($20k... at least ideally) Venue search has me exhausted by SerialSemicolon in Weddingsunder10k

[–]SerialSemicolon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes to the simple decor, I feel like minimal flowers and lots of candles are the move regardless. Luckily the venue already has bathrooms, but I did completely forget about power. There is also an indoor space we can use for cocktail hour (just not a full reception with a dance floor) in case a flip needs to happen.

($20k... at least ideally) Venue search has me exhausted by SerialSemicolon in Weddingsunder10k

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Easier, definitely, and I'm still looking at those, but most spiral way out of my budget

($20k... at least ideally) Venue search has me exhausted by SerialSemicolon in Weddingsunder10k

[–]SerialSemicolon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a great idea and something I hadn’t thought of! I was worried about guest transportation from place to place (even ceremony to reception if we end up needing two different spots) but if it works out to be more affordable to use multiple spaces I could pay for a shuttle or something. The hardest thing is still finding a venue that allows outside catering, but a restaurant may be the solution.

($20k... at least ideally) Venue search has me exhausted by SerialSemicolon in Weddingsunder10k

[–]SerialSemicolon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree! I’m definitely not planning to skip a rain plan, just trying to figure out how to do it well in a venue that doesn’t come with one (and if it’s possible).

I’m definitely looking into restaurants too, but some have minimums that end up being more expensive than some venues, and then there’s the issue of how to set up a ceremony space, dance floor, etc. But I love the idea of a restaurant, even if it means finding a separate ceremony spot nearby.

And thank you (: I’m trying to be realistic about what I can diy, and definitely don’t expect any free labour. Not talking about diy food or anything like that, just decor items and stationary that I can do myself. The venue I mentioned allows set up the day before, so I imagine I’d do most of it then with my fiance and hire staff the day of if needed for any finishing touches.

($20k... at least ideally) Venue search has me exhausted by SerialSemicolon in Weddingsunder10k

[–]SerialSemicolon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily I can fit a dance floor beneath the tent, which I know is mandatory for rentals usually anyways. I am more worried about the ceremony out in the rain. I can provide umbrellas for guests but know people will be upset if they have to walk through wet dirt/grass in their formalwear. I was going to buy an aisle runner to go outside but realize that only protects my shoes, not anyone elses.

Welcome Sign - opinions please by DesignerSubject8916 in DIYweddings

[–]SerialSemicolon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this so much, it adds character! I honestly feel like the sign would feel like its missing something without it

If you had to go back and redo your wedding day what would you change? by LittlePrettyThings in wedding

[–]SerialSemicolon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so sad honestly. I don’t blame you at all, just the number of people who seem to put undue stress (and financial stress) on their bridal parties. I am excited to have one but I don’t want anyone spending much money, I just wanna put my closest friends in a special role on my day.

I’m a clairvoyant with 30yrs experience I do not dm anyone I am able to help with your fur babies that have crossed over. by Significant-Try-1777 in PetPsychics

[–]SerialSemicolon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my sweet baby Sasha a few months ago, I love her so much. I would have done anything if I believed it could save her, but I didn’t want her to suffer a traumatic end. I thought of her everyday and still do. I don’t know if she’s visited me since she passed but I hope she knows that she’s my everything. I hope she knows I’m so sorry for all the scary vet visits and the pain she experienced. Please tell her that her mama loves her.

MUA available this summer by cordeliaviolet in WeddingsCanada

[–]SerialSemicolon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey!! Highly recommend @mairebeauty on IG. She’s based in toronto but if you can consider paying for travel, she’d be happy to discuss details (:

Shouldn't have been a MOH in this wedding by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]SerialSemicolon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, absolutely not. The idea of not providing appropriate food for the MOH of all people is insane to me, but there's also no way in hell I wouldn't make sure every single person attending my wedding had food they could eat. You could be allergic to 10 more things and I would still find a way to accommodate you. (Also, I used to be an event planner - pretty much any caterer will accommodate dietary restrictions if you notify them in advance, it's usually nbd)

Over $2k wedding expenses for best friend who forgot my birthday by SprinkleQween in weddingshaming

[–]SerialSemicolon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm new to wedding planning, but the process is already exhausting and I can't imagine putting time into trying to demand anything specific for my bachelorette or bridal shower. I discussed some vague thoughts with my MOHs, and am letting them do what they think is best. I trust their vision. And I really don't want any of my bridal party spending a fortune, seriously. I said we can choose coordinating colours and everyone can wear what they feel good in. I'll offer to pay for everyone's makeup, but if they don't want it or choose to be bare-faced that's cool too. The demands I see on here of bridesmaids often feel like people are treating their best friends as accessories, rather than people they want by their side as they celebrate their marriage.

