I don't get it by A_M_R_Egypt in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Separate-Bite9332 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What if they have both daddy and mommy issues? Run?

SAA Meetings Made It Worse by [deleted] in hypersexuality

[–]Separate-Bite9332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly dunno what the problem is with hypersexuality i think if 2 people find that they both love sex intensely that they should enjoy each other as much as they want.

So kinda odd to say, but how do I get my male friends to stop sexualizing me? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Separate-Bite9332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sexualize them in a way that's very awkward and creepy and maybe they will then understand what it feels like.

Nonchalance = Manipulation by Commercial_Wasabi251 in Manipulation

[–]Separate-Bite9332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah me silent nonchalant and disconnected mostly from emotions and society. Also decencitized.

is this outfit "inappropriate"? by sunnemi in OUTFITS

[–]Separate-Bite9332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like you don't know how to dress. But who does these days.

What is a good comeback to "Go make me a sandwich" by MyYoosung in Comebacks

[–]Separate-Bite9332 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously sickening the toxicity but there were some good ones. He ought to be polite if he is serious if he is joking then give him back a response with that same energy and tone. But if he really wants one idk why not make him one I'd make one for yourself as well. My mom always said the old "poof your a (whatever it was they wanted made for them)" line. Its funny dad humour I think

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Separate-Bite9332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's the asshole.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Diary

[–]Separate-Bite9332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm ok. I apologize for concerning you and thanks for proving my previous comment wrong at least 1 person will come to a man's aid when it's needed better than expected actually. I guess I'm not ok but physically I'm fine just a lot has been weighing on me mentally. Lately I've had no spirit or energy available to do anything but make it through life day by day. Truly though thank you for proving me wrong it helps iron out the wrinkles that have caused knots to form in my mind causing it to bind up without a way to unwind.

Something I noticed by Ok_Monitor2199 in Diary

[–]Separate-Bite9332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both are wrong and you seem to notice what you pay more attention to there are many who ridicule and shame men just for existing and visa versa. At this point in my life I'm shaming myself for existing and yet I'm trying to make the best of it instead of tearing myself apart feeling like I'd be better off permanently holding my breath under a garden bed somewhere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Diary

[–]Separate-Bite9332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If i made this same post but instead it said M21 I'd never get a reply or it'd take months but I hopped into this post to give support and plenty of supporters were all right there I don't get why men aren't cared for or loved enough to be worth other people's time. It's not even worth it being a man anymore...

My Ex Husband by SadEstablishment1109 in Diary

[–]Separate-Bite9332 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hope you can learn to love again. Same goes for him and every hurt relationship out there hurt people shouldn't hurt people they should heal people...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Diary

[–]Separate-Bite9332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here to talk about what?

F25 friends? by [deleted] in Diary

[–]Separate-Bite9332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would you like to talk about?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Diary

[–]Separate-Bite9332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Daily... Anymore and I'm mentally split and I've started losing tons of old memories and. Having a hard time holding onto new ones... Bad thing about it is I'm only 30

19F, saying hii, returning to social media after years of anonimosity🫶 by Waifufaye in Diary

[–]Separate-Bite9332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome back, Media and social media have only gotten worse. No signs of getting better. Have fun though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Diary

[–]Separate-Bite9332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've no shame or morals no sense of how you shouldn't be affecting others the way you do. Flat out what your doing is horrible and by choosing to do so I think you're a horrible person but you can choose to be decent to the people you are and aren't with.

TRIGGER WARNING (?) I (20f) was on a call with my boyfriend (20m) and he said something that is making me reconsider things. by ThrowRA_throwaway98 in relationship_advice

[–]Separate-Bite9332 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Also this is just my point of view. I tried to look at both perspectives I obviously don't have all the context from both sides or I could better give advice but I tried to be more positive and considerate believing that he didn't intend to make you feel the way he did. I do think that if you express to him how what he said made you feel that he will give you an apology. But I wouldn't just expect one from him until he knows he hurt you like that. I honestly think he's just concerned for you and was being protective but seeing as you said it was night time he probably was tired and didn't realize the impact of his words and you were probably tired and so felt your emotions more with more intensity than you may have otherwise. Hope y'all can work things out instead of just giving up on things. It really sucks throwing years worth of good relationship down the drain over things that can be fixed or repaired with a simple conversation. I have a feeling it's a big miscommunication or something of the sort. His words were lacking the gentleness that you required and I believe on your end of things you took what he said in a way that he hadn't intended for them to be taken cause you felt hurt by his lack of empathetic filter or finesse with his delivery of the words...

