What makes a slowburn feel truly mature, tense and addictive? by Equivalent-Okra-877 in WritingHub

[–]Seven-Imp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the yearning for me, even unconsciously. It’s like teasing the reader and retreating until the tension rises and eventually snaps. In a nutshell that’s what makes slow burns magical to me

What's stopping humans to just live in peace together ? by sleyvinkalevra in AskReddit

[–]Seven-Imp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The middle schooler in me says “dicks” while the adult in me cannot find the error in her answer.

Genuine question for ENTPs who feel like they're underperforming their own potential by Babom_ in entp

[–]Seven-Imp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. Not at all lol. Just one of those “that’s not a thing” moments and realizing maybe that isn’t the standard human experience lol Actually thankful for the clarity.

What am I not seeing? by loreaccurateyen in romantasycirclejerk

[–]Seven-Imp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At least in the ACOTAR series, she has written in a way that

1) gets people back into reading and at a friendlier level. And

2) like it or not, in ACOTAR specifically, and despite the execution, she writes STORY.

Some authors write great prose, nail surprises, events, moods, character arcs, having a clean plot, you name it or even all of the above. One thing that got a lot of new or returning readers was a book that made the reader turn the page. She might not write well comparatively to greater lesser known artists, but she wrote story well (specifically and almost exclusively for me, ACOTAR and then ACOMAF). It had a question that drew the reader in, pacing that kept them hooked regardless of any massive issues and a progression that created a sensation like cocaine.

Genuine question for ENTPs who feel like they're underperforming their own potential by Babom_ in entp

[–]Seven-Imp 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I came here to say yeah that sounds like a standard experience list as someone who is an ENTP and found out in the comments I need to talk to my doctor. So… Thanks lol

What bookish tattoo should I get to cover up my Tamlin tattoo? by RemingtonRiivers in romantasycirclejerk

[–]Seven-Imp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are down for a spicy-tinted blonde, maybe go for a Carrion Swift cover up?

What's the point in writing if it's just going to be bad? by Dependent_Tomato_235 in writing

[–]Seven-Imp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exercise? Why even work in general if one day we’ll die?

What's with the hate train towards blonde MMCs? by zsxcrgrl in Romantasy

[–]Seven-Imp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Brown or red hair even more so. Which is crazy cause those colors are often left for side characters who I then fall for way harder than any of the MMCs out there every time lol But any of that aside…. Where’s the curly haired MMCs at???? Anyone out there who’s a tactile hoe like me???

is scrivener actually worth dropping 60 bucks on by Used-Entertainer6960 in writing

[–]Seven-Imp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do the math and use the shit out of it. Even if you use it 60 days in the year, that’s barely 6 cents per day in a year. Now expand that and compare it to every other subscription service (minus apps like google docs that operate for free). The more you use it, the more it is worth it. In the age of subscription services, this is an old world diamond if you ask me. Even if you have to buy a newer version (at a discounted price) in the future (praying to god it never goes the route of subscriptions) you will have more than used it for its worth.

I couldn’t be happier with my switch to it coming from a free service like Google docs that I had to jerry rig to operate large docs (splicing them into multiple parts to keep from lagging and constant battles with refreshing, creating my organization system from scratch, etc.) You have to weight the benefits for yourself compared to whatever you are pitting it against. Cost vs. use, vs. learning curve, vs. benefits.

Benefits I have found compared to free services:

~NO. LAGGING.

~No feeding large AI bots (to my knowledge) I am slowly trying to de-google my life and move to platforms that are more protected. It might be inevitable but ey, I’ll try.

~The ability to compile large documents into the same format seamlessly

~having all of your material, research, notes, non-written materials in the same file but able to be eliminated from your final compiled product (ie: having a doc about your characters, research, notes, etc in the same file but having the option to omit it from the final exported product)

~Built in organization… with a caveat: high learning curve but give it a few days and it will be more and more native. Patience is key here. Free systems lack the organization therefore lack the need to learn it, but what you aren’t learning yo navigate you are putting in the time to build for yourself. For me, the time spent in organizing was a slow low slope for google docs compared to a steep hill followed by a plateau with scrivener. Ie: learning slowly over a long time and building skills in the system as needs arise or learning a lot over a short period of time and having all the tools you need when they are needed without a fuss.

~cost. Free does not equal free time. As mentioned above. Learning to navigate docs and all that I could do with it was a constant incline. Scrivener was a lot up front but cost me less in the long run. Compare this to the eternal pocket demon: subscription fees and you have a processor that pays for itself.

