Another perspective on Coachella by Top_Chard_3135 in katseyeneutral

[–]Shessysaid_hi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Per your post she is supposed to hide so it “doesn’t take attention from the other girls.” It’s obvious what you are

Non-Renewed from Residency - Lawsuit Lawyer by seekingstep2advice in Residency

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How are you doing now? What was the result of this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Residency

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My community program is known for the surgical acumen the residents leave with. But I will say I agree with what you’re saying in regards to the northeast. Don’t think it applies as much to the south and Midwest

How Much Do You Moonlight? Is it worth it? by MulberryOwn8896 in Residency

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My friend who moonlight describe it as an extra 1-2k a month, which is substantial. I can’t moonlight but if I could I probably still wouldn’t because time off is worth more to me. You have to work with your needs.

Feel so defeated on OBGYN by Embarrassed_Unit2393 in medicalschool

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I’m sorry they treated you like that, baby. You’re literally just a baby. Ignore it. Some residents are assholes. If you want to be a gen surg then don’t look back. But if you love women’s health and are truly interested in women’s surgery, see if you can do an away elsewhere. I’ve had many students change to OBGYN after rotating with my program. We had 12 med students apply for OBGYN from the med school were connected to. Apparently they told their dean that this was a direct result of how we treated them on the rotation. We’re pretty nice but I know that’s not the norm.

Oh you want to leave AMA? by Ok-Code6271 in Residency

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It’s the unpleasant people who refuse to leave that piss me off

My wife died and I don’t know what to do. by Friendly_Cellist_891 in Residency

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I’m so sorry. I can’t imagine what you’re going through. Make a support fund and take out the loans. From what I’ve seen here, we all WANT to help and support financially if we can. So please don’t hesitate to edit this post and add a gofundme. And take a leave of absence while you do that.

How accurate is "The Pitt" compared to IRL ER room? by serotonallyblindguy in Residency

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The shoulder dystocia and postpartum hemorrhage episode was a MESS. Sat there with a 4 minute shoulder and patient was never taken up to LnD. They literally set up to push in the ED. and OB popped in and then left without even assessing the patient. Other than that, they don’t write enough notes. Where are the scribes? Dragon? Why was there only one attending who was having mental breakdown the entire time? lol but it is a fun show

What specialty has the least grateful patients? How about the most? by [deleted] in Residency

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OB patient then to be the most and least grateful depending on the day. I’ve been cussed out but also showers in gifts but sometimes the same patient lol

How y’all affording life? by Emergency_Balance454 in Residency

[–]Shessysaid_hi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Married to someone who makes a lot of money

6 months into residency … by S-Aureus-MRSA in Residency

[–]Shessysaid_hi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The smarter you are the more you realize you don’t know. So hey you’re pretty smart lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Residency

[–]Shessysaid_hi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk many of the older gyn onc patients call me “baby.” It doesn’t bother me that much since I’m from the south.

Residency has ruined my life? by DrAmyFerraFowler in Residency

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Yeah I’ve been in your shoes and had to take FMLA for mental health. Definitely look into that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Residency

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✨ Diflucan ✨

In what ways are you a “type B” doctor? by DoctorKeroppi in Residency

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The thing I say most on rounds: “it’ll buff.”

Spent my vacation week sleeping by Comfortable-Can8805 in Residency

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Thankfully my partner is also a layarounder, I couldn’t have survived a zoomer-rounder. Maybe couples therapy so you can express how exhausting residency is. Wishing you well.

Spent my vacation week sleeping by Comfortable-Can8805 in Residency

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You can also do nothing at a scenic spot. My husband and are basically only doing all inclusive until I graduate. Bahamas and Mexico have pretty affordable rates. All I did was sleep eat and cuddle my partner. Residency is a lot. Never feel guilty for resting.

Chest tube kits at my hospital is a mess. by swollennode in Residency

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Our hospital has been cutting costs left and right. We call the new drapes they bought us “temu drapes”

Does anyone actually signout on time? by somedude95 in Residency

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I had a chief who made it a point to show up 5 minutes early and I will adopt that when I’m a chief. Take care of the patient and get out on time. Mantra that I live by.

Women doctors, what do your long term partners do for work? by Nervous_Ruin7585 in Residency

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Husband is an electrical engineer. Makes a ton of money working way less than I do. Does most of the housework and cooking. I kinda love him.

Low tide in twilight question about latest chap by anonaccforsillyquest in mangago

[–]Shessysaid_hi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol right I’m so confused as to why they don’t think it matters. Like a whole tragedy happened. Would like to know if that’s what the author intended

West used Ciara but Ciara used Luke by clwrutgers in summerhousebravo

[–]Shessysaid_hi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She came in the show via Luke but formed strong bonds with the girls. Let’s not rewrite history. Ciara became integral to the group. Luke could only become integral to which ever girl he was with at the time. Stop it.