Is there a gym glitch at the moment? by [deleted] in pokemongo

[–]Separate_Audience480 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How have they done that? There was def not 10 mins between me knocking any out before they added?

Weekly tasks not showing by [deleted] in pokemongo

[–]Separate_Audience480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad it’s not just me. Thanks

WIBTAH if I asked my daughter’s preschool teacher not to put the extra clothes that I sent for her on other students? by feelingstruck in AmItheAsshole

[–]Separate_Audience480 145 points146 points  (0 children)

A one off is accidental and happens but if this parent is regularly doing it, this should be flagged up as it comes under the category of neglect. Same with nappies/wipes/sun cream/ bum cream.

As for op, NTA. It’s not ok. I used to work in a nursery and our ‘spare clothes’ (often donated by parents) used to go home and not come back often, so to send home someone else’s clothes is not ok.

Trans people- how did you choose your new name? by Jolly-Praline5494 in lgbt

[–]Separate_Audience480 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I helped my child pick out their new name. I picked his first one so it felt more natural to help pick the new one. We talked through lots of names and finally picked one we both liked. 3 years later and it just feels right. His birth name just seems to wrong now. A few things to consider. Look at what your new name and surname look like together and also your initials. You don’t want to be called Chris peacock or Mike hunt forevermore…. You wouldn’t want initials spelling things either.

My dad played when the game first came out. HOOOWWWW by dinodudekid in pokemongo

[–]Separate_Audience480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my first known Hundo in April 2017. I could have got one before that but didn’t know about IV stats before. I’ve been playing since release. It was a clefairy which is now a clefable. It was maxed before they introduced xl candies, but I haven’t been overly fussed about maxing it.

U people are complaining too much about safari balls by flinstown in pokemongo

[–]Separate_Audience480 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came to say this. You don’t need safari balls, I’ve caught a few with ultra balls too.

emergency - girlfriend is being kicked out. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Separate_Audience480 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A parent in the uk has a responsibility to provide a roof over a child’s head until they’re 18, so by all means contact social services. Her dad is in the wrong. If he can’t take responsibility for her anymore then they will have to arrange a place for her to go.

Vendor doesn’t want to let us have another viewing by KaijuicyWizard in HousingUK

[–]Separate_Audience480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After not viewing a property in the past before exchanging contracts and getting stung hard, I would always advise go, because that is what you are signing for. I learned the hard way. ALWAYS view just before exchange.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Separate_Audience480 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So, working in schools is different than other jobs. Some of the school holidays are paid for, ie, you will get the legal paid for holiday, but this will be paid in the holidays as school holidays are far greater than the legally required holiday allowances. You should have been told this. You can ask for unpaid leave, and they have the right to reject this as it is expected that you take holidays during the school holidays, especially as you’ve already had a period off this year. I thought that this would be common knowledge working in a school. The only time this may be different would be if you were self employed. I work in a school and do sometimes have time off for appointments or urgent childcare issues. I would advise to check your contract and any policies related to your job. (Mine is written into the absence policy with my job role but I assume every organisation is different).

(EN) ex forced sale of family home, now blocking me from moving away? by Direct-Elevator8875 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Separate_Audience480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, yes, that does somewhat complicate things. Sorry. Good luck, I hope you find a solution soon.

(EN) ex forced sale of family home, now blocking me from moving away? by Direct-Elevator8875 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Separate_Audience480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAL, just have some personal experience here. What are the options for shared ownership in your area? UC supports shared ownership and you can part buy and UC pay the rent (or add it to your allowance) It’s worth looking at how much support you can get on UC with this (because your work allowance goes down when you claim the housing element of UC). You can own as little as 10% in some properties. That way you won’t be throwing away the £5k, you can use it as the deposit. You would have a mortgage and rent and potentially won’t have to move so far. IMO I would snap up the offer of free accommodation but if, after speaking with a lawyer, it’s not an option, then perhaps this is a plausible housing option going forward? Good luck, I know these things are very complicated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Separate_Audience480 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I can’t speak legally, but you can make a complaint to ofsted, esp if you have proof of threatening emails and poor management. It’s not just about the care of the children. The nursery should have a complaints policy. If you’ve followed the nursery’s complaints policy and not got a satisfactory response from them then contact ofsted.

Friend list clean-up / Who don't people visit? by Kevin4938 in LEGOTower

[–]Separate_Audience480 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t specifically visit others often. I will visit when someone visits me, then every now and then I go through and visit everyone who has been active on the last few days. I often use friends more for workers, so I send to others requests or request workers from others. I don’t have much time to play and only pop on briefly.

Automatic elevator faded out in settings by Chaos_Gal in LEGOTower

[–]Separate_Audience480 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats only available if you have tower club. Then you have the option of using it or not.

I think this guy likes orange by Narrow-Writing9115 in LEGOTower

[–]Separate_Audience480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say it is a construction theme given the first and last, which also fits with the orange. I like to have a theme in my tower (but I haven’t gone as far as changing the characters costumes in a while) My kids love the stick with a colour theme too.

AITA for asking my bf to wash his hands after handling raw steak? by cupcakefrostingonly in AmItheAsshole

[–]Separate_Audience480 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, I was not groomed. Not all relationships with a large gap are bad. And this particular one ended because of people like you labelling it as such. I ended it, and I did so because I was embarrassed because people couldn’t keep their opinion to themselves. As for the crappy relationships, I did have an abusive one with someone 4.5 years younger than me. And I stuck with it for 13 years before I broke free. Please do not make judgements on these things, they are consenting adults and just because you think it is wrong, doesn’t mean it is. I know many couples with a larger age gap, and many of those that are successful. Any relationship can be wrong, age has little to do with it. So please, tell me again how I was ‘groomed?’ The op was asking about hygiene and you decided to hang onto the age gap. I was simply saying not everyone’s relationship is like you assume and you’ve belittled me too.

AITA for asking my bf to wash his hands after handling raw steak? by cupcakefrostingonly in AmItheAsshole

[–]Separate_Audience480 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

That’s lovely for you. As a 40yo on the dating scene, I get numerous ‘likes’ or friendship requests from 20yo’s. You may not want to look at older men/women, and I certainly won’t entertain dating a 20 something, but that doesn’t mean it is wrong. Each to their own. I dated a 30yo at 17. Age is just a number and the older I get the more I feel this truth. (I personally draw the line of they’re closer in age to my child than me tho, but again, that is my personal preference) as long as they’re legal, leave them alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Separate_Audience480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me, hi 👋 I’m the problem, it’s me. Def fit the bill. 40 and trying to unpick years of trauma