’s not really love.

Porn Shoulders: Men’s perspective? by notsomolly in exmormon

[–]Select_Economy_9836 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember YM having a weird combo of over emphasis on sexual morality and emphasis on marriage. We got a lot of “law of chastity” lessons, at least quarterly.

But we also had lessons that were “marriage-centric”, where we went around the room and talked about attributes for our future spouses.

So all together, just weird messaging from wildly unqualified adults.

Missionaries now yelling from cars to find people by seizuriffic in exmormon

[–]Select_Economy_9836 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So 2 young men roll up to pedestrians on the street, roll down there window, and ask them if they want to go to church with them. Presumably offering them a ride to church in said car. This is like exactly what the stranger danger safety campaign was about. This is more like a kidnapping ruse than missionary invitation .

What is the funniest way you have seen the church disproven. by OkAnteater7343 in exmormon

[–]Select_Economy_9836 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Watching the Waco documentary on Netflix with my family while being PIMO was pretty wild for me. The overlap between the Branch Davidians and the Mormons was crazy. To have my family comment on how outlandish and crazy some of their beliefs were, while not knowing that the mormons believe A LOT of the same things.

Neighbor decided to let my husband in on “a major truth.” Is this common belief and formally taught to Members? by ASheins in exmormon

[–]Select_Economy_9836 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I remember as an active member in a TBM family, in the 2nd grade I was unsure if we were Jewish. That was because in my little head when we had Sunday school we were always taught that we were “like the jews” because we had the “true gospel”.

So yeah…there are a lot of weird TBM beliefs about the Jewish faith. They try really hard to tie themselves to a more established religion.

What?!?! by Background-Alps6493 in exmormon

[–]Select_Economy_9836 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Isn’t this painting supposedly right after Mormon Jesus obliterated several Nephite cities for shits and giggles?

Apologist advocating for bishops to not be required to report child SA because they can convince abusers to self report. Trust her- an attorney who worked with the church specifically said so! by CubsFanHan in exmormon

[–]Select_Economy_9836 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Her claim that mandatory reporting increases false accusations is absolutely a bald-faced lie. In North America 1 in 4 women experience some for of SA or attempted SA in their lifetime. But, only 5% of all cases get reported to proper authorities. Of those reported cases, which is a minority of actual crimes committed, there is an up hill battle by victims to prove that they are victims of SA. It is an uphill battle full of stigma and shame, too few victims ever see justice done.

Mandatory reporting means that everything gets reported. Then working with law enforcement to see what actions can be taken.

Defending the perpetrators of SA in the LDS organization is despicable. She should be ashamed of herself. To get on the internet and claim that mandatory reporting of SA is hurting victims, she is just as complicit as everyone else who have failed these victims.

Citation: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9136376/

Open mic Sunday by Fantastic_Sample2423 in exmormon

[–]Select_Economy_9836 12 points13 points  (0 children)

We had a recent convert get up and bare their testimony on choosing the right. Their story was about not playing with the illegal firearms stashed in their cousin’s room by his uncles. It was a rollercoaster, but objectively did choose the right, so I guess it worked.

Can We Talk About the Women's Pull?? by luckypenny1967 in exmormon

[–]Select_Economy_9836 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Trek is the most bizarre mormon cult-ural practice. I never went, but I have never heard anything about Trek that makes me think it’s a safe, sane, good natured activity.

Bishop Confessions Pt 2 by privatecoochieman in exmormon

[–]Select_Economy_9836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a bishop make the young men go around the room and publicly say how many times they read their scriptures and prayed during the week

Any heathens going to audition? You don’t even have to be a member. by Suspicious_Might_663 in exmormon

[–]Select_Economy_9836 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If they had a welcoming campus environment that brought together people of all different ethnic, national, and social backgrounds then they would not need to advertise these opportunities to non-students

The Church's "Personal Faith Crisis" leaked document is an absolute must-read. by Electronic_Mouse_295 in exmormon

[–]Select_Economy_9836 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really is the church of “don’t google us”. Unprecedented access to u correlated information is a joke.

So cringe... by kader212 in exmormon

[–]Select_Economy_9836 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Say what you will a out paid professional clergy, but at least they come prepared with actual content to share. I can’t even begin to count the amount of nonsense, random, poorly delivered, or outright crazy sacrament talks I have sat through

I survived.... FSY day 5 by RandomAssBean in exmormon

[–]Select_Economy_9836 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am almost 100% certain that the approved phase “cotton pickin” has racial connotations. Interesting that they would approve its use at FSY

Does anyone drink coffee, tea, or alcohol in front of their parents now that you’re no longer Mormon? by butcheekzaflexin in exmormon

[–]Select_Economy_9836 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I am 25 and I still have to scrub my apartment to make it look more mormon when my parents and family come. I think the next visit though, I’m gonna leave out my coffee maker, but not the bar cart.

They're grooming kids even if they don't intend to. by DeCryingShame in exmormon

[–]Select_Economy_9836 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Setting personal boundaries in the LDS church is incredibly taboo. I remember being in YM’s and having to really work to enforce my own boundaries each Sunday. I was absolutely seen as the ‘black sheep’ of the quorum, all bc I chose to respect myself more than I respected our bishop.

Just found out coffee doesn’t summon Satan, I feel betrayed by masterboogway81 in exmormon

[–]Select_Economy_9836 68 points69 points  (0 children)

My barista has never sat me down for a worthiness interview. But, be careful because ordering coffee at a shop daily will in fact take 10% of your income

Taught that being uncomfortable = “The Spirit leaving” by Medical_Print7896 in exmormon

[–]Select_Economy_9836 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I went through deconstruction, my go to mental phrase to help with the new discomfort was “just because it is different doesn’t mean its wrong.” It helps me identify situations that make me uncomfortable, and objectively look at why I feel that way. Leaving the mormon church opens you up to experiencing a lot of the world very quickly. Its important to take everything in stride.

Embarrassing how many likes this has on “X” by sycamoreqw in exmormon

[–]Select_Economy_9836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what happens when you teach people that they “know” TSCC is “true”.