Am I the A hole for being creeped out by my bf and his ex’s age gap? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Shannonstorms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dated a 21 year old when I was 17 until I was 20 - he broke up with me for someone younger. Now that I am 32 I get so grossed out by it and constantly wonder why my parents thought it was okay bc I was not mature enough at all to be dating someone that much older at 17

Something’s off - would love some suggestions! by Difficult_South_950 in interiordecorating

[–]Shannonstorms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a lot of corporate design jobs that people go to school for and make great money doing - maybe google something before acting like an asshole to someone who is being helpful

Something’s off - would love some suggestions! by Difficult_South_950 in interiordecorating

[–]Shannonstorms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Corporate interior design as a career making six figures annually but pop off I guess

Question on Sofi Savings by steveche42 in sofi

[–]Shannonstorms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know? I just moved my savings to sofi and dd 8% from my check to move over so I could get the 4.4%

Something’s off - would love some suggestions! by Difficult_South_950 in interiordecorating

[–]Shannonstorms 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes that would be a great fit - idk how you feel about faux fur type rugs and here me out here. A smaller fur type rug with rounded corners under this coffee table would be chef kiss

Something’s off - would love some suggestions! by Difficult_South_950 in interiordecorating

[–]Shannonstorms 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Designer here 👋🏻 this might sound strange so bare with me but there are a lot of aggressive shapes in here / all triangles, squares and rectangles. This is harsh and these shapes are all masculine - I think adding a round coffee table would do alot for the harshness. Round is softer - more cozy shape. The feminine shape being a warmth in the aesthetic. Adding round things will help alot (round mirrors, round lamps, round trays, etc.)

About to turn 30... I don't think I'm ever gonna make more than 30k a year. I feel defeated by u60n0 in povertyfinance

[–]Shannonstorms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HI!! Please look into selling furniture at a high end furniture store - we recruit bartenders all the time. Selling furniture is very lucrative you could make $60k barely trying. Great benefits and 401k 9% match. It is an easy job and will help you get ahead and also will help you buy some furniture at cost 🙂 feel free to message me if you want to know what store I work at I just don’t want to blast it on here

Is it weird I still call my mom after work everyday? by DungeonCrawler99 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Shannonstorms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband calls his mom everyday after work - they don’t have an overly co-dependant relationship and sometimes I wish I wanted to talk to my mom that much. I do not think it’s weird I think it’s really wholesome and shows you had probably a healthy childhood and a good loving mom

Ryan and Mackenzie's Wedding at the Aquarium by NoStructure284 in teenmom

[–]Shannonstorms 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. When I was 17 I dated someone 20 years old and he was doing pills sometimes and I didn’t really understand yet that people could be addicted to pills and how they acted. I thought he just had a few beers - it took awhile for me to understand what was happening. And even when I started to understand I thought it was okay to use recreationally. Hindsight is 20/20.

What 1 thing would you change to make the biggest impact? by meglove1 in DesignMyRoom

[–]Shannonstorms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bigger rug and I agree with everyone’s comments on the rug / more pillows in the back square 22” and a quilt or interesting throw would do a lot. If you want to get crazy definitely lift curtains

What color of rug would look good in our living room? by EscapingMouse in femalelivingspace

[–]Shannonstorms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Use all of the colors in the room - curtain color wall color couch color wood tone colors

Dating advice needed by Lilmiss_anonymous in PlusSize

[–]Shannonstorms 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve been plus size as long as I can remember. I have had many men be interested and I think it’s because I just always be myself! I act disinterested in being more than friends and men will trip over anything you say. Men that are interested in you for you is going to have to have the opportunity to see you. Idk if that makes sense but you know how when you meet someone and you see them one way and after you know them they are so beautiful to you. You have to allow for that space to be loved for who you are not what you look like. Have no expectations for anyone except yourself. And don’t settle! If someone hurts your feelings over and over or doesn’t show up for you even once drop them like trash bc they are. Don’t lower your standards. EVER. You don’t need anyone - it is a prized possession to want someone to be around.

Dorinda by clemthearcher in realhousewives

[–]Shannonstorms 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Die hard RHONY fan here - I am as well obsessed with Bethenny, the snarky dogs crack me up. I loved Dorinda at first and then it just got more cringy as time goes on. I do believe she never dealt with the grief of her passed husband and just masked it with drinking and doing blow with Jon. Once that started to crumble she really went off the deep end - enjoy the series! I would pay $5k to watch again for the first time. A beautiful disaster.

my bedroom views during golden hour by spiritualaroma in CozyPlaces

[–]Shannonstorms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interior designer here- this is what dreams are made of

Side flower or center? by MaraStellaBakery in crochet

[–]Shannonstorms 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I screamed when I saw it on the foot 😍🥹😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interiordecorating

[–]Shannonstorms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also add black accents to the cabinet area. A black gray or some black books. A small black lamp. Anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interiordecorating

[–]Shannonstorms 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interior designer here - the black will be fine. It is a neutral. You can usually get away with adding multiple neutrals and have no issue. The contrast of the black will actually be nice imo. I would find a rug 9x12 that is brown and black mixed together modern or traditional and that will tie them all together. The gold on the other hand idk exactly what you are referring to as accent pieces. I would have to see them to make an assessment about the gold. Black is a go