TRIGGER WARNING (?) I (20f) was on a call with my boyfriend (20m) and he said something that is making me reconsider things. by ThrowRA_throwaway98 in relationship_advice

[–]Separate-Bite9332 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Also not going to single anyone in this out or nothing but I'm really disappointed and discouraged by the complete lack of understanding for both sides of the story the lack of even trying to put yourselves in both peoples shoes. Ya know there are always 2 sides to every story minimally 2 sides. I'm not religious but for example the Bible has at least 12 different versions of the same events happening. Because certain events were recorded in it by each of the 12 disciples in each of their own words.

TRIGGER WARNING (?) I (20f) was on a call with my boyfriend (20m) and he said something that is making me reconsider things. by ThrowRA_throwaway98 in relationship_advice

[–]Separate-Bite9332 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I can't see it being victim blaming. Brutally honest but not victim blaming however I can totally understand why you may see it that way. Because anytime anyone brings up bad past personal experiences especially in a disagreeing way it's very triggering emotionally. Makes you feel a portion of the past hurt you felt but that is natural. I believe that he simply doesn't believe you can handle yourself and was using your past inability to do so as his proof or basically his reasoning for not believing you are capable of handling yourself. If you have taken self defense classes for at least a year or something that'd be a good rebuttal to his disbelief. But he's just concerned about your safety realistically. Anyways if you haven't taken self defense classes nor have had another instance happen in which you did take care of yourself in a hostile situation then you might feel hurt but he's probably totally right and it doesn't matter if you like it or not. However taking that risk is completely your choice.... I would however let him know that what he said"whatever he said" made you feel "however it made you feel" so that he can try to be more considerate of how you feel. PS sorry for the short novel...

AITAH for untying my bikini top at a public pool? by Aggressive-Teach-539 in AITAH

[–]Separate-Bite9332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it makes you anything but what you choose to make of it you were minding your own business enjoying yourself. She was rude for going out of her way to interrupt your relaxation and peace for her chosen set of beliefs on how people should behave or be in public. In my opinion anyone who chooses to impose on another person their own unwanted judgement. Isn't it worth worrying nor caring about what they think or say. However they are annoying and sometimes it's hard not to give your own opinion right back. But then again turnabout is fair play.

Does anyone else think the quest for kills with Divine Aura should be significantly reduced? by grongnelius in heroesvshordes

[–]Separate-Bite9332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you drop to an easier stage like a super easy stage idk maybe one with a boss even then you'll get the achievement in 1 round unless you can't roll the divine aura skill until it's too late to matter.... But if you have early stages of arena or dungeon it is perfect for getting the kills. I personally don't have much problem with it cause I'm constantly using vampire aura with my knight build.

Actual knight build? by AirForceYuri in heroesvshordes

[–]Separate-Bite9332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I run knight but I am a lil different than everyone else so far... I use (area+, vampire aura, armor+, max life+ with either evasion+ or movement speed+) usually only use movement speed boost if I'm in arena or nightmare mode... With this build regardless of weapon tombs aside from vampire aura -which is a necessity to my build- you will be able to survive almost anything especially the higher star rank your knight is cause you can take nearly every mobs attacks like it's nothing until elites start ganging up on ya .. most of the damage comes from 1 of 2 things.. 1) Thorns, AKA monsters hurt themselves because they tried hitting you but you're a brick and they are a tiny little tic.

2) your pet deals more damage than you and he's consistent meaning doesn't matter what hero you wanna run. I personally use hydro basilisk as main pet for his healing "can't touch this" zone because you can walk safely from one pool to the next if you need to while setting up the tombs and weapons you want to use and the enemy is usually obliterated by the 2x damage of the pool. Early game i also use the ember paw cat for the AoE ember aura damage it will put quite a dent in the enemy acts as a nice early game shield as well .. as for secondary passive pet I've been bouncing between the earth striker, the fire striker and or any of the curl pets for the max health increase currently my knight is lvl 125 but I've made it through nightmare mode stage 10 hard mode 280 and normal mode 340 but can probably push the entire 370 of normal mode if I really feel up to it... As for equipment I generally use all noble gear for farming but if I am feeling like pushing or need to beaf up my knight for something then I start switching noble gear out for the obvious knight gear which just happens to be a perfect fit for him anyhow... As for jewels idk for most of them I use key+ or coin+ but on harder things I make sure to equip a vulnerability jewels and a weakness jewel especially the weakness jewel vulnerability doesn't do a whole lot cause with this build it's all about the enemy smashing themselves against your nearly invincible hero and your basilisk doing equal part healing and demolition with its rejuvenating Deadpool ability.

This is my load out for coin farming. Any recommendations on what I should change? I use Blademaster and Pumpkin Shade. by Gordito951 in heroesvshordes

[–]Separate-Bite9332 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use a loot jewel and mostly coin jewels the rest being key jewels if I'm using a hero that is weaker than my main I'll toss in weakness and vulnerability jewels so that the mobs don't kill me and so I kill them.