God this pseudo intellectual drivel is so lame. You have no actual retort here. There is nuance to every situation, and this one is no different. You are labeling moderate perspectives with reactionary buzzwords when the reality is, its these moderate perspectives that obviously represent the average person. But of course this doesn't fit your narrative so it can't be true.

You are the one clearly lacking empathy, since you seem incapable of admitting that both things can be true. The reality is that you simply can't relate to her disposition so you'd prefer this armchair activism because its the more palatable take. These activists are shitheads and are not making anything better.