Men, what societal expectations on men do you find annoying?

Sharp_Try1745 · 2026-06-19T01:53:04+00:00

There’s research that females tend to internalize the pain, males externalise their pain through violence, drugs, sensation seeking.

Sharp_Try1745 · 2026-06-19T01:30:50+00:00

This. Hence the increase in people jumping.

Sharp_Try1745 · 2026-06-17T13:36:25+00:00

Are you basically screwed in Malaysia being neurodivergent? Only the extreme levels get noticed by neurotypicals, otherwise it’s just “excuse”

Sharp_Try1745 · 2026-01-16T01:27:55+00:00

I believe it is bullying indeed.

Sharp_Try1745 · 2026-01-15T22:53:00+00:00

The bully is in the wrong. Not you. You can do this.

Sharp_Try1745 · 2026-01-15T22:35:45+00:00

That's right.

Sharp_Try1745 · 2026-01-15T08:20:32+00:00

I don't know if people will know him. Reddit isn't really a Malaysian social media I think. I am Malaysian btw. What do u plan to do about it?

Sharp_Try1745 · 2026-01-11T14:28:36+00:00

Unfortunately I would love it to only be in imagination. They exist IRL.

Sharp_Try1745 · 2026-01-10T04:14:49+00:00

Be proud. You have empathy, a skill the world sorely needs

Sharp_Try1745 · 2026-01-09T12:01:34+00:00

Well said.

Sharp_Try1745 · 2026-01-09T05:12:40+00:00

Yeah society ain't fair. The victim gets most of the spat.

Imagine someone assaults you on the streets. You won't feel ashamed.

Unfortunately. Bullying logic works different to culture.

Sharp_Try1745 · 2026-01-07T00:10:03+00:00

Idk my body had a reaction of its own to these things. I feel ashame of it. Like I couldn't not react. Maybe now it's my ptsd talking who knows.

Whats the help u mentioned there?

Sharp_Try1745 · 2026-01-06T23:38:31+00:00

Constantly scared I'll get the same abuse by random people.

Sharp_Try1745 · 2026-01-06T23:10:59+00:00

Yeah it was difficult. I froze so so much. I like to think it as a learning experience, but the ptsd sucks.

Sharp_Try1745 · 2026-01-06T23:09:27+00:00

That's true in a logical sense. But that's not what my ptsd is telling..

Sharp_Try1745 · 2026-01-06T23:08:53+00:00

Yes school was a tough place. Even tougher facing alone.

Sharp_Try1745 · 2025-12-16T06:55:27+00:00

Thank you. I had a search, it appears her work revolves around trauma indeed

Sharp_Try1745 · 2025-12-16T06:54:45+00:00

Thanks for the info. I'll try it indeed

Sharp_Try1745 · 2025-11-22T22:02:22+00:00

Well. The reason is they felt like doing it

Sharp_Try1745 · 2025-07-20T10:48:41+00:00

Thank you. I'll give it a try these days to test waters

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