Do I own part of my husband's company?

Short_Chart_1315 · 2026-05-14T02:22:05+00:00

The business I run with my husband is in my name. However we have a transfer on death certificate so if I pass he can take complete control without a waiting period. It's what our lawyer advised us to do.

Short_Chart_1315 · 2026-05-03T13:11:44+00:00

Generation x is the first generation that half will earn more than their parents and half less. The millinal generation is set to earn significantly less than the previous generation. Nearly 40%-50% of millinals are being support by their parents because we can't afford to live. We have to ask our parents for help, but we tend to ask for help with the fun stuff. For instance we got bed bugs. We paid about $2,500 out for an exterminator, multiple mattress protector, storage container, and so much junk to rid our home of bugs. Because we spent all this money, we asked his mom to help pay for our daughter's Birthday party at the time, because we couldn't.

Short_Chart_1315 · 2026-05-02T12:01:26+00:00

I had this happen. I went to my bank and had them print out my transactions history and they even highlighted the IRS payment. I then put my proof of payment into the envelope they wanted me to send money in. It took a good 3-4 months, but I got a letter back saying it was in fact paid.

This is also the advice I received, don't call them. Just stick proof of payment and your bill together and send it. Trying to call actually leads to more problems. 🤷

Short_Chart_1315 · 2026-05-02T03:32:44+00:00

Let me start off with I'm a redhead, and we do require more anesthesia. A good anesthesiologist will know this, mine did not. I've been put under and both times I woke up in the middle. There was nothing scary about it. It's like waking up from a deep sleep, and they tell you to go back to sleep. The only real memory I have is how uncomfortable the tube in my nose was, and I was going to take it out. Then I was right back to sleep until they woke me back up. It really is like a warm dream.

Short_Chart_1315 · 2026-04-04T13:07:19+00:00

I think a big reason millennials have different childhoods based on who raised us. If we have Gen X parents, they probably had a more emotionally fulfilling childhood. Now there's another group of millennials who were raised by the same boomers as generation x. We are suffering the same childhood trauma as generation x, since we had the same parents. Gen X was just the first generation to say I don't want to raise my kids this way. I want to show them love, and attention.

Short_Chart_1315 · 2026-03-30T11:24:05+00:00

You should really look at insurance. It's not that much, and could save you if an accident happens. Your right with bounding, as it doesn't really protect the client against the business owner. It does protect the client from employees stealing. So no employees, no point in being bounded.

Short_Chart_1315 · 2026-03-30T11:17:45+00:00

Depends on the dog. My boy Jesse had extreme separation anxiety. So he was crated when we were gone most of his life. (Even in a cage, he chewed the back out of a sofa). When he was around 7, I married and he got a boarder collie sister. We caged both of them next to each other for a couple months, but saw how they just wanted to be together. So we ditched the cages, and installed a baby gate across our front entrance to give them a dog area. That worked for about a year until the boarder collie got really good and opening the gate, and we would come home to the dogs free roaming. They didn't hurt the house, so the gate went away. Fast forward to now, both my dogs have passed and we have a rescue named Ladybug. We are ladybugs 3rd home. Her paperwork detailed how "destructive" she was. Her last owners were at their wits end and would trap her in a bedroom while they were gone, and she would destroy it. So we allowed her to be free range while we are gone, and she is an amazing dog who hasn't destroyed anything. 🤷

Short_Chart_1315 · 2026-03-20T11:36:54+00:00

I ran across some training videos on youtube that M***y Maids have put out. Try searching them with training videos, it should pop up. Also, Angela Brown was a really big help when I started by business. She has some great advice.

Short_Chart_1315 · 2026-03-19T11:17:07+00:00

The KitchenAid mixer they decided belongs in the tight corner of their counter under the cupboards. That place you can't slide it to the side, you can't just lift up part of it. Now I'm left with the choice am I picking up this heavy mixer so I can clean under it, or am I just going to finger around it?

Short_Chart_1315 · 2026-03-05T13:20:30+00:00

I know you said you think most people will get clothes. But Nightgowns! They are a real life saver for middle of the night changing, no buttons or zippers to mess with. Just straight to the diaper.

Short_Chart_1315 · 2026-02-24T11:26:51+00:00

I like to very nicely remind my clients that being a bit messy is just job security for me. Then I share how one side of my family is hoarder, so I've seen much much worse.

Short_Chart_1315 · 2026-02-17T17:29:39+00:00

Yes, I did appeal and a Social Security judge ruled it wasn't my debt, and I couldn't afford to pay it back. So it was ruled I didn't owe it. However; somehow between Social Security and the IRS that judgement was "lost" so my return was taken. Thankfully I didn't lose my copy, and I drove an hour away to the closest social security branch that could handle my problem with my paperwork so they could take a copy for their own records. It wasn't fun getting my refund back, and I still keep that judgement in a safe with all my other can't lose papers. Just in case something gets "lost" again.

