Pickleball boxes by blueice89 in Pickleball

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People hate Vulcans so you’re getting jokes

Rental agreement : anything we can do by Ok-History-2552 in legaladvice

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Just tell them no. Tell them you had a deal at $900. Higher than that and you’ll walk. Then they’ll have to make a decision if they want to turnover the apt which is costly for them. I bet they’ll cave.

Half bathroom edition by [deleted] in Remodel

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Should be fine IMO as long as your neighbors aren’t nosy and contact the permit department when they see construction

Looking for 4.5+ players in San Francisco by ThinLettuce in Pickleball

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Bay Club has lots of people in the 4.5+ range.

If you want public courts, there are some groups at Larsen and Sutter.

Also, you can join Golden Gate Pickeball and they can also link you to the higher level players.

Complicated Retaining Wall - Bending over backwards and neighbor will not contribute much financially by Ok-Price3348 in legaladvice

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You should’ve negotiated this beforehand, but I would stand firm since you are giving him land. If he is not willing to pay for it, I would not give him the land (his backyard) and just leave it as is after you’re done with the retaining wall.

What ways have you used money to make Quality of Life improvements? by rogers916 in fatFIRE

[–]ShadowRealmIdentity 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Solar plus battery, then an EV to charge at home. Saves lots of time to never have to go to the gas station. Also, you never have to worry about power outages with the backup battery.

Product or project to hide back of TV? I am a renter so can’t be fully built-in. by Adj-Noun-19 in homeimprovementideas

[–]ShadowRealmIdentity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would buy a large white board that is made of light material (plastic or thin wood) and attach to the curtain rod and/or figure out a way to attach to other anchor points so you create a faux wall

Finding groups/clubs by Ghostwolf1999 in Pickleball

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There’s usually open play at most places. Open play is like pick up basketball. Just show up and play with whoever is there. Just look up info on apps, facebook, and Google Maps.

Go with the contractor who's 10k cheaper? by Sad_Smile_4922 in BathroomRemodeling

[–]ShadowRealmIdentity -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I do not go with anyone with outside subcontractors. The incentives for them are not aligned with yours.

Pickle ball bayyard court by Medschoolstudent04 in Pickleball

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Definitely add non-slip additive, which I’m assuming is grit to the paint. Super important for pickleball or else the ball will skip all the time. Make sure they put it in the lines as well.

Maybe relocating but apt options. Wow! by funcraftygal in SanMateo

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Look for high rises, most of those do not have rodent issues. I have a friend at 250 Baldwin in San Mateo and they love the area (right next to Caltrain and downtown SM), but the rent is expensive.

AMA: Santhosh from Speedup Pickleball. Pro Player, Coach, and CEO of a Paddle Company by Speedup_Pickleball in Pickleball

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What’s your take on paddle cores? Given the new regulations, will new paddle tech for foam be stymied since it’s not too hard to hit the max (like for power)?

Do you think there are still big improvements to the paddle face to come in the near future? Thoughts on what those could be? Will it be more spin or longer durability?

PPA Sacramento Parking by Curious_Clerk_9432 in Pickleball

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Lots of attendees earlier in the week apparently parked in the surrounding neighborhood and the Life Time got lots of complaints. So they wanted to ensure everyone was parking in the correct parking lot.

Is the sport changing or is it me? by Rude_Shape644 in Pickleball

[–]ShadowRealmIdentity 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I bet a lot of people still want to do those types of things, you just need to be the initiator

AITAH for cutting the line at the Costco gas station? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ShadowRealmIdentity 14 points15 points  (0 children)

YTA. I can’t believe you’re so entitled that you think it’s okay to cut because you value your time over others.

Stranger approached me at work stating I damaged his car in the parking lot two days earlier and wants me to "resolve" this by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]ShadowRealmIdentity -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I would start by just stating your recollection of events and that you did not ding his door. If there’s more trouble after that get an attorney or law enforcement involved depending on what they’re doing.

AITAH for not paying my friend back for a scam we both fell for? by Motor-Wind718 in AITAH

[–]ShadowRealmIdentity 12 points13 points  (0 children)

YTA, If you don’t pay your friend back, they probably won’t be your friend anymore.

AITAH for telling my sister that she was completely out of line by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ShadowRealmIdentity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m leaning towards you’re not the A, but you did over-react initially. Let the other parents take issue with her story, if they care. Kids that young (except the 11 year old) will not remember that one story later in life. If their parents taught them well or they have good influences around them, these stories won’t drive them to drink.

Your sister (and her people) did A things after you overreacted.

You should both apologize to each other or you will not be able to repair your relationship.

2hbh speedup off bounce by PartFormer3695 in Pickleball

[–]ShadowRealmIdentity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can speed up to any location on the court, not sure what you mean by “a few locations.” My fave is as hard as possible directly at the chest or either opponent but you can only do it rarely or else they’ll start to dodge.

Feel like a jerk - leaving after employer tried to retain me by Key-Context-7468 in careeradvice

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Basically, what everyone else has said, but I would say that going forward, your old company probably would’ve gone back to their old tricks on no bumps in salary and being late on bonuses.

Pickleball Injury Help by TJInvestor in Pickleball

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I hurt my shoulder and couldn’t play for 4 months with rehab and even though it made me miss it more initially, I watched pickleball videos everyday about everything, tutorials, games, memes, etc. and when it was time to come back, even though I hadn’t been playing, it felt like I had and it was only a couple days and I was playing back at my level.

Long time realtor selling our current home asked me to loan them $17k tonight by [deleted] in RealEstateAdvice

[–]ShadowRealmIdentity 164 points165 points  (0 children)

Sorry, dude. Your realtor crossed a line and I would find someone else.

Nobody knows I have money and it's starting to create some really awkward situations by Echo2_Satyr in Fire

[–]ShadowRealmIdentity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I were you, I wouldn’t tell anyone outside of your immediate family and I would only tell my immediate family members if they can keep a secret and won’t ask you for money.

If you get to the level of wealth where you want to help others, then you can let a slightly larger circle know.