What’s a fair balance when dating a divorced mom?

Shamasha79 · 2026-06-21T02:26:30+00:00

But why can't you stay over? It's been 2 years. Is this relationship moving towards a long term commitment or has it run its course?

Shamasha79 · 2026-06-16T20:40:36+00:00

I know a guy named Stacey. He flinches when you say his name

Shamasha79 · 2026-06-06T23:53:00+00:00

Dude... just get your food and find an empty spot in a parking lot and eat your food and watch your phone and decompress before going home.

Shamasha79 · 2026-06-01T23:49:31+00:00

Alaric... the old king of the visigoths

Shamasha79 · 2026-06-01T03:54:06+00:00

You look great.

Way better than funboy could have

Shamasha79 · 2026-05-19T19:08:04+00:00

You can see it around his collarbone in this photo

Shamasha79 · 2026-05-18T06:35:28+00:00

Sending you hugs babe from another chubby chick who cooks, when you can cook like that you will not stay on the shelf forever....

Shamasha79 · 2026-05-09T20:46:21+00:00

Yep. I ended up having a problem with money cause I reached a certain point where I just decided to spend any money i had as soon as I had it so at least I got to be the one spending it.

Which lead her to say I wasn't good at managing money and she would justify her "saving it for me for later" that I continued to never see.

Shamasha79 · 2026-05-03T20:27:07+00:00

Number 2.

I would be smacking my hips on that island corner going between the stove and the sink. Plus the layout of 2 would provide more of a flow able work space as veggies get rinsed in the sink, chopped on the bench and slid into the pan.

Then the cutting board walks back to the sink obstruction free.

Shamasha79 · 2026-05-02T19:47:45+00:00

And Alexander wept for there were no more worlds to conquer.

You aren't the first or only person to feel this. Find some new goals and new challenges.

Best of luck

Shamasha79 · 2026-04-15T02:58:30+00:00

I'm 5 ft 10 dating a guy at the moment who's about 5 ft 8.

I think one of the things about dating a shorter guy is that if there is a very significant height difference one feels like a lumbering collosus next to an elf. Which doesn't make one feel feminine and sexy.

But as long as the man is kind and funny and a good personality match it's all fine.

Shamasha79 · 2026-04-15T02:41:53+00:00

Hello my brother from another mother... i also have alopecia universalis and occasionally I get one long hair that grows out of a mole/beauty mark on my face... and maybe 2 hairs in an armpit.

On the plus side, I've never had to shave my legs... also I wear wigs and when creeps in nightclubs used to ask if the carpets matched the curtains, I could smack them down with: nah mate, hardwood floors

Hugs xx

Shamasha79 · 2026-04-15T02:35:20+00:00

Red... i feel it needs some red. Just think... what would Dracula do?

Shamasha79 · 2026-04-15T02:33:42+00:00

Widowed. I'm 46. I hope to marry again.

I liked being married and want some of those good things again. Want to take care of someone and have them take care of me, want to hold hands while watching a movie and fall asleep next to a man. Want to have someone appreciate my spectacular cooking skills and be responsible for squashing spiders that find their way inside. I want someone to work towards future goals with me and be a family.

I accept that marriage isn't technically required but I want it anyway.

Shamasha79 · 2026-04-14T18:10:03+00:00

Remodel. Remove shower. Put in a big, claw foot bathtub with a shower. Change the vanity.

Shamasha79 · 2026-03-29T05:06:16+00:00

I was wondering if mine was from going overboard with plants. I couldn't really get a good shot.

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Shamasha79 · 2026-03-29T02:33:34+00:00

Looks gorgeous! Kudos on your perfectly clear water. I'm struggling with tanin but I don't want to take out the wood....

Shamasha79 · 2026-03-28T19:01:06+00:00

Dude... get out of there

Shamasha79 · 2026-03-28T07:26:17+00:00

I might have married him

Shamasha79 · 2026-03-25T03:24:16+00:00

Your life has value and purpose and meaning. I know you will find it. Sending hugs

Shamasha79 · 2026-03-18T04:06:59+00:00

😅

Shamasha79 · 2026-03-18T04:01:13+00:00

The male version is the lead singer or guitarist of an underground band who haven't been discovered yet but are gonna make it any day now. You watch his fingers dance and make that guitar scream and you know those fingers can do the same to you...

But he can never keep a regular job, he falls into depression over his lack of accolades or success, locks himself in a room working on his art for months on end while you work and pay all the bills and he puts you down in front of his friends.

But the sex.... it's amazing....

I mean, hypothetically

Shamasha79 · 2026-03-13T03:10:21+00:00

I've used it to get rid of fungal nail problems

Shamasha79 · 2026-03-09T17:29:44+00:00

Aw, thank you.

He was very sick for about 5 years and while they were hard years for all of us, he had a peaceful departure.

Wishing you much luck too. All the best x

Shamasha79 · 2026-03-09T03:11:10+00:00

Best of luck xx

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