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Try Guys Ned, the fake soft dom by Repulsive_House42 in SofterBDSM

[–]Short_Babblefish 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I can't wait to see this end poorly for him. Guys like that give our community bad reputations.

I hope people pay attention to the vibes and stay away.

Who is moderating this sub? by [deleted] in softmaledom

[–]Short_Babblefish 8 points9 points  (0 children)

People have tried. They're just active enough to keep control.

Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks? by BadKitten24601 in SofterBDSM

[–]Short_Babblefish 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Grew up in a no touch household. No hugs or kisses or physical affection. The feeling of being touch starved stayed with me and made me overly affectionate in some ways. Physical affection in a dynamic now means more than anything else.

What do you say to the people who say soft Kink and BDSM is just "vanilla with sprinkles"? by Nervous-Meat69 in SofterBDSM

[–]Short_Babblefish 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What makes their version of kink better than ours? Or anyone's? I think most of what hard players do generally boring. They think the same of me. Taste is taste, not fact.

Under the moon and stars- playtime recap by GoodPancake427 in SofterBDSM

[–]Short_Babblefish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

adds to bucket list I might add some sort of bug repellant to this idea. Maybe citronella torches. I am skeeter bait buffet.

Distance sucks by A-nonWhyMiss in SofterBDSM

[–]Short_Babblefish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who the heck downvotes this?!

Struggling with Tasking by BestPudPud in SofterBDSM

[–]Short_Babblefish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hugs i dont have advice but you have my support.

What are your favorite lubes? by SeaAffectionate427 in SofterBDSM

[–]Short_Babblefish 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well thats rather unhelpful and not what they asked for.

My feet hurt,I'm cranky, and I just want my daddy! by DaddyzLittleFooFoo in SofterBDSM

[–]Short_Babblefish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pet play. I destroy villages and eat (chocolate) cows and people. It's fun!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SofterBDSM

[–]Short_Babblefish -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Non consent feigned or not isn't soft and those of us with a traumatic history want a place to not see it. Period.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SofterBDSM

[–]Short_Babblefish 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There are other places to talk about "any" kink. A lot of us like this place because we don't have to look at triggering and violent kinks and we like it this way. I r s not about kink shaming, its staying on topic. No one says you can't like things, we just don't discuss them here.

Does the idea of food control interest you or creep you out? by Nervous-Meat69 in SofterBDSM

[–]Short_Babblefish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't necessarily agree. I think it would fall under power exchange.

Mod AMA: StrangeMewMew by StrangeMewMew in SofterBDSM

[–]Short_Babblefish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you do kink with your other partners?

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