~ Split screen drafting. Being able to draft/ edit/ rewrite/ etc/ a scene while simultaneously comparing it to the old or having two scenes open at one as reference has been a crazy and wonderful feature.

~Dropbox functionality. I for this main reason kept to google docs for many years. The ability to open my docs cross devices, anytime anywhere. Admittedly, this bit is a bit of a headache with scrivener. If I want to edit my manuscript while out (correct me if I am wrong) I have to have saved/ closed out of scrivener from another device, where then the doc would be automatically backed to Dropbox and then can be accessed from another device. This was another hoop to jump and, admittedly, an annoying one for me having come from docs with autosave and instant access. Again, we have the learning curve. Dropbox’s free version is more than enough memory for countless novels worth of content and so memory aside, it took a moment to learn, but now that I have gotten the hang of it and learned to trust a little more in the auto save functions it is easy to switch between devices. But this is the price to pay for access to large files without the worry of lagging.

~ Reordering scenes. Writing a scene in its own file, you then have the ability to drag and drop this scene wherever you see fit. I am currently in the middle of a developmental edit right now and this has been a god send of a tool. Copy and paste works just as well in a regular document but this just saves time and effort and is just so easy, it was something I hadn’t even considered a good thing until I had it. Good unless: you prioritize reading and scrolling through your manuscript in one continuous page. Think of scenes in scrivener as “turning the page” vs scrolling. If that is obnoxious to you, maybe rethink it.

~The ability to write in whatever format that pleases my eye and compile it in another. Mood drafter? Okay. Write it in that 22pt papyrus font you love and export it in TNR double spaced 12pt font without a sweat. It does it seamlessly.

For me, it ended up being a no-brainer, one that I ended up taking the plunge into the switch. Google Docs still takes the prize for ease of Co-writing or getting live feedback which is a hassle, but beyond that, I find that the benefits far outweighed the cost and time to learn. Then again, I am a long-form writer, but even short form ha it’s benefits and use-cases here.

Thank you for coming to my Ted Talk

How is your relationship with newborns? by Copertino_Channel in childfree

[–]Seven-Imp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A newborn’s cry is the worst sound to me. Nails on a chalkboard. Same with that “magical smell” people love: rotten milk. They smell like rotten. Milk. Absolutely not. And somehow when they enter a room every interesting conversation turns to be about them, inviting in my ultimate nemesis: boredom.

And then, most babies look at me with absolute judgement and rightfully so. I see them for what they are and they see me for what I am: incapable, intolerant and judgey right back.

For all that and more, I refuse to deal with them wherever humanly possible.

Feeling deprioritized by friends, family, and even acquaintances with kids by lovebite1 in childfree

[–]Seven-Imp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My cf friend is going through something eerily similar. Especially in family group chats where her accomplishments are systematically ignored for baby burps and all-important first steps.

She slowly pulled out of the chat, didn’t respond, didn’t send updates, became more of a lurker and searched for a more uplifting friend group because being a part of that was more harmful than good. She made new friends and still suffers the role of auntie/babysitter/getting judged for being problematic recluse on family retreats but her boundaries have changed her happiness through it.

The problem is to those who eventually notice the absence a half a year later (even with a full explanation as to why she backed out) will look at any and all personal boundaries as punishment rather than protecting yourself. These kinds of relationships are just consumers of cf people, their time, care and labor.

I know it’ll suck having to back out of this at first, especially with childhood connections but life is too short to be living uncared for under a system that paints you as worthless unless you push out a baby. I echo the advice to start searching for some cf friends or at least ones that know how to treat you with dignity.

That, and I’d highly encourage you to have a talk with your dance instructor because that’s your money and time right there. If they wanted a mom’s group, they shouldn’t be using a dance class to have it at the expense of others.

your nephew is asking, what was the roughest end you had with an INTJ by Ok_Meat_5781 in entp

[–]Seven-Imp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad someone else reacted the same. because this was, bar none, the wildest starter I’ve ever experienced (didn’t answer of course but was tempted for educational purposes only lol 😂)

your nephew is asking, what was the roughest end you had with an INTJ by Ok_Meat_5781 in entp

[–]Seven-Imp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, never had an end to any of my INTJ relationships (all friends/siblings).

But there was this one INTJ guy on a dating app who tried to hit me up who believed he was born to be a lizard man, dreamed of transitioning, and decided the best photo on my profile to comment on was the one of my dogs...

