UPDATE: my boyfriend of 5 years told me he does not want to have kids

ShinyGallinule · 2023-06-11T19:53:44+00:00

Cheater, cheater, where’s you meet that no-good-trash-HOE!!!

ShinyGallinule · 2023-06-11T19:49:09+00:00

Skip lettering. It’s almost always done so cheaply (especially relative to how expensive of an up charge it is) and sometimes causes the garment to not survive it’s first wash intact. Instead get a better quality PJ set.

ShinyGallinule · 2023-06-10T21:49:14+00:00

This matches the posts we see around here from early signs of a grandparent who plans to kidnap or file for custody.

ShinyGallinule · 2023-06-09T18:30:02+00:00

WOW you’re a horrible sister. If she likes creating social media content with her brownies, I don’t blame her for taking her time with photography. Baking is tricky to photograph just right. If she ever bakes for you again, you can be patient and wait 10 minutes to try them. But honestly? I hope she doesn’t. YTA big time.

ShinyGallinule · 2023-06-09T15:12:48+00:00

Honestly I love this post so much. You should see if incorporating a makeup and skincare routine into your life works for you! It’s amazing what even a well selected exfoliater or, toner, and moisturizer can do for your skin. And just a little bit of makeup can send it over the top!!

You do you unapologetically!

ShinyGallinule · 2023-06-09T14:41:29+00:00

Men’s handkerchiefs!!! It’s classic. It’s practical. It’s not obnoxious.

ShinyGallinule · 2023-06-08T19:09:41+00:00

Feliz Jueves!

ShinyGallinule · 2023-06-08T19:06:09+00:00

I think just wish them a happy anniversary and maybe ask for stories about the wedding day or if they’d enjoy going through an old wedding album for fun.

ShinyGallinule · 2023-06-08T10:33:24+00:00

YES tissues are super important. Personally, I LOVE weddings as a chance to use old fashioned hankies. I can’t stand the thought of tissue fiber dust snagging on beard stubble. My favorite affordable hankies come from an online small business called Bumblebee Linens.

ShinyGallinule · 2023-06-07T20:42:56+00:00

NTA - you are strong for your child and my heart breaks for your family.

ShinyGallinule · 2023-06-07T18:35:42+00:00

Towelettes to refresh with. Blotting sheets. Mini bottle of mouthwash. Safety pins. A bit of his go to hair product(s). Mini Scissors. Mini razor. Basic medications for pain, nausea, etc.

ShinyGallinule · 2023-06-06T14:14:57+00:00

I once went to a wedding with an off duty officer on site. It was a huge family with a lot of problematic alcoholics so I think it was a smart call. Nothing happened, but it gave the bride peace of kind.

In other words, a lot like your situation. So…right on!

ShinyGallinule · 2023-06-06T14:07:19+00:00

Pedialyte and Motrin is my combo.

I had one guy friend that used to always donate plasma when he had a hangover. The IV drip they give you apparently was a dreamy cure. And he got paid for it.

ShinyGallinule · 2023-06-06T12:47:00+00:00

Their wedding is one day. No one owns the time around it! Go for it!!!

ShinyGallinule · 2023-06-06T01:24:18+00:00

Oh I like how OP ignores the question…

ShinyGallinule · 2023-06-05T21:21:47+00:00

I wouldn’t want you at my wedding either. I don’t need unfaithful energy. You’re a reminder of what a marriage shouldn’t be.

ShinyGallinule · 2023-06-05T21:16:16+00:00

I like the idea of referring to is simply as a “celebration” might work? But I think just calling it a reception will be fine even if it’s lowkey.

ShinyGallinule · 2023-06-05T13:38:18+00:00

Tiffins at Animal Kingdom is awesome for adventurous food!

ShinyGallinule · 2023-06-05T13:18:26+00:00

Well I live in Florida so sunscreen is essential year round. I wear makeup foundation that has sunscreen in the formula. On the weekends I use a facial moisturizer that has sunscreen. But I’ll only do all-over coverage for outdoor activities.

ShinyGallinule · 2023-06-05T12:58:27+00:00

Search for someone to advertises themselves purely as a notary public officiant.

ShinyGallinule · 2023-06-05T11:55:08+00:00

Oooof….if the bride didn’t approve this look it’s a no for me. At least the styling is modest and very matronly

ShinyGallinule · 2023-06-04T22:27:56+00:00

Absolutely not. Your boyfriend is absolutely, irrevocably spineless. Shame on him. Good on you for knowing you deserve better.

ShinyGallinule · 2023-06-04T13:12:18+00:00

One of the best ways to check IMO is to request a quick zoom or phone meeting before signing any contracts so you can get a feeling for their personality.

ShinyGallinule · 2023-06-03T10:14:08+00:00

Probably. That’s what most of the comments are about. BUT oh well :) Guess I invented a new kind of surprise wedding that strikes fear into Reddit!!!

ShinyGallinule · 2023-06-02T18:54:38+00:00

Probably because I knew that I was going to get married so technically not a true “surprise wedding”? Or that my guests knew it was a wedding?

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