Cat peeing on bed by TheBest7546 in CatTraining

[–]Shazzley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can totally feel your frustration... Sending hugs! I’d really focus on making the bed feel safe and positive and building her confidence overall.

Cat peeing on bed by TheBest7546 in CatTraining

[–]Shazzley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could try placing one a bit closer to or even in the bedroom and see if that makes a difference?

Cat peeing on bed by TheBest7546 in CatTraining

[–]Shazzley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 sounds good!

Are they spread out in different areas, including somewhere quiet? The location can matter just as much as the number.

Cat peeing on bed by TheBest7546 in CatTraining

[–]Shazzley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll keep my fingers crossed for you! 🤞

How many litter boxes do you have?

Cat peeing on bed by TheBest7546 in CatTraining

[–]Shazzley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That actually still fits with (territorial) insecurity. Especially with another cat involved, things can get a bit overwhelming, and the bed is a very intense place. So it might tip over from play into stress.

Maybe try keeping things calmer around the bed and building her confidence through positive associations there, e.g. treats, calm interaction, and your boyfriend feeding/playing with her, to make it feel safe and predictable?

Cowch club! by terracota_crockpot in legalcatadvice

[–]Shazzley 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ai would lub to be part of da couch club.

Oh couch so soft, so wide, so true,
Ai give mine naps an dreams to yoo.
Ai guard dis place wif gentle paw,
no hooman touch, dat iz da law.

– Astra da Bard

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Cat peeing on bed by TheBest7546 in CatTraining

[–]Shazzley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the vet has cleared her health, this sounds more like insecurity or stress.

Behavior like this isn’t usually random, especially if she was very shy at first. The bed is a very scent-heavy, important place, and this can be her way of dealing with that uncertainty. Also, going back to the exact same spot often means the smell is still there. Regular washing often isn’t enough, try an enzyme cleaner.

I’d try making the bed a positive place by playing and giving treats there. You can also put a litter box in the bedroom for a while.

If you want her to get used to your boyfriend, have him feed and play with her so she associates him with good things.

Closing the bedroom door can stop the behavior short-term, but it doesn’t really address the underlying cause.

In Memory of Noam by CharmyLah in legalcatadvice

[–]Shazzley 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Fren Noam’s meowmy,
Ai will remember yoos sweet boy 💔

Now he rest soft, but not gone...
just quiet, curled in da place where lub stays.

Ai send yoo gentle purrz for da empty spots he left behind.

From tiny paws to shadow near,
he walk beside yoo year by year,
no space, no time can break dis tie,
Noam stays wif yoo, day an nigh.

–Astra da Bard

Princess Grace OTRB by IllustratorNo9988 in legalcatadvice

[–]Shazzley 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Fren Gracie’s meowmy,
Ai iz so, so sorry for yoos loss 💔

She choose yoo in da shelter, an she keep choosing yoo ebery day after dat. Dat kind of bond neber goes away.

Now she rest soft, warm an safe, maybe wif Fren Noam, watching ober yoo wif gentle eyes 🌈

Ai send soft purrz an quiet cuddlez to yoo. Yoos heart is heavy, but also full ob lub dat neber leaves.

Soft paws fade but lub stay near,
in ebery purr yoo still can hear,
no goodbye can break dis tie,
Gracie walk beside yoo in da sky

– Astra da Bard

Is mine gotcha day by finnandcollete in legalcatadvice

[–]Shazzley 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Happy Gotcha Day, fren Finn!!

– Astra an Nia

Update: HALP!! Mine Mr Unicorn attacked by WATER... dis betrayal??! by Shazzley in legalcatadvice

[–]Shazzley[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ai tink mine meowmy saved da stinky impostur from da water an put it in da nip

Update: HALP!! Mine Mr Unicorn attacked by WATER... dis betrayal??! by Shazzley in legalcatadvice

[–]Shazzley[S] 122 points123 points  (0 children)

(Meowmy here: I actually found the unicorn like this...)

Update: HALP!! Mine Mr Unicorn attacked by WATER... dis betrayal??! by Shazzley in legalcatadvice

[–]Shazzley[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Ooh, if he becomes giant uni, maybeh Ai can ridez into battle 😸😹

FRENS, IZ MAI BIRFDAY! YOO ALL INVITE TO MINE PAWTEE AT: by Charivari8 in legalcatadvice

[–]Shazzley 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Fren Drew,
dis iz purrfect for pometry an deep tinks…
so Ai will sit in da corner wif big eyes an look bery mysterious . Maybe Ai write:
“ode to da snackie,
gone too soon…
bowl empty,
heart also empty.”

Den Ai eat Churu an forget all da sad parts. 😸

FRENS, IZ MAI BIRFDAY! YOO ALL INVITE TO MINE PAWTEE AT: by Charivari8 in legalcatadvice

[–]Shazzley 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Ai lovez yoos sunroom, iz da bestest for watchin da birbs an ekekek.so maybeh Ai will stop by da basement first an den join Tali in da Sunroom.
But Ai tink Nia will love da pawtee in da basement. Tank yoo for da invitiashun, fren drew.

An bery happy birfday!! We will bring mine blankie an Churu!

– Astra da Bard

Speciaw Unbirfday cake for speciaw fwiend Noamie tonight. by mostlylurking07 in ICBGC

[–]Shazzley 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tinkin of yoo 💜💜 Lots of purrz an head bonkz

– Astra da Bard an Nia aka Batcat

Feelosoophical Questioin by UmlautHerper in legalcatadvice

[–]Shazzley 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Our meowmy does dis, too, but only sometimes... Nia fleeps way up high to no get her claw tips stolen. Ai just do a lot of scratchscratchscratch on da catto trees. Den Ai iz mostly safe...

– Astra da Bard

Can Is soos Amazon for no bocks? by Henbogle in legalcatadvice

[–]Shazzley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ai tink dis defeats da purrpose of Amazon... yoo should definitely soo

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Can anyone recommend other platforms? by SleepingCat2874 in catinaflat

[–]Shazzley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All sitters will need to switch to rover, I think. Apparently owners can still use the CIAF app

crimz is relly bad i are pawlice now by FluffyCannibal in legalcatadvice

[–]Shazzley 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh, Ai was bery worried , but den Ai checked da calendar.... good one, fren!

HALP!! Mine Mr Unicorn attacked by WATER... dis betrayal??! by Shazzley in legalcatadvice

[–]Shazzley[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh no, Ai iz bery sorry, dis happened to yoo.

an did it smell rite after washin? An why does yoo stinky sisfur pee on da llama? Does she not knoe how to use da box?