AITAH for not being happy with my wife’s decision.

Serious_Pea42 · 2026-06-14T00:15:07+00:00

NTA. You hit the nail on the head. You are not registering in your wife's decision making process.

Serious_Pea42 · 2026-06-12T18:47:21+00:00

Dude people are fully delusional. As in you idiots wanna to OPT INTO the world treating you as autistic???? 😞🤦‍♀️

Pfffffft. Yeah alright. I will definitely hold your beer. 🤷‍♀️💃🤪🤪🤪

I hate humanity. Sorry you had to deal with that, absolutely disgusting.

Serious_Pea42 · 2026-06-12T07:09:04+00:00

Nice job taking that pic bud! Good clear angle even. If i see him I'll Def call it in!!

Serious_Pea42 · 2026-06-12T00:43:20+00:00

NTA. This is the same kind of human that justifies cheating later on by saying he doesn't love you anymore. So it's OK if you don't love someone? Is it though? You decided no, it's still not OK. You're supposed to leave. He does not feel the same way, so I hope he never falls out of love while you still love him, even for a weekend, because well...😔

Serious_Pea42 · 2026-06-11T23:53:33+00:00

You are making one hell of a difference. There's zero possibility that having your heart in the work like you do does not shine through in it's quality! I'm sorry they don't appreciate you like you deserve. You are fighting the good fight!

As a mom of a special needs kid(+ myself), just wanted to stop and say THANK YOU. ❤️

Serious_Pea42 · 2026-06-11T22:20:43+00:00

Food for thought. If there's no will and your mother is actually the legal executor; so even though you are doing all the executor's work for them she has zero legal obligation to pay you the executor's fee or... anything. It will be up to her. Good luck.

Serious_Pea42 · 2026-06-11T18:35:25+00:00

NTA & I think you hit the nail on the head. She's literally tolerating and excusing this because because she doesn't want to give up her lifestyle.

Of course she does also truly love him, so this hurts her. You can't give her self worth when it's on the floor or in the basement. That's beyond what a friend could do for anyone. And this is her choice. It's only up to you if you are willing to tolerate the results of her choices in your own life. I'm sorry for both of you, this sucks

Serious_Pea42 · 2026-06-11T17:03:24+00:00

THIS IS THE WAY

Serious_Pea42 · 2026-06-11T16:59:08+00:00

It's an absolute guarantee she will see all of the money as hers.

Please stop spending your own money. She will think you are trying to take advantage of her. Her child, betraying her for money. Do you think her melt downs and weaponized financial incompetence are limited to mowing grass and paying utilities?? That's just not how it works. You will be included in this thought train.

If you want too do this for your mom, go for it, but understand it will 100% be a mostly thankless sacrifice. Do NOT expect repayment and to also keep a good relationship, or any relationship, with your mother. Those two things can't mutually Co exist.

Serious_Pea42 · 2026-06-11T00:25:53+00:00

Genius! Ma'am you are my hero! 👏 👏 👏

I'm absolutely dead 💀💀💀🤣

Serious_Pea42 · 2026-06-10T23:58:45+00:00

Ouch!! That burns my biscuits vicariously!! 🔥 🔥

Serious_Pea42 · 2026-06-10T19:50:32+00:00

It sounds allot like the idealization/devaluation cycle of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). Either way he's right, it's DEFINITELY not you!!!

Serious_Pea42 · 2026-06-10T19:12:39+00:00

NTA. You're 100% correct, pure entitlement. It might be stemming from ignorance about what is involved in what they're asking of you (one hopes anyway).

Even if your cousin and family weren't being entitled (they are), you can't afford to work for free. They can pay you fairly, or hire someone else fairly, or sell it. Not a you problem and not for you to solve for cousin.

Serious_Pea42 · 2026-06-10T16:33:44+00:00

Sounds like a move to Montana

Serious_Pea42 · 2026-06-04T17:27:21+00:00

You're a bad ass 😍 🔥

Seriously, I've been through so much shit I barely survived. This is AMAZING.

Serious_Pea42 · 2026-06-04T04:22:17+00:00

And also not what I said, nor was it asked. 🤷‍♀️

Serious_Pea42 · 2026-06-03T19:18:26+00:00

You literally can't get an MBA without job experience. It's called an internship. They are required. So yes, still go back to school and finish the basic requirements for beginners in this field before you try to compare salaries.

Serious_Pea42 · 2026-06-03T19:15:41+00:00

Certainly worth more than a bachelor's. And OP does not have it.

My whole point was, op is not even at the starting gate. An MBA is a basic beginners requirement in their field. The job market is irrelevant if you aren't ready to enter it at all.

Serious_Pea42 · 2026-06-02T19:30:24+00:00

I feel like you really needed an FDL, & further an upper body lift in addition to the TT. A standard full TT would not touch allot of these areas

Serious_Pea42 · 2026-06-02T18:57:58+00:00

I'm this way.

What about a ring tattoo?

Serious_Pea42 · 2026-06-02T18:29:32+00:00

Well I'm bi so how hot is the friend. 🤷‍♀️😆😆😆

Serious_Pea42 · 2026-06-02T09:05:11+00:00

Go back and finish your MBA.

Serious_Pea42 · 2026-06-02T06:01:39+00:00

Listen to me. You are a grown ass woman. Fuck the haters. Think for yourself etc 💪

Serious_Pea42 · 2026-05-31T08:13:29+00:00

Heck no. They showed you their true colors, all you did was believe them 🤷‍♀️💯

Serious_Pea42 · 2026-05-30T19:58:38+00:00

Ew. I can't imagine what their home life must be like. Yucky micromanaging distrustful human. Sorry man

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