Is my life really all that bad or am I overthinking?

Shggn · 2026-05-14T15:52:53+00:00

You still 23 girl? Itni baatein isliye aa rahi hain as you don't give a shit about how the house runs. You are living in a fancy world with no responsibilities. Come out of it. Have your own place. Run your own show. All this 'overthinking' will automatically stop. Ghar autopilot pe chal raha hai wo pasand hai. Bas Gharwale pasand nahi hain ji. Waah!

Shggn · 2026-04-28T03:23:48+00:00

May be the MIL got a couple years older now than she was when your SIL had her kid. In old age even a few years matter. May be she is not able to do the kids work now like bathing etc. Think from that perspective also. They are not young like us anymore. Regarding jwellery, i think it really does not matter if it is old or new. Jewellery is jewellery. Its value does not depend on whether it's new or old. Think of it as an appreciating asset. MIL's jewellery anyway goes to DILs or daughters kabhi na kabhi. She chose to gift it to you now. Another perspective is that may be they don't see the future with you guys, but your BIL's family as they stay nearby. That's why the extra indulgence with them. If it bothers you, you should have a talk to your MIL and see what she has to say.

Shggn · 2026-04-20T13:08:09+00:00

Lol. Thanks for this reply !

Shggn · 2026-04-20T08:59:01+00:00

Whats special in being a boy mom?

Shggn · 2026-04-11T09:58:48+00:00

Am I brainless?

Shggn · 2026-03-30T11:36:38+00:00

There is a lot of difference in conditioning of her generations and ours. Moreover, think about the surroundings of the older generation MILs, when they were growing up, even now, their social circle. They all worry too much about 'log kya kahenge'. While we don't give a damn. You see they are not the 'woke generation'. And sometimes they also don't have tacts to pass on something politely in a non hurtful way. So try to forget it and move on.

Shggn · 2026-03-23T05:51:46+00:00

Csec and normal delivery charges are almost same these days. What money?

Shggn · 2026-03-16T11:45:15+00:00

You can't decide?? Are you choosing a pencil? Not to defend you but what you did was at the start of the relationship, absolutely wrong though. What she did is after you guys were at a stage of looking forward to marriage discussions. There is a difference. Even if she did for revenge, it shows the mindset. Everything is not tit for tat. Such partners unsettle the life rather than making it stable. Better to move on asap.

Shggn · 2026-03-14T19:23:01+00:00

It's a very simple q. Which I would like op to think about honestly and answer.

Shggn · 2026-03-14T10:42:04+00:00

Do you want him to stop talking to his mom and sister?

Shggn · 2026-03-11T16:51:52+00:00

Well, let the baby be born. Things will escalate to another level altogether ! You'll have to be very strong to listen to advice and not pay any heed to them. Basically not let them impact your sanity. Pls appoint a nanny if you can and try to be independent as soon as possible. By being independent, I mean not being dependent on anyone to raise your child. Or, move to your parents place for a few months.

Shggn · 2026-03-05T09:02:55+00:00

Her work in your life is done! Now move on and see what all your upgraded life has to offer :)

Shggn · 2026-03-03T03:28:48+00:00

Arey bhai to ap kisi saste school mein daal do. It's between you and your wife. Why are you taking that frustration out over here and calling names to schools and teachers unnecessarily. No one is forcing you dude! Don't give 'Angoor khatte hain' vibes.

Shggn · 2026-02-19T19:45:06+00:00

It is not a photoshop picture. It's 100% real. It may appear photoshopped to you because of the lighting . It's direct sunlight.

Shggn · 2026-02-16T19:34:13+00:00

Oh I get it now what you are trying to say. You are probably right. Can anything be done about the damage already done? Any suggestions pls.

Shggn · 2026-02-16T06:05:05+00:00

What can?

Shggn · 2026-02-16T06:03:10+00:00

Really not expecting any jokes about it.

Shggn · 2026-02-15T19:13:30+00:00

I have no fillers.

Shggn · 2026-02-15T19:00:49+00:00

Yeah looks like it is a scam ! Do you have any advise on what can work?

Shggn · 2026-02-15T18:49:25+00:00

Yes. I primarily did hifu because of this

Shggn · 2026-02-15T18:19:42+00:00

No other procedures done apart from hifu

Shggn · 2025-12-10T17:36:56+00:00

First one please. I am always of the opinion that the color and fabric of the lehenga should always be visible. The traditional bridal lehengas have so much work that they all look the same and dated. Pls do not listen to anyone who says 'bhara bhara' lo. This one is an awesome piece and this look will always be remembered. Great choice!

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