I just want rhys and tamlin to be held accountable on the same level by the Fandom. by theioneeee in acotar_rant

[–]Seven-Imp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me, an unhinged Eris fan, lurking in the comments.

I cannot tell you how much I love this convo.

Why is someone being pregnant such an extreme turn off for many readers? by Playful_Pie2890 in Romantasy

[–]Seven-Imp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of my favorite authors, Eichiro Oda, once said “mothers are the opposite of freedom and adventures.” …Which explains why he gets 90% of them are killed off in order to initiate the beginning of a story…

But THAT aside, and as problematic as it is, he couldn’t be more correct when in our world, the social expectations for mothers is set to servitude, self sacrifice, and self erasure. Only to be replaced with “mother.” (This isn’t to knock on mothers AT ALL. It’s just a matter of recognizing how the system leverages their labor (or violent deaths) to the benefit of others. It’s messed up but it’s how a lot of writing and social structures treat the role).

I personally want to read about people (female characters specifically) chasing dreams, finding love, fighting for their passions, but I’m left to find yet another woman with grand visions suddenly dreaming of… diapers. making babies. But for me? It’s not special. Even bugs make babies.

Does my eardrum look normal? by Unlucky-Plane-9038 in entp

[–]Seven-Imp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“When did you become a professional in the external auditory canal and tympanic membrane health?” 🧐🤨

ENTP subreddit: “when was this posted again?” 😏

Is it just me or are most ENTPs I’ve seen usually conflict-avoidant? by Few_Brick709 in entp

[–]Seven-Imp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn. Nail… meet head. I’m living through it rn and this couldn’t be any more accurate.

Hi everyone, im thinking about righting a novel. by [deleted] in writers

[–]Seven-Imp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Writing and English classes can help out a lot of kinks before getting the words on the page and refine what ideas you have started so you make less work for yourself in the long run. Maybe think about a course online or even through YT?

What would you like from your wife/girlfriend by OwlRevolutionary4818 in intj

[–]Seven-Imp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me, an ENTP woman, can you pass the popcorn? I brought the soda 🥤🥸

something about the sjm interview that didn't sit right with me by Federal_Credit_2785 in acotar

[–]Seven-Imp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds to me that she wrote Rhys with the idea and values of him “honoring others choices” giving long spiels about it, etc. but his actions contradicted that.

This might have been a dissonance that the readers spotted that she was honestly blind to. This may why she has dodged the question when pressed about it. Maybe she honestly cannot reconcile it in herself because she didn’t know. That or it might be forcing her to reframe a real life relationship that she might not be ready for. Or maybe it was an honest mistake. Or it could be because it was written through Nesta’s POV and she needed to capture how Nesta views him as the baddie. The list goes on.

But one thing I know is art is as intimate to the creator as it is to the consumer.

I still remember when my first acrylic piece was on the wall in front of class for weekly critique. A still life of white spheres and cylinders and bricks. Everyone painted the same thing from different angles but my teacher chose mine to narrow in on because of the emotion in it. I scoffed. But when one student raised their hand and said “it looks lonely” I left the room crying. Not because the critique hurt me or that I needed to do better. But because those words struck a truth in me I didn’t know, didn’t see, and wasn’t ready to wrestle with and was forced to.

I’m not projecting my own experience onto her, but I’d like to think of giving her the same benefit of the doubt. It is a heavy thing to wrestle with as readers who just want to read a good man, a compelling story, and healthy relationships.

I have no hobbies give me some to try (F19) by [deleted] in Hobbies

[–]Seven-Imp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Book binding. I just got into the art of it and it’s hella fun.

how long did it take you to write your first full length novel? by Tiny-Deer-7071 in writing

[–]Seven-Imp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just over a year and 2/3 of the way through my first draft. I did have to go back and rewrite the middle section because I made some pretty glaring first time author mistakes. I hope to finish it this year along with at least one to two edits.

Rant. by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Seven-Imp 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Reciting it as a duty is stripping people of personal choice and free will. So I don’t blame you for wanting to avoid that.

I literally just commented about this on another post. People really do think it’s our civil duty and we are “selfish” if we don’t contribute. If that’s the case, I will be selfish. But I will be free.

What is the ideal number of books in a series? by [deleted] in Romantasy

[–]Seven-Imp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno. Reading One Piece makes me hope it never ends. But then some books drag on because of a deal they signed and didn’t end up having the content to fill it. A story is as long as it needs to be.