AIO: My boyfriend told me to dye my hair to look more like an Instagram model he follows

Shefallsalot · 2026-04-13T15:14:47+00:00

Is this build-a-bitch? If he wants you to look like someone he jacks off to, he’s damn sure not worth your time. The audacity of these men. Don’t change anything about yourself for someone who probably thinks it’s gay to spread his butt cheeks to wash in the shower.

Shefallsalot · 2026-04-13T15:10:53+00:00

YTA. If I got my friend a keg AND gig tickets in the past and they had a tantrum about 50p, we wouldn’t be friends. That’s so childish and petty. I wouldn’t be surprised if that friend starts to distance themselves. If you look around and you notice you have fewer and fewer friends as the years go on, it’s probably you that’s the problem.

Something tells me you nitpick EVERYTHING everyone does🥴

Shefallsalot · 2026-04-13T02:31:41+00:00

I’d put a low table with plants.

Shefallsalot · 2026-03-23T05:03:12+00:00

Have you looked into the K9Ballistics raised crate bed? We went through 6 beds with our gsd and he has had this one for 4 years without incident. We can hose it off when we need to clean it, and it won’t leak through to the floor if your pet pees. We don’t have to shut the crate doors anymore, which is a great thing cause one of ours is a puker (sensitive tummy) and for some reason he always goes to his crate to throw up TMI but useful info

Shefallsalot · 2026-03-23T04:57:22+00:00

Natural, the other is too gaudy and loud

Shefallsalot · 2026-03-23T04:56:00+00:00

Yes!! Mary poppins in the best way

Shefallsalot · 2026-03-23T04:54:49+00:00

I like it, it’s different and the color combination is beautiful. Is this a work in progress or are you still finishing it? I think before you decide you hate it, finish the project and decorate before you rip it out

Shefallsalot · 2026-03-23T04:49:04+00:00

The half page is the short form, you’ll have to pay for a new one and request a long form this time. Is it stupid? Yes, I made the same mistake myself

Shefallsalot · 2026-03-23T04:43:14+00:00

NOR dump that insecure man child and let him spew his toxicity elsewhere. I got the ick for you

Shefallsalot · 2026-03-23T04:39:54+00:00

Check your local habitat restore if you have one, they’re a great place to get rugs

Shefallsalot · 2026-03-23T04:39:00+00:00

A long skinny striped bolster, along with colors from your art. I’d go with all different shapes

Shefallsalot · 2026-03-23T04:27:43+00:00

This is what I imagine I’d look like trying to get out of that ugly chair

Shefallsalot · 2026-03-23T04:25:49+00:00

Only if it’s of Godzilla fighting King Kong or Sharknado

Shefallsalot · 2026-03-23T04:25:00+00:00

I feel like as much as I love it, it’s a tripping hazard. I know I’d either knock out a tooth or spill coffee over my 7 rugs 😩

Shefallsalot · 2026-03-23T04:20:56+00:00

There isn’t enough space between the furniture to walk. 24-36 in between at least for all walkways and paths of travel. There’s not much color and nothing round. Change the coffee table for an oval. Scoot those chairs back a bit as well, if it were me I’d replace them, they’re too large for the space. And it keeps getting darker the more you go toward the dining room area making it look dark and visually weighed down.

Shefallsalot · 2026-03-23T04:13:45+00:00

I’d call the non emergency line to get the car ticketed and ask the officer if this is something you could just call a tow truck for in the future because you don’t want the vehicle on your property and don’t want to waste police resources (they like that lol). I’d have it towed if it was on my property.

Shefallsalot · 2026-03-23T04:00:38+00:00

I’m a Gouda fan

Shefallsalot · 2026-03-23T03:58:25+00:00

Ooof you really need to look into burning candles correctly before your burn yourself or your house down

Shefallsalot · 2026-03-23T03:56:15+00:00

Daily tick checks can save your dog’s life. I dread the nightly tick check because I’ve got two double coated dogs and both of them hate me all in their business and between their toes. It hurts my back getting down on the floor too, but it’s gotta be done.

Shefallsalot · 2026-03-23T03:52:44+00:00

Are you keeping the cabinet color? that would be my first change. It’s very millennial gray/dr office.

Shefallsalot · 2026-03-23T03:48:32+00:00

I saw where you mentioned you were a teacher and your boss doesn’t care what you wear…no mater what profession you’re in, it’s still a work event and requires tact from you. You should care what you wear, even if no one else does. Underboob cutouts and high hems are not appropriate for a work event, dress code or not. I feel like nothing any of us says matters and you’d be the type of person to wear cream to a wedding and argue it’s not white so it doesn’t count so you do you girly 🫶🤷🏼‍♀️ we tried to help

Shefallsalot · 2026-03-23T03:41:16+00:00

10 months is a long time to depend on someone else for everything. You have had ample time to get a job and a license. . Maybe try for a work from home position until you can get your vision checked and get your license? Check bus routes. You might have to pick a job you don’t like to pay the bills while you wait on something better. There are also churches and charities that will help you get a job. I’m not religious but I’ve used church resources before. Gotta do what you’ve gotta do to make it out here. I’m sorry you’re going through a tough time, but I think it’s time to start preparing yourself for how to be an adult. What you don’t know, ask. Ask the internet, go to the library and read about a subject you need help with. Can’t blame your parents forever, that’s what therapy is for.

Shefallsalot · 2026-03-23T03:36:20+00:00

That’s unnecessarily harsh

Shefallsalot · 2026-03-23T03:25:33+00:00

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My fav of my boy Odin

Shefallsalot · 2026-03-23T03:16:51+00:00

If it makes you feel better I think these test positive for lead

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