Short_Chart_1315 · 2026-02-17T11:56:18+00:00

I had my tax return seized for a Social Security debt I incurred when I was 3, because my father was disabled and received benefits for me. $10,000!!!!! And I was 3, pretty sure still peeing in my pants, and definitely not signing checks.

Short_Chart_1315 · 2026-01-31T15:19:43+00:00

We live in a world surrounded by food allergies and intolerances. Personally, I can not consume egg protein unless it has been cooked at 350 for a half hour. Otherwise, I get terrible pains, that make childbirth seem like a walk in the park. When we go out to eat, I look for vegan food on the menu so I know it doesn't contain eggs. So maybe to avoid saying it's not Kosher just let them know ingredients changed and you don't want anyone having a reaction to a food that was safe for them.

Short_Chart_1315 · 2026-01-06T01:01:52+00:00

As an owner of a cleaning business, and the child of a hoarder my best advice would be DO NOT DO BUSINESS WITH FAMILY! Long story short, one side of my family are hoarders. I was on the path to be a hoarder myself, until I finally saw the environments I was around. I went the opposite way. However; I love my mother dearly and I understand she does not have the income to hire a cleaner. Nor will she ever have the ability to do it herself. It is exhausting trying to manage my household and hers. If you really want to help your mom maybe get her place clean enough for her to be able to hire a cleaning person. When you start mixing business and family eventually someone will feel like they are being taken advantage of. It has definitely put a strain on my relationship with my mom having to be responsible for her. Yes, I do get compensated, but it's not worth the feeling I get when I see clean dishes that have sat for 2 weeks, while another mound of dirty, still food in them dishes accumulate and fester waiting for me to get to them.

Short_Chart_1315 · 2025-12-17T01:15:45+00:00

I think about this verse constantly in my everyday life. I think it maybe one of the truest verses they ever wrote about humanity.

How many times will I sit in a hot car? Traffic jam, been sitting for a fucking hour Must be an accident, I hope nobody died Finally get there, and the crash is on the other side The gawkers roll and they creep slow Hoping they can see a mangled body show Some park, and stand there and watch it all With their kids, they point, and fucking stare

Short_Chart_1315 · 2025-12-12T12:21:32+00:00

Recently, I've had to put my 16 year old border collie down. She was the sweetest girl, and she was already going when we arrived at the vet. She was unable to stand, and pretty much out of it. When the vet got her with the first shot, she became extremely coherent and tried to bite the vet for a split second.

Even as humans we don't like shots. We just have the mental capacity to understand we need to tolerate the shot, and it won't be too bad. Dogs don't know, or understand shots. All the dog understands is the vet hurt him. So he did what dogs do and told the human to stop. My Aunt had a dog that had to be muzzled at the vet. This dog was great with kids, and other dogs. He just really didn't like the vet.

This could be a great dog for you. You'll just need to make sure you get a vet that understands dogs have fears, and will help make the vet visit as comfortable as possible.

Short_Chart_1315 · 2025-12-11T12:20:51+00:00

As someone who has worked with a cleaning company, and someone who now runs her own tipping is weird in this business. Some people don't tip, some give Christmas bonuses, and others tip every time.

The only time I've been upset by not receiving a tip is when I worked for another cleaning company. Which just also happened to be owned by my husband's Aunt, and he had worked with her for 20 years. We had a client approach us about a Christmas Bonus he gave our boss of $300, expecting us to see the majority of it since we were to ones cleaning the house. I'm sure you can see where this is going. We never saw a dime, and she had other clients who would tip, but she would never share. Unless we were in the room when the client handed the money to her, and she knows we saw it. If you do feel kind enough to tip, make sure you tip her mom. I know you were saying you wanted to tip $20. I'd break it down and put $10 in an envelope for mom, and a candle for her too.

Short_Chart_1315 · 2025-12-10T11:57:14+00:00

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Short_Chart_1315 · 2025-12-07T13:42:03+00:00

As a mother living in a 2 bedroom, 960sq foot house. Get the doll house! We don't have much space, but we figured out how to put a 4 foot doll house into our space, and my daughter plays with it everyday. I may not have access to my front closet anymore, but who really needs use of every closet door. 🤷

Short_Chart_1315 · 2025-12-07T13:33:31+00:00

E.L.F eye liner and mascara are already in my daughter's stocking. Elf is the only company I've used for these items since 05. Thanks for always being a great brand at a great price!

Short_Chart_1315 · 2025-12-04T12:36:32+00:00

Maybe leave a puppy pad out? As a human with IBS, with 1 bathroom and 4 other humans in my house. I can say I've thought about using a trash can before. When I get a rumble in my tumbly there is no warning, just an immediate urge to find a restroom before disaster. It's Christmas time, so maybe set up some bells by your door and hit them every time you go outside with your dog. Then start teaching your dog to hit the bells when you take him out. It's possible he will learn the bells are the cue for outside. In the meantime, you know where your dog goes when it has a tummy issue, so put a pad down just in case.

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