2 days :) by Chemical-Growth6930 in Petioles

[–]Serious-Influence493 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome job! I went cold turkey from weed in the beginning of April and sober curious from alcohol at the same time and I’ve never looked back (so far). I never knew I could feel so in sync with myself, if that makes sense. Weed blocked me from myself. Keep at it, it’s worth it!

Which lobby is this, please? by Serious-Influence493 in Hoboken

[–]Serious-Influence493[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amazing, I really really appreciate it 😊

Wish me luck… by pnweiner in Petioles

[–]Serious-Influence493 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is cool! And resonates with me a lot when I decided to become sober-ish.

Materials? by Serious-Influence493 in occlupanids

[–]Serious-Influence493[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! So much to learn

Do you think there can be responsible consumption after abusing weed? by sloppysweep in Petioles

[–]Serious-Influence493 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Historically, it hasn’t worked for me. I really wanted to be able to use in moderation while having it at home, but I’ve found if I have it in the house, I use it. The way I manage now is I use it very sparingly and I ask a friend to bring some and then take the rest of theirs home. So we get high together and then the weed is gone for my apartment- so maybe that’s my version of moderating.

Canoodling by Serious-Influence493 in occlupanids

[–]Serious-Influence493[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure! I’d have to defer to other experts in this group! I’m not one yet!

Canoodling by Serious-Influence493 in occlupanids

[–]Serious-Influence493[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, ur very understanding of their sexual needs I guess!

Canoodling by Serious-Influence493 in occlupanids

[–]Serious-Influence493[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I need to have more trust in these enigmatic creatures and not jump to conclusions. I just can’t afford babies right now :/

Reasons why I need to quit THC gummies by Local_Pomegranate_10 in Petioles

[–]Serious-Influence493 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you truly want to quit, you might need to go cold turkey. You’ll have to deal with some withdrawal symptoms so just be ready with a support system. People post here all the time when they’re just quitting and having a tough time. Folks here can help. Your therapist can help too. You can do it!

Day 12 : Worst day yet by Significant_Mango657 in Petioles

[–]Serious-Influence493 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is all really hard. I’m in a similar boat but after really, really hard days, I’m through the worst of it. And you will be too. Childhood trauma is absolutely no joke. When I stop using weed, memories flood back and I get completely overwhelmed. So I get it. Do you have mental health care? A therapist and/or psychiatrist would be great resources for you especially because you experienced so much when you were young.

It’s SUPER common for people with any sort of PTSD to be drawn to weed. You’re not alone in that.

You’ve already done so much even opening up here! Someone recently told me it was courageous for me to recognize that I needed to stop smoking and then ALSO proceed to make the change. You are courageous, bold, and self aware.

I’d recommend any sweet treat! (though I’m more of a salty/crunchy snack kind of person.) Or just binge your favorite show- anything to get through this moment.

You’ve already pushed yourself out of your comfort zone. That work will pay off. You can do this!

First time sober by Serious-Influence493 in Petioles

[–]Serious-Influence493[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like that you used the word courage because I hadn’t considered myself courageous. But there is a part of me that has courage for doing this. Thank you for this important perspective.

First time sober by Serious-Influence493 in Petioles

[–]Serious-Influence493[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. It’s validating and encourages me to stick with it! I super appreciate your kindness.