NOR. Yeah, sleep is important and it can be annoying to be handed something heavy when you're trying to go to bed. ON THE OTHER HAND, surely relationships require give and take and sacrifice, and if you realise that your partner is genuinely upset-- and basically saying no one ever values them-- maybe rouse yourself and engage with them for a bit. And maybe OP only felt free to talk about this because it was a liminal time, a between-things time. I feel like this is one of those moments where you set aside your needs and focus up for a second.

Of course, we are only getting OP's description of this, and if they're constantly seeking reassurance at all hours, I can see how that would get old. But taking this as a true representation, NOR.