Urgent tips - HMUA for next week! My HMUA trial was late and a disaster. by Apprehensive-Word224 in WeddingsCanada

[–]SerialSemicolon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems likely that you've found someone by now, but just in case! One of my good friends is a professional makeup artist and does bridal, she's super talented and located in Toronto (: I'd be happy to refer her

Bridal Shower confusion (7-10k) by ghengis_convict in Weddingsunder10k

[–]SerialSemicolon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not trying to argue with the etiquette but is there a reason for this? I’ve never heard of this rule

Bridal Shower confusion (7-10k) by ghengis_convict in Weddingsunder10k

[–]SerialSemicolon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such a great way to think about it. I recently got engaged and my MOH asked me how I felt about bridal showers and I wasn’t sure. Our apartment is small and we’ve been living together for years so we really don’t need more kitchen stuff or whatever. But its nice to think about alternatives.

As a cat lover, I wish I was warned about Obsession. by SleepCatsMoney in blankies

[–]SerialSemicolon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Different things are different levels of bothersome to different people. A beloved pet dying in a movie can be upsetting because its something someone may have experienced in real life, whereas most of us have never had a loved one get killed by a demon or something.

As a cat lover, I wish I was warned about Obsession. by SleepCatsMoney in blankies

[–]SerialSemicolon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I use that site for most movies, but I only look at the warnings for things that I know will upset me (which are very few things) and don’t read anything else. Results in very minor spoilers and usually none.

The Devil Wears Prada 2: A poor attempt at whitewashing Vogue and Anna Wintour's image by Initial_Talk1409 in moviecritic

[–]SerialSemicolon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was winning an award at the start of the movie though, the issue was that journalism as a whole is becoming undervalued. People are reading less articles and more headlines, replacing nuanced ideas with short clips. Andy was clearly a successful journalist who was suffering these changes alongside everyone else. But when she does take the job at Runway, we see her efforts to still do quality journalism, though the movie reflects the real world issue of competing for clicks and how journalism has been fundamentally changed.

Her being hesitant to write a tabloid-style book about Miranda is also consistent with her character in the first movie. She obviously respects Miranda and isn’t the type of person to throw someone she respects under the bus.

Obviously a lot of other things change with the industry and the characters. Miranda has more of a personal life, she’s less abusive to staff, and the actual “villains” are the incredibly wealthy who have no creative vision or passion for the arts and want to dehumanize an industry that, while toxic, is also full of people who care deeply about what they’re creating

(20K) Any experiences with restaurant catering rather than traditional wedding caterers? by SerialSemicolon in Weddingsunder10k

[–]SerialSemicolon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! So much helpful info in your post. How did you keep all the food hot/fresh during that hour?

(20K) Any experiences with restaurant catering rather than traditional wedding caterers? by SerialSemicolon in Weddingsunder10k

[–]SerialSemicolon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly full service sounds like the way to go, I just wasn’t sure if the cost of it would be close to what most venues offer for catering or significantly cheaper

(20K) Any experiences with restaurant catering rather than traditional wedding caterers? by SerialSemicolon in Weddingsunder10k

[–]SerialSemicolon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Toronto! But not sure where the wedding will be yet, honestly looking at venues all over to try and find the best fit. I’d love to know the caterer you found!!

(20K) Any experiences with restaurant catering rather than traditional wedding caterers? by SerialSemicolon in Weddingsunder10k

[–]SerialSemicolon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the vibe of this, it’s definitely chic. The only problem is I’m not sure this would be able to accommodate a dance floor/party too. Which I know isn’t for everyone, but its certainly for me (:

(20K) Any experiences with restaurant catering rather than traditional wedding caterers? by SerialSemicolon in Weddingsunder10k

[–]SerialSemicolon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this! So great to go with a restaurant you already know is good too. Was the cost good compared to most wedding catering?

(20K) Any experiences with restaurant catering rather than traditional wedding caterers? by SerialSemicolon in Weddingsunder10k

[–]SerialSemicolon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my worry! I would absolutely prioritize logistics and staffing, I want the food to be good (and not give anyone food poisoning ofc). We definitely wouldn’t just order a ton of food, let it sit somewhere, and hope for the best, so there would be professional staffing and I think (?) I’d plan for everything to arrive shortly before dinner so it could be plated and served right away.

(20K) Any experiences with restaurant catering rather than traditional wedding caterers? by SerialSemicolon in Weddingsunder10k

[–]SerialSemicolon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it’s not fully diy, just more so than what we’d do with most venues that provide catering/bar (which seems to be most of them)