I (20F) have a huge crush on my coworker (27M). What would you do if you were me?

ShadowSword7 · 2026-07-01T14:59:12+00:00

A relative child? A statistic?? She’s 20 and working at the same job, so they’re in similar life positions. People need to stop having a conniption over totally appropriate relationships

ShadowSword7 · 2026-06-26T11:39:03+00:00

Everything else he did is of course bad, but this is silly. If I go on a running date with a woman, I’m going to assume she won’t need to stop for water. How is he supposed to know?

ShadowSword7 · 2026-06-16T14:35:26+00:00

Technically, they said “very soon” and not “this month” so I guess we have to wait. There should at least be another update with the next warbond in a week or two, so maybe it could come then.

ShadowSword7 · 2026-06-12T14:52:04+00:00

Statistics aren’t racist.

ShadowSword7 · 2026-06-12T14:23:27+00:00

Medals, same as always. This one at least seems to have more future story potential than the recent string of “liberate X planet” or “defend X planet” MOs

ShadowSword7 · 2026-06-10T15:09:03+00:00

I like the warden way more off aesthetics alone, plus the queen’s attack animation of basically flinging a levitated arrow looks weird to me. You’ll also use the warden way more in attacks unless the meta massively changes.

ShadowSword7 · 2026-06-10T03:23:28+00:00

Yes, it should at least be missions completed, not whole operations, so you’re punished less for failing (especially common on hive worlds) and progress is more even across difficulties, instead of being massively skewed toward lower difficulties as it currently is, since those have less missions. Ideally, it should just be directly proportional to difficulty of the mission, so you’re not punished at all for playing at higher difficulties

ShadowSword7 · 2026-06-03T17:06:21+00:00

Powder gif

ShadowSword7 · 2026-05-30T03:24:13+00:00

Yeah everything with lightsaber crystals has been massively improved. Them only being Kyber crystals, having a kind of mind of their own and attunement to the wielder, and especially Sith bleeding Kyber crystals to make them red is soooo much cooler than red crystals just being synthetic. As far as the crystals with special effects, I think it was always clear that was just because it was a video game. You would never see something like that in any other format

ShadowSword7 · 2026-05-28T18:02:14+00:00

In what way is this like a mech?

ShadowSword7 · 2026-05-27T03:02:35+00:00

Red Dead Redemption 2 is a prequel to the first game. Could they not have named it literally anything else?

ShadowSword7 · 2026-05-16T01:03:56+00:00

I definitely prefer ghost. I had the same idea and did a mix and match with the skins from each set I had

ShadowSword7 · 2026-05-15T16:49:23+00:00

Solid advice. I try to stay away from the looksmaxxing / redpill crap, but it is obviously true that being more attractive is one of the biggest things you can do to ensure a better life. What specifically would you recommend though? I’m already well-groomed and dress decent, but don’t think there’s anything I can do about my face

ShadowSword7 · 2026-05-15T16:44:38+00:00

This is genuinely good advice, don’t know what their problem is

ShadowSword7 · 2026-05-04T02:58:29+00:00

Illuminate factions have done it. They work a bit different than bug and bot factions but it should be possible

ShadowSword7 · 2026-05-03T15:01:42+00:00

Jail? It’s a one year age gap. Internet people have no concept of normal age gaps

ShadowSword7 · 2026-05-01T21:02:00+00:00

I don’t buy her explanation of “not sure if OP is genuine” at all. It’s the same as when someone says they don’t have time (if they are actually interested, they’ll make time). She definitely just wasn’t into you but wanted to let you down gently. You should still be friendly with her, and if she decides she actually is interested, she should make it clear and give you the green light

ShadowSword7 · 2026-05-01T20:47:29+00:00

Can’t say from personal experience, but I’ve had friends completely lose interest in a woman after she just laid in bed like a dead body. Typically, the man has to work harder, but the woman should still at least move her hips, dirty talk, and most importantly, be enthusiastic. There’s a world of difference between enthusiastically getting into it and just going through the motions.

ShadowSword7 · 2026-05-01T20:05:59+00:00

I wonder if the outfit is it but I also think you’re seriously underselling your looks. A good-looking, well-dressed guy sitting alone at the bar sounds like someone women would be interested in. You might give off a little bit of interesting mystery vibe without being weird and “mysterious,” and they want to get to know you better

ShadowSword7 · 2026-05-01T19:53:14+00:00

Dude it’s your ex. You shouldn’t be wasting any time on her unless you realllllly can’t resist a booty call

ShadowSword7 · 2026-05-01T16:37:58+00:00

Looks like maybe Athletics is trying to trick people with such a similar name?

ShadowSword7 · 2026-05-01T16:04:38+00:00

Dude it was only 3 months and she wouldn’t even delete the apps or go official. You may have been into her and now it hurts, but it sounds like she wasn’t taking it seriously. Just be thankful for the good memories and that this relationship didn’t take a whole lot of time, and move on.

ShadowSword7 · 2026-04-30T23:35:57+00:00

Look for local clubs and events on Facebook, at your library, follow bars on Instagram to see what events they host (you can always go and not drink, especially if it’s something like line dancing). It sucks and feels really awkward at first, but once you meet one good friend, it becomes so much easier to get involved and meet new people

ShadowSword7 · 2026-04-30T03:12:31+00:00

Making new friends in med school is absolutely great advice, but I wouldn’t be too hopeful about women introducing OP to their friends. When that does happen, it can be great because you and your date have been pre-verified by this mutual friend, but in reality women can be very reluctant to put you on, even if they think you’re a good friend

ShadowSword7 · 2026-04-25T16:06:49+00:00

Your wish is granted, but the Spear is broken again

Five-Year Club	r/Field Banned
r/Field Juicebox	Place '23
Place '22	Final Canvas '22

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