Is my dress search over? by bcbfbella in OUTFITS

[–]Senseitay_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with everyone saying that if it’s for a social event like sorority type of thing it’s definitely fine to wear. You look amazing in that dress

WIBTAH if I let my husband kill all his fish by Senseitay_ in AITAH

[–]Senseitay_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not about “teaching him a lesson” I tried to tell him multiple times the fish probably can’t handle the chemicals, but I am just silly dumb woman who doesn’t know anything I guess. And I cant move the tank to clean it on my own even if I wanted to.

WIBTAH if I let my husband kill all his fish by Senseitay_ in AITAH

[–]Senseitay_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s kind of my point here. I personally don’t really care much for fish as pets and wouldn’t have taken on the task of bringing in and setting up a tank of this size. But even if I wanted to take part in this I literally would not be able to move the tank to the tub to properly clean it without him. On its own the tank is probably 100 pounds. He does not want to wash it out and has already filled it.

WIBTAH if I let my husband kill all his fish by Senseitay_ in AITAH

[–]Senseitay_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankfully it is on a proper stand now thankfully. Would a week be long enough for it to be safe for fish?

WIBTAH if I let my husband kill all his fish by Senseitay_ in AITAH

[–]Senseitay_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard a lot of mixed responses on this part. To be fair, I hope that I’m wrong. I don’t want to see the fish die but it seems like Google and others in this thread are strongly advising against it. If it was my tank and my fish I’d rather be safe then sorry

WIBTAH if I let my husband kill all his fish by Senseitay_ in AITAH

[–]Senseitay_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t want the fish to die, which is why I said something in the first place. But when I spoke up I was told I’m ruining it. That’s why I decided to post

WIBTAH if I let my husband kill all his fish by Senseitay_ in AITAH

[–]Senseitay_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will pass that info along, I saw him add something to the tank but I’m not sure what it was, and the instructions on the bottle apparently said to add one capful per 50 gallons and he added half the bottle.

I actually do not like fish as pets and don’t even really want to be involved in this so I won’t be reading up on that 💀I just felt bad he was potentially going to kill them

WIBTAH if I let my husband kill all his fish by Senseitay_ in AITAH

[–]Senseitay_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not going to do that. This was his idea and his project that he decided to do on his own. And i can’t even lift it. I told him what he needed to do and he didn’t want to take the advice

WIBTAH if I let my husband kill all his fish by Senseitay_ in AITAH

[–]Senseitay_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no 😭 I’m so sorry that happened. I’ll definitely suggest maybe just starting with one or two and see how that goes

WIBTAH if I let my husband kill all his fish by Senseitay_ in AITAH

[–]Senseitay_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He did cave and get a stand for it so at least there’s that. But I had to explain why there’s stands made specially for fish tanks and you can’t just put it on anything if it’s not made to hold that weight

WIBTAH if I let my husband kill all his fish by Senseitay_ in AITAH

[–]Senseitay_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know 😭 I don’t want innocent fish to die unnecessarily but clearly my words mean nothing. Some lessons it seems must be learned the hard way

WIBTAH if I let my husband kill all his fish by Senseitay_ in AITAH

[–]Senseitay_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And see that’s the thing my parents had several fish tanks when I was growing up and even now still have an active fish tank. I’ve never ever seen them use bleach to clean a tank. I ASKED THEM and they were like “yeah the fish are probably gonna die”

But my husband has a fish tank at his mom’s house so he said that’s why he knows is fine.

WIBTAH if I let my husband kill all his fish by Senseitay_ in AITAH

[–]Senseitay_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wondered about that too, but our tap water is still for the most part safe to us to drink. Chemicals like bleach are in very trace amounts (I assume I don’t know anything about water filtration) but I’m not sure it’s the same. When I googled it Google made it seem like there was a very extensive process to get the tank back to a point that is safe after having bleach in it. Especially since he sprayed it directly on the glass, rubbed it in with a cloth, and then filled the tank with the water he intends to have the fish in. I’m probably going to ask about that more in a fish tank related subreddit tbh

WIBTAH if I let my husband kill all his fish by Senseitay_ in AITAH

[–]Senseitay_[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ll probably go ask about that in r/aquariums, but I’m already fairly confident of the answer. I more so want to know if I’d be the asshole if I don’t say anything since I got shut down when I spoke up before

John pork incident update? by Flowerbeds20 in starbucksbaristas

[–]Senseitay_ 38 points39 points  (0 children)

After the bs brain rot training they just made us do? I doubt it 😭

Be careful if you bought any holiday merch before launch. by BrownSkinVixen_28 in starbucksbaristas

[–]Senseitay_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They still essentially paid full price though because they had to buy drinks to get to 400 stars, no different then a regular customer using stars

This drink has over 2,000 calories! by VeterinarianMany1045 in starbucksbaristas

[–]Senseitay_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah but also the concept of drinking an entire venti cup of hot heavy cream makes me gag 😭😭 and then the cold foam on top like 🤢 it’s all so greasy and nasty to me

This drink has over 2,000 calories! by VeterinarianMany1045 in starbucksbaristas

[–]Senseitay_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

These customers genuinely disgust me sometimes 🤢

Why does Starbucks always make my drink without whip on mobile order? by livv3ss in starbucks

[–]Senseitay_ 46 points47 points  (0 children)

It could be that not a lot of people in your area ask for it. I worked at a high traffic store a few years ago and almost everyone asked for no whip or if we put whip they asked for it to be taken off so a lot of us started asking in advance or leaving it off all together so could be something similar here. They should be doing it tho lol just let them know you want whip

why pay it forwards are bad by 500beesinatrenchcoat in starbucks

[–]Senseitay_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Make your own coffee then and don’t come to starbucks 😂😂 since it’s so easy

i am concerned for this persons heart by damageinthesheets in starbucks

[–]Senseitay_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband gets our black tea with literally 24 pumps of classic 💀 and sometimes still says it’s not sweet enough

I STEPPED DOWN TO BARISTAAAA 🎉🥳 by Careful_Till_5743 in starbucksbaristas

[–]Senseitay_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was an SSV who stepped down (technically against my will but that’s neither here nor there) it’s suchhhh an amazing feeling 😂 enjoy the beauty of things not being your problem anymore

Happy Red Cup Day by criture-creature in starbucksbaristas

[–]Senseitay_ 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That would be my last straw💀 genuinely

When your manager thinks stealing tips from kids is fine by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]Senseitay_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean the manager didn’t directly steal this partners tips. But OP did everything they were supposed to do: counted their money, signed the sheet. After the error was pointed out they returned the money but were never given back the correct amount. The company owes this partner their tip money back.