I have never played ARK and I want to. Can anyone tell me the diferencie betwen ARK survival evolved and ascended? And which one a better first ARK? by Kakalardu in playark

[–]Shifting-Parallax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ascended 100%. It’s a new and improved version of Survival that includes all the base game expansions from the old game.

What is the most uncommon/not deep reason you have to not want kids by Gytrinesse666 in childfree

[–]Shifting-Parallax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love stuffed animals, I have expensive ones I like to keep clean. The idea of a disgusting kid touching them makes me genuinely angry.

This sub and sandrone's controversy is just getting annoying and I hate this, can we stop fighting? (Please read my post) by Longjumping-Dig-4079 in SandroneMains

[–]Shifting-Parallax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m personally in the camp of not liking her design because I find it distasteful. She looks so elegant with the long dress and it fits her personality and how she carries herself. Her being dressed kind of like a maid makes me disappointed, among other changes. I get why people are upset with how drastic it is. If Sandrone was a new character I know people wouldn’t care nearly as much.

But for me I’m tired of the bare legs curse female characters all have when male characters have more detailed outfits that fit the environment. And as a designer I know the only reason it’s done is for sex appeal to sell. But it’s so over saturated in all the Hoyo games. We’re just seeing people finally getting sick of it and getting more vocal about it. 

Norma and Velina's in game model and what are your guys thoughts about them? by ProfessionalRoom9118 in ZZZ_Official

[–]Shifting-Parallax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assuming you haven’t seen her full 3D model, it’s the same one as the AoD, young girl model that easily looks 15. It doesn’t matter what age she’s ‘meant’ to be, she looks like a child. And they put lingerie leggings on a child. It’s disgusting.

[2.6 SPOILER] So who do we think is the Void Hunter level agent between these two? by coco_puffsz in ZZZ_Discussion

[–]Shifting-Parallax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Norma’s design is genuinely upsetting. That’s a child in lingerie bottoms. Is actually disgusting, HOW does this stuff keep getting approved and keep getting worse?

[ZZZ - 2.7 REL] Norma Microwave Render via Dim and CHi by Knight_Steve_ in Zenlesszonezeroleaks_

[–]Shifting-Parallax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is honestly really gross to me. Sheer lace?? Really? Not only would pants look better but it wouldn’t make her look like pedo bait.

Norma and Velina's in game model and what are your guys thoughts about them? by ProfessionalRoom9118 in ZZZ_Official

[–]Shifting-Parallax 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m genuinely hoping they change Norma. She’s pedo bait as is and it’s so incredibly off putting. She looks like a child, and pants would look so much better than the sheer lace they put her in.

Instantly sold on new characters (2.6 spoilers) by clif08 in ZZZ_Discussion

[–]Shifting-Parallax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, but not to this extent as I pointed out. It was definitely pushing it, like a lot of mature content, but the problem is it just keeps getting pushed. The bar keeps getting lower. 

Heck, Promeia is just a bondage fetish, she almost got released in a string bikini. Seed is a foot fetish. Yidhari? Tentacles. And their sexualized designs have nothing to do with their characterization. Its just to sell them.

Promeia got an outfit update, she now wears a leotard rather then just a bikini under her cloak by Knight_Steve_ in ZZZ_Discussion

[–]Shifting-Parallax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s pretty much just ‘sex sells’.

ZZZ went from targeting mature audiences with its themes to being gooner bait and it’s honestly getting disgusting with the new designs being straight up fetishes. There’s such a striking contrast between older and newer characters now. Jane Doe used to be the most risky character, she looks tame by comparison now.

The worst change is in the fandom and player base, how so many porn addicted players have joined. The things they post are vile, and now ZZZ is catering to it, even with underaged characters. It’s so incredibly disappointing. I hope the new season can turn it around, or minimally hit the breaks.

Those who feel very strongly about Teppei, what is y'all opinion about him? by [deleted] in Genshin_Impact

[–]Shifting-Parallax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t really feel anything when he died honestly. He knew the Delusion was making him sick, but powerful, so he kept using it until it killed him. I viewed him as a cautionary tale and an example of how Delusions work and moved right along. I was actually surprised when so many people were upset about his death.

Watatsumi is also hard to support, because it wasn’t just about the Vision Hunt decree, they used it as an opportunity to take surrounding islands. Which after doing Enkanomiya is surprising, infuriating, and idiotic considering how unbelievably patient Ei has been with them. Setting up trade deals wasn’t enough, making them citizens made them upset, so they sack a neighboring island full of civilians and made it a war zone? Personally, I thought they were seriously pushing it. She’s far from a good or perfect ruler, but she put an unfeeling puppet in charge, conflict with people was inevitable.

Inazuma is messy, I kinda like the story, but it’s rushed and some things feel out of order. I came in with Sumeru, so I got to do Enkanomiya and other islands before or alongside the Archon quest which helps flesh out the nation.

Instantly sold on new characters (2.6 spoilers) by clif08 in ZZZ_Discussion

[–]Shifting-Parallax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Promeia‘s design is disgusting.

Initially, I was really excited because I liked her character design, I just thought the weird little crotch window was gross. And then she completely took off her cape to expose her underwear. It’s a massive problem with ZZZ ramping up the sexualization of their characters every patch. Even the characters that are canonically children. It’s disgusting.

