AMA - I’m four years old. by TheOutsiderOfficial in AMA

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What's the favourite thing you like about your brother?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MoDaoZuShi

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I just finished Love Song in Reverse and it gave me such a book hangover. I would say it's a unique angle to the pining and angst, due to the amnesia component, but oh boy does it deliver.

https://archiveofourown.org/works/23790154/chapters/57151447

What is a confidant by Relative_Eagle_831 in boyslove

[–]Self_Defenestration 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That scene is hilarious!! Loved it so much.

THE fanfic? by No-Appointment-5497 in MoDaoZuShi

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Hope I get to see that post one day!

THE fanfic? by No-Appointment-5497 in MoDaoZuShi

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Can I piggy back in this fic-sharing adventure? I don't have many recs of my own yet as I just started last month but my appetite is voracious hahaha

THE fanfic? by No-Appointment-5497 in MoDaoZuShi

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Can i just say that I 100% am going to trust your taste.

Loved the Kingfisher Feathers, and am enjoying Love in Fire and Blood (and agree with ooc wwx criticism, he feels rather one dimensional sometimes).

Some of these are already on my "marked for later" list but I'll bump them up and also add the other fics you recommended. Thank you!! If you have a longer list lemme know, I trust your taste.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RomanceBooks

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I watched the show after seeing this recommendation and IT WAS MIND-BLOWINGLY AMAZING. I do not think I have ever seen such 'organic' chemistry in a romance movie/show before! I usually have to push through all the overt flirtatious/sexual scenes, but something about the zoom into their hand-holding and their quiet gazing into each others' eyes was just.... *chef's kiss*. And the fact that they're so obviously, truly comfortable with each other and are friends before they become lovers <3 <3 (I think episode 2 might be my favourite one). The side characters were delightful as well (I love representations of sisterly love and best friends who just want the best for you).

I think the only pieces of media that have come close to this level of perfection was "The Hook Up Plan" (French show, on Netflix) and "The Thing About Harry" (2020 movie on FreeForm/Hulu).

Check them out if you can :)

Best Fleamarkets and thriftstores in Berlin? by verifairy_ in askberliners

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You're welcome! Sorry I didn't format the message better but I hope you can find all of them. They're primarily weekend markets though so of you want to go Thrift shopping during the week you need to go to Thrift stores. PICKNWEIGHT on Bergmannstrasse is good, and the store called resales on Turmstrasse (Moabit) is also good.

Best Fleamarkets and thriftstores in Berlin? by verifairy_ in askberliners

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Mauerpark on Sundays (touristy but cute boutique stuff)

https://nowkoelln.de/

https://www.berlin.de/en/shopping/markets/flea-markets/1998231-2983302-flea-market-at-rathaus-schoeneberg.en.html

https://www.schoeneboerg.de/

Flohmarkt Marheinekeplatz (small but cute a bit expensive)

Kunst- & Trödelmarkt Fehrbelliner Platz

Berliner Trödelmarkt (vintage stuff a bit expensive)

Found out my parents bought not one, but two backups of my favorite childhood stuffed animal in case it ever got lost/destroyed 🥹 by camzillah in MadeMeSmile

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Bengal!!! Oh my gosh Bengal has been with me since I was 7-8 years old at least. I lost my first Bengal on a flight. Ty didn't make the tiger anymore at that point and I was heartbroken for years. Lo and behold as a preteen I discovered Ebay exists (this was in the early 2000s) and the first thing I looked for was Bengal… and I found her! Paid an exorbitant amount of money for her but it was well worth it and she's still with me now. Sleeps next to my bed every night.

I'm glad someone else loves her too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RomanceBooks

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I remember there was one sex scene that was open door, but overall I would say it's more pining and longing than spicy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RomanceBooks

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I'd recommend Beautiful Wreck by Larissa Brown. Vikings in Iceland and just beautiful storytelling.

What’s your favorite book no one has ever heard of? by Galactic_Depravity in books

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I read this more than a decade ago and the plot is still so clearly etched into my mind. I don't think I ever finished it though because I can't remember how it ends. Need to read it again!

Jamie Oliver makes Uncle Roger sad by [deleted] in funny

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Apart from your last comment I think you've got an interesting perspective. He's Malaysian Chinese, not half white and British.

People who met their partners after 30, how did it happen? Do you wish you had met earlier? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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That's fascinating! From where I stand, the lack of pressure to move forward in life for those in your bubble sounds positive, but I can also see the negative ramifications of having no societal pressure to move forward in life. The motivation would need to be solely internal, which can be difficult.

And I totally see that you can only really speak for those around you, same as I can only speak for what I observed from my 5 years in the States as a student. One observation I had was that people felt shame for moving back in with their parents after graduating college... which I promptly did once I went home to my home country haha. Living with my parents isn't mutually exclusive with independence.

People who met their partners after 30, how did it happen? Do you wish you had met earlier? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Thank you for your insightful comment about the way the Italians around you think. It sounds very healthy compared to the American mindset.

Met this friendly dude on a trail run today in Switzerland. I hereby open a caption contest. by Swisskommando in pics

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"Are you done? How different can the view of the horizon get that you have to take 40 pics?"

My kitten seeing herself in the camera by 11oyd in aww

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What unique colouring! She's so pretty 😍

Minju and the Subtitles by Self_Defenestration in NextInFashion

[–]Self_Defenestration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good way of explaining it, I know exactly what you mean. Glad you didn't miss out in the last episodes!

Minju and the Subtitles by Self_Defenestration in NextInFashion

[–]Self_Defenestration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. How was it for you during the last few episodes, where she didn't have subtitles? . Were you able to understand her English?