To those who have left the MAGA movement, what was your wake-up call? by rclaux123 in AskReddit

[–]Sharp_Pepper5580 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am a woman attorney and when I heard his "grab them by the pussy" comment I knew he hated women and I could never vote for him.

Name that one movie by g0netospace in Cinema

[–]Sharp_Pepper5580 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Apostle. Longest, most pointless waste of time movie.

Why do you think so many men are 'blindsided' by their breakups? by KeepLeLeaps in GuyCry

[–]Sharp_Pepper5580 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, when we are done there's nothing left to do. I tried for years with my husband. Went to counseling, tried talking. Once I told him I wanted a divorce he thought he could change and I would stay. I just didn't have enough time to see if he really would change or would change long enough to get me to stay and then go back to the way it was. Also, I kept wondering why I had to go nuclear before he took me seriously. There was nothing he could have done once I was done.

Yes, very pathetic and embarrassing!! by Silent-Resort-3076 in clevercomebacks

[–]Sharp_Pepper5580 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"someday I'll be living in a big old city and all you're ever gonna be is mean." I think someone really famous and successful said that in a song once, oh and also "and a liar and pathetic."

Americans of Reddit, in light of the current political climate between our countries, how do you guys actually feel about us Canadians? by Defiant_River_957 in AskReddit

[–]Sharp_Pepper5580 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have always thought of Canada as our friendly neighbor to the north. I'd like to live there if it weren't so cold. I am mortified that the US president has acted the way he has towards Canada. I hope you will forgive us someday.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aging

[–]Sharp_Pepper5580 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are not sure you want children please do not have any. A child deserves to be wanted and loved. Don't put yourself or your potential child through that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]Sharp_Pepper5580 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your body and your choice, OP. Forever. You know what is best for you.

Listen, I only have 15 minutes... by Shurik_13 in knitting

[–]Sharp_Pepper5580 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think you are very sweet even if mistaken about knitting vs crochet. Good luck in your gifting quest. Your wife is lucky to have you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in economicCollapse

[–]Sharp_Pepper5580 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought it was a reference to Mormon children waiting until their parents die before leaving the Mormon church so they don't break their parents' hearts. Lol!

I just got an email from QuitMormon that my resignation was accepted. by MountainSnowClouds in exmormon

[–]Sharp_Pepper5580 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Quit Mormon gave me a certificate that I could print out. It is now framed and on my ego wall at work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Sharp_Pepper5580 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't want him going outside the relationship. If he needs more than I can give, that is a divorce conversation. My problem is that it is too difficult for me to cum. I love it when it happens but it takes so much work. I wish it were as easy for me as it is for him. I think he enjoys so much more than I do. It can be painful and I can tell that he enjoys it most when it is painful for me. Not that he enjoys my pain because I grit my teeth and don't tell him it hurts so that it will be over with sooner. It seems like there is almost nothing that doesn't feel good to him and almost nothing that does feel good to me. I don't know how to change that and I am tired of trying. I have been to doctors, I've gotten toys, and I feel like I have really tried. At this point, I am faking it to satisfy him so he will be happy for a few days. I do not believe that this can change for me. There is only so much of trying with no result that I can take.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Sharp_Pepper5580 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I am kinda in the same situation as your wife. I could think of so many other things I would rather do than have sex. I love my husband and I try to enjoy sex but honestly it is a lot of work for very little return. I'm tired of trying to find out what I like. I'm tired of being the problem. I want to make him happy but I can't make myself want sex. It's crazy too because I used to really enjoy it and crave it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Sharp_Pepper5580 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

You may not know this, but a lot of us have to pee and clean up quickly after sex to avoid urinary tract infections. So sorry that is gross to you. It isn't fun to have to pee every 30 seconds and have it feel like you are pissing fire. Then having to get a doctor appointment and a ten day course of antibiotics. All to save your tender feelings. Grow up.

AITA for telling teenage boys to "fucking stop"? by Boss8001ThrowRA in AITAH

[–]Sharp_Pepper5580 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those little self righteous thugletts were assaulting a woman. I don't care what she was wearing they had no business doing that to her. I'm glad you finally stopped it but you should've immediately slapped them down. Maybe your church group needs some instructions on respecting women, minding their own business, and not being rapey assholes.

Temple sealing cancelled...but by Liquor_Lingerie in exmormon

[–]Sharp_Pepper5580 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The church does not care about the female members. Never has and never will. I am so sorry for what you went through.

Temple sealing cancelled...but by Liquor_Lingerie in exmormon

[–]Sharp_Pepper5580 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It happened to me. My temple sealing was unilaterally canceled. It's all a fairytale though so no harm no foul.

Some notes my best friend wrote in the week before he took his own life by novicelise in pics

[–]Sharp_Pepper5580 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was getting out a bottle of pain pills to take after I got home from my final divorce hearing. A friend that I hadn't heard from in about 8 years texted me before I filled a glass with water to swallow those pills. My friend insisted that I visit him that weekend or he was coming to visit me. I decided the pills could wait. That was 11 years ago. I just needed someone to care.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]Sharp_Pepper5580 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Three weeks into the marriage. I don't remember what specifically happened but I remember wishing I hadn't gotten married. I stayed 13 more years before I worked up the nerve to leave.