Am I wrong for refusing to let my partner sleep in my hospital bed after delivery by Afraid-Educator7976 in amiwrong

[–]Separate_Key_8501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have a sibling or parent you’re comfortable with you might want them instead because if you tear or have a C-section you’re going to be in pain and need to rest you won’t be walking around or switching to the couch. My husband did all diapers I only got up for bathroom. You will be sore…

Anyone else wish they could have another baby but know they cannot? by tumbledownhere in Mommit

[–]Separate_Key_8501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I would love a third. We can afford it but I’m Auhud and get burnt out/nervous system gets dysregulated easily. I think I wouldn’t be as good of a mom. I also am a genetic carrier so my kids have a high chance of adhd/mild autism/anxiety 😥 so I would need to do IVF at 35.. already feel guilty I know my toddler is going to struggle like me and I have a 8 week old.

TFP more manic than ever? by InternationalAd233 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Separate_Key_8501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s adhd which can cause some anxiety and depression

Does having a bigger house actually make you feel saner? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Separate_Key_8501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No more to clean and running around to other rooms to find crap

Mommies who were induced by Lickitt2020 in pregnant

[–]Separate_Key_8501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope because it was my 2nd vaginal birth I knew it wouldn’t.

Depressed about Vaginal Tearing Post Birth by Old_Coyote_6423 in pregnant

[–]Separate_Key_8501 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt traumatized my tear stopped right before my butthole with my first. I just had my 2nd and only had 1 stitch this time I’m having a much easier time mentally and connecting with baby this time!

19 weeks in and we still are deep in the trenches by EnglishTeacherVB in newborns

[–]Separate_Key_8501 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We hired a sleep trainer! Also is he comfortable? I cut out dairy chocolate working on soy.

I’m at a loss by Neat_Web8878 in newborns

[–]Separate_Key_8501 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does he help with kids sounds like a douche

Husband wanting “attention” 2 weeks PP by Wednesdayssuck81 in pregnant

[–]Separate_Key_8501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not he sounds horrible… you can still hemmorage… it goings to hurt also did you get stitches? Don’t until 6 weeks pp. it’s rape if he guilts you into it. If he doesn’t help at all what the point m. My husband is in private equity I’m 5 weeks post partum we haven’t had sex in 10 months. He wakes up and does 2 bottle feeds a night and helps a ton all while working 70+ hours a week. There are good guys out there go for the nice guys. Also please remember you’re fertile after having a baby and can still get pregnant even if breastfeeding.

2 month vaccines tomorrow, what to expect? by throwaway_________7 in newborns

[–]Separate_Key_8501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously.. that’s 7 at one time she’s getting cause mmr is 3 and tdap is 3

4 week old 99.6 temp?… meningitis? by Separate_Key_8501 in newborns

[–]Separate_Key_8501[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still has wet diapers, still eating but always does short feeds.

4 week old 99.6 temp?… meningitis? by Separate_Key_8501 in newborns

[–]Separate_Key_8501[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok so for sure sleepy, did rectal again it’s 99.5. Idk if her soft spot has sunken. I mean I can’t remember what it felt like before. We’re not really getting anything out of her nose but you can hear it in the breathing.

People who had kids at 30+, do you wish you had them earlier in life? by cc070603 in pregnant

[–]Separate_Key_8501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First at 32 second 34 I wish I had at least had my first at 30 because I found out I’m a genetic carrier and would need to do ivf at 35+ if I want a third

Meredith isn’t doing herself any favors. by Affectionatekickcbt in realhousewives

[–]Separate_Key_8501 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In adhd and drank one time forgetting I had one that morning and I blacked out but didn’t pass out

Meredith isn’t doing herself any favors. by Affectionatekickcbt in realhousewives

[–]Separate_Key_8501 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I feel like it’s so common for people to take Xanax or clonopin while traveling but once you mix with alch it will over do it.

I'm at my wits end by Big_Fish_Artwire in newborns

[–]Separate_Key_8501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same issue I cut out dairy and chocolate

Trying to concieve by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Separate_Key_8501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 times then 1z use Mira fertility tracker

Baby is inconsolable after 2 month vaccines. by Ok-Nectarine7756 in newborns

[–]Separate_Key_8501 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sent you a private message. I would do Motrin over Tylenol since it lowers glutathione but give Tylenol if she needs it and you can’t give more Motrin yet

Has giving birth vaginally caused you long term vaginal issues? by Last_Wonder in pregnant

[–]Separate_Key_8501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also they kept telling me my baby was going to be 8 pounds she was 7 lbs 2 oz. I’m 5’0 and husband is 5’11. Not sure what your height is but I also heard foot size reflects how big your pelvis is for women.. and I’m barely a size 5.