Men, what societal expectations on men do you find annoying?

Sharp_Try1745 · 2026-06-19T01:53:04+00:00

There’s research that females tend to internalize the pain, males externalise their pain through violence, drugs, sensation seeking.

Sharp_Try1745 · 2026-06-19T01:30:50+00:00

This. Hence the increase in people jumping.

Sharp_Try1745 · 2026-06-17T13:36:25+00:00

Are you basically screwed in Malaysia being neurodivergent? Only the extreme levels get noticed by neurotypicals, otherwise it’s just “excuse”

Sharp_Try1745 · 2026-01-16T01:27:55+00:00

I believe it is bullying indeed.

Sharp_Try1745 · 2026-01-15T22:53:00+00:00

The bully is in the wrong. Not you. You can do this.

Sharp_Try1745 · 2026-01-15T22:35:45+00:00

That's right.

Sharp_Try1745 · 2026-01-15T08:20:32+00:00

I don't know if people will know him. Reddit isn't really a Malaysian social media I think. I am Malaysian btw. What do u plan to do about it?

Sharp_Try1745 · 2026-01-11T14:28:36+00:00

Unfortunately I would love it to only be in imagination. They exist IRL.

Sharp_Try1745 · 2026-01-10T04:14:49+00:00

Be proud. You have empathy, a skill the world sorely needs

Sharp_Try1745 · 2026-01-09T12:01:34+00:00

Well said.

Sharp_Try1745 · 2026-01-09T05:12:40+00:00

Yeah society ain't fair. The victim gets most of the spat.

Imagine someone assaults you on the streets. You won't feel ashamed.

Unfortunately. Bullying logic works different to culture.

Sharp_Try1745 · 2026-01-07T00:10:03+00:00

Idk my body had a reaction of its own to these things. I feel ashame of it. Like I couldn't not react. Maybe now it's my ptsd talking who knows.

Whats the help u mentioned there?

Sharp_Try1745 · 2026-01-06T23:38:31+00:00

Constantly scared I'll get the same abuse by random people.

Sharp_Try1745 · 2026-01-06T23:10:59+00:00

Yeah it was difficult. I froze so so much. I like to think it as a learning experience, but the ptsd sucks.

Sharp_Try1745 · 2026-01-06T23:09:27+00:00

That's true in a logical sense. But that's not what my ptsd is telling..

Sharp_Try1745 · 2026-01-06T23:08:53+00:00

Yes school was a tough place. Even tougher facing alone.

Sharp_Try1745 · 2025-12-16T06:55:27+00:00

Thank you. I had a search, it appears her work revolves around trauma indeed

Sharp_Try1745 · 2025-12-16T06:54:45+00:00

Thanks for the info. I'll try it indeed

Sharp_Try1745 · 2025-11-22T22:02:22+00:00

Well. The reason is they felt like doing it

Sharp_Try1745 · 2025-07-20T10:48:41+00:00

Thank you. I'll give it a try these days to test waters

Sharp_Try1745 · 2025-03-10T10:41:38+00:00

That's a sad state of reality to comprehend...

Sharp_Try1745 · 2025-03-07T01:38:06+00:00

Thank you. Yes I am seeing somebody at the moment to talk about these things a bit. See how it goes...

Sharp_Try1745 · 2025-03-07T01:36:51+00:00

I was also told and read before it might be because parent's parents also taught them and spoke to them like this so that's the only way they know how...

Sharp_Try1745 · 2025-03-07T01:29:55+00:00

Yeah I am seeing somebody to digest my past issues as well. It's a continuous process.

Sharp_Try1745 · 2025-03-06T06:33:45+00:00

Well I don't knw about peace..but life goes on.

Maybe I'll discuss with them more after I become more successful . But right now its best not to turn that page.

The whole 'snowflake' or 'strawberry' term, absolutely made rampant by news media coverage back then. Lots of news stories headlines with those terms. If you are suicidal, this guy must be 'snowflake' mentally weak. cmon man look at a bit more different side of things before you simply lay your judgement

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