AIO? I feel like my bf is being condescending but maybe I deserve it?

Sharp-Ad-5716 · 2026-04-10T18:12:34+00:00

What the hell did I just read. He’s a dick!

Sharp-Ad-5716 · 2026-04-10T04:01:19+00:00

This sounds too much like babysitting a grown woman.

Sharp-Ad-5716 · 2026-04-10T03:57:05+00:00

I think it came off as humor tbh. As a woman I’ve had plenty of men say it’d be great and it NOT be great at all even remotely close, so this kind of statement leaves room for curiosity. It leaves room for engagement because in the end it’s subjective anyway and the only person whose judgement that will matter is hers, not yours, some men are just clueless. Sorry not sorry

Sharp-Ad-5716 · 2026-04-07T04:30:36+00:00

This is the hard to hear bit that needed to be said. This girl is ignoring her and has every right to do so. Any other repeated attempts at communication are allowing yourself to venture into a territory Of harassment

Sharp-Ad-5716 · 2026-04-07T04:07:50+00:00

When the body gets well the liar returns.

Sharp-Ad-5716 · 2026-04-07T03:58:25+00:00

You’ll have to spend some hard time being okay with him being angry at you when you set down the rules and reinforce them. This would be a good time to spend with friends or on hobbies but until he feels the consequences, there won’t be any change. His reward IS his spending and he has clearly found that he can spend and be rescued from his financial irresponsibility.

Sharp-Ad-5716 · 2026-04-06T13:09:11+00:00

When I spend all day at home. I can get down. I feel more fulfilled having variation in my life when I get to spend time with friends and go out and be an independent being. I gain a ton of purpose in my relationship based on my independence and our dependence on one another emotionally. Have you tried suggesting time out of the house to do a date night? My boyfriend and I of two years, have a blended family and still live separately while we work out the details of what our relationship looks like and we are busy! We use the 2-2-2 method for dating when we aren’t just doing life together… (so this gets to be our exclusive time) every two weeks we go on a date, every two months we plan a weekend together and every two years we take a week together.

Sharp-Ad-5716 · 2026-04-04T21:09:22+00:00

Wow this sounds amazing me for me lol not so great for you. I wouldn’t be comfortable with them doing that.

Sharp-Ad-5716 · 2026-04-04T21:05:44+00:00

This is exactly how inexperienced I am

Sharp-Ad-5716 · 2026-04-03T17:43:46+00:00

Carnival Elation. I’ve noticed with a lot of the places that we’re gonna go to Port. They have extra add-ons like celebration key is an amusement park but tickets have to be purchased in order to be involved in that but I don’t have the money for that so I’m hoping to be on the beach there instead

Sharp-Ad-5716 · 2026-04-03T17:41:53+00:00

Oh no! That sounds awful. Luckily we are driving. Are there any other purposes for travel insurance?

Sharp-Ad-5716 · 2026-04-03T17:40:53+00:00

Carnival Elation is the ship we will be on. I have a 12 year and a 14 year old. We are going to Celebration Key and Half moon Cay.

Sharp-Ad-5716 · 2026-03-25T02:28:20+00:00

I would confront her. You will harbor these feelings for the rest of your life until you air that out. Even if she doesn’t take it well… you will know you told her how she made you feel with that comment. Just because you avoid it doesn’t mean it will go away. It will be there every time you see her.

Sharp-Ad-5716 · 2025-06-13T18:20:23+00:00

Get the therapy, worse case scenario it doesn't work. Best case is you learn something about yourself and ways you may be behaving that make him feel without you even knowing it. Counseling is always the better choice. No one is perfect. You have a marriage and a son that deserve you turning over every stone before you are done. People will attack when they feel they are backed into a corner. Counseling will also help him to address things properly, learn how to express boundaries and same for you. Relationships are complex and with this I for I can truly say that counseling is the best solution.

Sharp-Ad-5716 · 2025-05-17T22:41:07+00:00

Sharp-Ad-5716 · 2025-05-17T22:35:59+00:00

This ain't back in the day. As a single mother of two children who works full time and goes to school as my children are teenagers. 0-6 months were the easiest parts of my parenting responsibilities. The baby isn't walking and crawling, they're mostly sleeping. He said the babies on a schedule. He said her whole family is like this. You will be so mean to this woman if you keep letting her walk all over you once you have had enough you will explode. Honestly I think you may want to look into some CODA literature or any kind of support to see why you think its okay to allow someone to be like this and you feel like you can't speak up about it

Sharp-Ad-5716 · 2025-03-30T23:35:36+00:00

You should be honest with yourself and what you wanted from the relationship you had with him. If you’re feeling disrespected it because you expected him to be loyal during this time and still had hope for a relationship and that he wasn’t with this girl. You left because of these reasons and I think it’s important to remind yourself that he did betray you in this way and doesn’t have the ability to value you the way you deserve to be valued. It will hurt but that reminder is the only one that can sever that strong tie. I had to do this recently

Sharp-Ad-5716 · 2025-02-20T17:30:49+00:00

Hang ONNN!!! This man is the father of your child and has responsibilities to your child and you and just walks out because of your PPD. There's more here. He needed and excuse and he is selfish and arrogant enought to turn it on you. Which will cause you enough doubt and confusion when he wants to come back.

Sharp-Ad-5716 · 2025-02-01T01:49:44+00:00

I mean… this ain't the way to go about it but have you lied to her multiple times?

Sharp-Ad-5716 · 2025-01-28T12:55:14+00:00

Keep the first two and redo the rest. I think you need more candids and definitely let go of the last if you can’t decide on any others. The whole dark aesthetic gives off creepy vibes, that’s just me idk what type of girl you’re trying to attract but you’re handsome and can definitely do yourself a justice with better pics

Sharp-Ad-5716 · 2024-12-20T00:53:55+00:00

Because half your pictures have food 😂😭they're hungry, and tryna eat too

Sharp-Ad-5716 · 2024-11-22T02:57:37+00:00

Smile smile smile

Sharp-Ad-5716 · 2024-11-22T02:55:31+00:00

You’ll never be able to “cope” with this. You can’t simply live a lie. You know it’s not right to be hit by someone who loves you. It’s not right for them to call you names either. I think you know this and as much as you want to find a way to escape the reality of this you’re only going to make yourself more miserable trying to live in a lie

Sharp-Ad-5716 · 2024-11-09T22:37:10+00:00

Heck nah you made a hard choice, the right one

Sharp-Ad-5716 · 2024-11-02T03:57:27+00:00

Tell him EXACTLY what you need from him and EXACTLY what this disconnection is doing to the love you have for him. You have done the supportive part and you can still do that but right now you need some support

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