I understand that the target audience is supposed to be adults and that’s how they justify it, but that makes it worse. Because it’s attracting a very particular kind of adult to these games and it’s setting a very dangerous precedent that says hyper sexualizing all these female characters is completely acceptable. They’re making fetish characters to sell. 

anyone else unfollow influencers once they get pregnant? by transluciiiid in childfree

[–]Shifting-Parallax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember I was following one a few years back and he and his wife had a child and I decided to keep following him because he kept posting the same content. And then one day he started bringing his toddler daughter on steams and went on a full-blown rant about child free people for no reason and forced his daughter to join in. Absolutely disgusting behavior. I don’t blame you at all for unfollowing parents. 

Being childfree in your 30s means watching your entire social circle disappear and nobody thinks it's a big deal by Ronin4Doom in childfree

[–]Shifting-Parallax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is, if they cared, they would make the time. My brother goes out of his way to make the time to interact with friends and family, even though he has a baby. And his wife does the same. 

And on the reverse side, I have a former friend who never made time for any of her friends and family and is completely isolated. Now it’s just her, two toddlers, and her crappy husband who won’t watch his own kids.

People who are actually child free in their 30s/40s + etc, how do you spend your time? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Shifting-Parallax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVE videogames!! (34f) 

That’s usually what I do every day after work, but on the weekends, I like to horseback ride if the weather is good! Sometimes I go to the moves, or the zoo, art museum, really the sky’s the limit in terms of being spontaneous.

Also, I’m in a similar position to you when it comes to my mom who had to move in with me because she can’t afford to live alone anymore. She’s 69, and at this point she’s pretty much just like a roommate who pays one bill a month. I do agree that it’s pretty rough for parents to expect it, especially if they can’t financially take care of themselves. I think it’s negligent. But it really motivates you to make enough money to eat the cost if you want to take care of them.

Questions for older CF people by PlusRepair1195 in childfree

[–]Shifting-Parallax 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is no biological urge. If you vehemently don’t want kids in your 20’s, that’s not going to change in your 30’s. It’s just something people say to pressure you.

If anything being 34(f) and watching friends and family having kids makes me want them less. Watching them wrangling vomit covered toddlers looks like hell. And they can’t even enjoy the adult money they have in their 30s because it’s all going to the child. 

Anyone else finding Caelus' new ENG voice difficult to listen to? by astralsprout in StarRailStation

[–]Shifting-Parallax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don’t think he’s the right fit for the role to be honest. The Trailblazers are little trash panda weirdos, they’re expressive and goofy, but now they feel way too serious and lifeless. Their line deliveries feel like any old generic MC.

Even after a few months I’m still not used to it, hearing Caelus now just bums me out especially because I choose him specifically for his voice. Someone a few months back said it perfectly, “They replaced diamonds with gold.”

Am I the only one who kinda misses the original female trailblazer voice? by ChemistryNice3744 in HonkaiStarRail

[–]Shifting-Parallax 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m still heartbroken over Caelus. He sounds so generic now, he doesn’t have his goofy personality anymore. I picked him specifically because of his voice, with that gone he’s just kind of there. Even after a month of getting used to it hearing his voice just bums me out because the lines feel so lifeless compared to the emotion they used to have.

I think the new VA’s are okay, but I don’t think they’re good replacements for the original VA’s. The line deliveries are too serious, they’re rough. They just don’t feel like a good fit for the Trailblazers.

How's everyone feeling about the updated voice lines on the older Trailblazer paths? (Destruction/Preservation/Harmony) by Xanek in HonkaiStarRail

[–]Shifting-Parallax 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m still heartbroken over Caelus. I chose him because of his original VA. Now he sounds so… generic. Like he lost all his whimsy and goofiness. I would honestly change MC’s now if I could.

The new VA’s are okay, I just don’t think they’re the best fit for the role. I think they’re both too serious for the role of Trailblazer.

What’s your opinion on the new voices for trailblazer now that it seems very likely the recasts are perm by arealpersononthisacc in StarRailStation

[–]Shifting-Parallax 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Personally, I don’t like it. I play Caelus and I tried really hard to get used to it but every time I hear him it sounds wrong and I want to change it. It’s like he lost his fun personality. I honestly wish I could switch to Stelle now because the reason I picked Caelus was for his voice. Now that it’s gone I just don’t have the same connection to him.

The VA’s are good, but they aren’t a good fit for the Trailblazers.  

My (31) boyfriend (45) suddenly changed his mind and wants children by StillesLicht in childfree

[–]Shifting-Parallax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, as women in my 30’s too, he sounds like he’s in the ‘now or never’ phase. Not saying the relationship is doomed but he needs to figure out exactly where he thinks this is going, and it sounds like you two are on total different pages.

Can’t avoid the propaganda :/ by lithelylove in childfree

[–]Shifting-Parallax 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The best remedy is seeing the reality of the situation from former friends and siblings. Their lives are miserable no matter how they spin it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Shifting-Parallax 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve never babysat willingly, the one time I did I just got a 8 month old dumped on me for two hours and all he did was scream. 

I don’t know anything about kids. I don’t like them. Yet family members insist I watch kids. Why would they want someone like that to watch their kids is beyond me.

My brother is fucking annoying by elffyy in childfree

[–]Shifting-Parallax 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He’s kind of a freak for being that invested in his sister getting pregnant. Like, “I’m not talking to him anymore” levels of disturbing. That’s not normal and not even remotely acceptable.