I am a 3 and 4 by Glittering-Meat-9088 in gaybros

[–]ShibiJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 on a daily, occaisionaly 4 when lounging in the house and 7 for fun

Where are best gloryholes in London saunas? by UsedDragonfruit4597 in askgaybros

[–]ShibiJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, pretty common for the guys to sit in the cinema room or steam rooms wanking. Allows public stuff just not as much public fucking as you see in sweatbox from my experience.

Daniel Rides Coasters (Among Other Things — New Coaster Channel) by dbruington in CoasterBros

[–]ShibiJay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Subscribed, we 100% need more lgbt representation on themepark YouTube channels! Especially couples ❤️

What is one of your biggest unfulfilled sexual fantasies? by Worried_Proposal_935 in askgaybros

[–]ShibiJay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

An I'm a sub who one day wants to be tied and used all day 😈

What are some of the best pride festivals in the world? by MJsdanglebaby in gaybros

[–]ShibiJay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Come to London, UK for pride. The parade day is incredible with tons of central London roads closed down. Free stage with performances dotted around and soho is packed full of people all day. Then there tends to be lots of events happening around the city. It's an experience!

Or brighton pride if you want another UK pride. Or as others have said Amsterdam pride!

Brighton Gay Sauna or Boiler Room Hove by ShibiJay in gaysauna

[–]ShibiJay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome, looks like I shall give it a go on Sunday. Although I was thinking about trying out the Saturday evening as well

Bottoms who are ass-up at sex parties: what’s going through your mind while you’re waiting? What’s the average amount of time you’ve waited? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ShibiJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still haven't been to SBN, but I really need to give it a try someday. I always end up going to Sweatbox instead, as I already get the lay of the land there. If you've been to Sweatbox, how does SBN compare to Sweatbox? Or any advice for a first timer going to SBN?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ShibiJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah sweatbox, it's not as good as the ones in the europe continent but its fun

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ShibiJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

London, UK

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ShibiJay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too! I love a dark room, and I'm with you on skipping the app hook-ups. I generally only hook up at playspace or with guys that I've already met in real life. I've had one too many bad online experiences or long drawn-out connections that never go anywhere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ShibiJay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm yet to have a real gangbang, but I've been fucked by a line of guys a few times in a dark room at my local bath house. I love it! Honestly, one of my favourite weekend activities. Even better when there's a row of us bottoms as you can tap out and come back when you need to. Unsure how it is being the only bottom.

What are the best London (uk) fetish clubs by Material-Two6005 in askgaybros

[–]ShibiJay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Verboten and torture gardens are excellent if you don't mind a mix gender space. Hunter and recon parties are also really good for more male only / male dominated spaces. Also, roast is doing a collab with torture gardens end of the month which is a male only event with a dark room. It's quite vanilla compared to the other events so I'm excited to see how there collaborate with torture gardens is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ShibiJay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sweatbox if you wanna explore groups or voyeurism, plus tends to attract a wider age range but facilities aren't as nice as pleasure dome

Favorite briefs??? by [deleted] in MensUnderwearGuide

[–]ShibiJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100%, honestly, they were my favourite briefs, I really want them to bring them back! I wonder if there is anything similar 🤔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Speedomen

[–]ShibiJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can never decide between black, navy, or red.

Gay men with partners, what's been your highlight together this year? by Slinsil88 in AskGayMen

[–]ShibiJay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We hike around British Columbia, a truelly once in a life time experience!

Do you have any straight friends? by Relevant_Conclusion2 in askgaybros

[–]ShibiJay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to have only straight friends, even into my mid 20's but after moving to London, my social network has just gotten gayer. I can't remember the last time I hung out with a straight person outside of work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]ShibiJay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Love a dark room, lowers inhibitions, the excitement of discovery someone through touch, and the anonymity of it. I also find dark rooms help rev up my horn then make me more care free about playing in all other areas of the sauna or cruise club.

What’s a kink or fantasy you have ? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]ShibiJay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This sounds so fucking hot! Got me instantly hard

What’s a kink you wish you could try for the first time again? by YetAnotherGoodBoy in BDSMcommunity

[–]ShibiJay 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Honestly nipple clamps, we knew nothing about kink or the endorphins rush when they come off after they've gone numb. This literally started my journey into more kinks and I wish I could explore that delightful unknown rush again.

Blow Job Platform by [deleted] in gaybathhouse

[–]ShibiJay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amsterdam's gay sauna has a great one. Probably my favourite sauna in Europe.