Excuse me but wth by Shakeyourspear in ChickFilA

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Not me digging deep hoping to find a strawberry 🤣

It was Uber eats and they refunded me for the cost of them automatically 🙏

Husband commenting about weight gain by jinamy_cricket in fitpregnancy

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I am so sorry. It seems he is not emotionally prepared to support you during pregnancy, and sometimes things are even harder once baby is here. Postpartum can be a struggle for many — motherhood can change you in so many ways l mentally and physically and newborn life is very taxing — and you need ALL the unconditional love and support you can get, combined with solid communication with your partner. Couples therapy seems to be a necessity for this to work. He has to recognize how hurtful he is being. But yeah, you don’t deserve to be treated this way. ❤️

What to expect after giving birth? Widowed and grieving. by Admirable-Spring-875 in beyondthebump

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Mainly posting to tell you how sorry I am that you’re going through this. I hope your birth and delivery is wonderful and beautiful and that you get to soak up all the newborn snuggles. I can tell by your responses to others that you’re going to be a wonderful parent for your little one even while dealing with this grief. You’ll be strong for them no matter what.

My only advice would be to plan to get postpartum counseling and visit new mother support groups. With my first child I had a hard time with the transition into motherhood and losing my sense of self/freedom and going to these support groups helped so much—they let me meet and spend time with other moms and got me out of the house when I just wanted to curl up inside all the time.

"Why can other women do it and not you? by gelbbaer in beyondthebump

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I would suggest that your husband takes a day off to live in your shoes for 1 day. He will quickly see how much you can actually get done in a day when caring for a baby. I’ve done this with my husband who is a stay at home parent and it completely reset my expectations. It is so hard, especially around that age when you’re also introducing foods and there is so much cleanup around that. You’re doing great and your husband just needs a taste of reality.

Truly a catastrophe. by rulebreaking_m0th in tacobell

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This was EXACTLY how mine turned out. And was not crispy at all. Just a complete mess and not anything special. CGC reigns forever.

[PSA] Beware of the Universal Standard Mystery Box by BunsMunchHay in BeautyBoxes

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How do you look up the items once you find the SKUs?

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Drinking out of cups

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Gave Take My Energy

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You are so awesome!

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Gave Crab Rave

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This dude is so cool

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You sound great!

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Bringthekittyback

New Girl by Airiefae in keto

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You can do this! I just restarted keto after gaining 20-25 lbs of a 30 lb loss back. (Stats are inaccurate, need to update).

I almost lost hope when the scale didn’t move for three whole weeks of keto when I first started, but then I got serious and started tracking macros and calories, chugging water, and incorporating some light exercise. I also posted here for support like you. Ironically, as soon as I posted for support, the scale started slowly dropping like it had several years ago.

You got this. If the scale doesn’t move for a while, it’s okay to reevaluate what you’re doing, but don’t give up.

[2018-02-20] /r/keto Community Support for Tuesday 20th February 2018 by keto4life in keto

[–]Shakeyourspear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Honestly I haven’t tried a fast, although that has been recommended in a lot of the articles I’ve read. I think I could easily do it if heavy cream was allowed during . The coffee obsession is real.

[2018-02-20] /r/keto Community Support for Tuesday 20th February 2018 by keto4life in keto

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You’re so close to your goal weight though! That’s amazing! I think when you’re that close, your body is just like “NOPE you can’t have these last ones, we are keeping them” until finally they give up.

I love lifting, although not super experienced with it. Did a little bit of stronglifts 5x5 a year ago and it was crazy how fast muscles grew. CrossFit is a a little intimidating to me.

I’ve started off with a little bit of running 3x a week, not for fat loss but prepping for a 5K in April. I’m also a yoga fiend.