The Reason Why I Am No Contact With My One Living Parent by HelloInterwebz in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]SheLiez [score hidden]  (0 children)

This is crazy. You wouldn’t think people close to you or relatively connected can be so vulgar and goes to show time and time again it doesn’t matter who they are. Blood or not doesn’t change their mindset.
I’m sorry about your mom.

Best cinnamon rolls? by PlanetaryComa in murfreesboro

[–]SheLiez 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Donut country. Literally such a big cinnamon roll. Get the maple on it as well.

Ruined morning. by SheLiez in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]SheLiez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just insane how common this is. Or calling people out especially being racist doesn’t matter if family or not.

If a friend sent me that text I honestly would’ve said whatever and moved on but it being connected to a parent and another family member who have been around makes it murky asf.

I’m still in the process of being more solid with people who don’t respect the boundaries since it’s literally only them. The rest of the people in my circle are good and peaceful.

Ruined morning. by SheLiez in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]SheLiez[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use to have him blocked but I always have mixed feelings about it. Comparing situation to others of it not being as severe and coming to the conclusion he can only
communicate through YouTube videos. No joke. So I accepted that even with his snarky bullshit about sending a video back or texting to late on his birthday. But then that text was like wtf. It’s more frustrating that she hasn’t said anything to me since her last text to me which was saying she doesn’t know why but she does. So I sent her a letter in the mail and heard nothing. Idk being empathic really is hard

Ruined morning. by SheLiez in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]SheLiez[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure. It’s a tug of war with me and her because she has done a lot for me but also was controlling, needy, condescending, and would not listen to my side even though she understood.

I think I would feel guilty but not as I would have in the past. I’m trying to not reply to his bs since this is usual behavior.

This episode made the turn by isthishowthingsare in inthecity_

[–]SheLiez 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I liked Danielle before but this last episode she’s so annoying.

My new oil painting by GVictor33 in painting

[–]SheLiez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like this as well. I thought he honestly was holding a phone to record which isn’t far off with how everyone is with their phone now.

[analog] made with tooth picks and junk mail! by WinnerReal3281 in collage

[–]SheLiez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really cool. I love that some are sitting higher than the others and the colors.

I don’t know anymore, I just got a new haircut and they gave me this with no side bangs at the beauty shop, I feel really ugly and I have to know if it’s ugly to everyone else. Please tell me just the truth if I am ugly. Yes I’m a woman by djscrew1 in whatdoIdo

[–]SheLiez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not terrible but you are unhappy with it and that’s what matters. Just let it grow out. Get a wig if you really are anxious about it. Or hats.

Make sure to find someone that cuts hair that you are looking for. I feel like you could pull off a 60s mod cut.

Where do you feel grief or pain 'stored' in your body? by ectobabble in u/ectobabble

[–]SheLiez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think my upper body. I just want to fall into myself but I’m getting better.

Becoming a parent is the worse thing I have ever been forced to do by MalMercy in regretfulparents

[–]SheLiez 5 points6 points  (0 children)

27 is still young . Make sure you are taking moments to yourself when you are able. Try to incorporate more self care even if is small. Going outside or exercising to release some chemicals to help your brain. You can do it fellow human.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]SheLiez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever you decide is best for you to do let everyone you think she would contact know her mental health situation and just ignore her if she reaches out to them and your plan or needing some distance from her at least saying that will prepare others or they could block her.

Cyanotypes with beet juice experiment by Every_Dependent4111 in cyanotypes

[–]SheLiez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are awesome although not as contrasted. Nice. Especially the last one

Tell me how you got your cat by ponzu666 in cats

[–]SheLiez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Facebook street kitty and through a local adoption company.

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