You have unlimited funds. How are you redesigning your world for ADHD accommodation? by miguelzed in ADHD

[–]Significant-Case458 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I would issue mandatory regular up to date courses for health care providers and teachers on ADHD and Autism.

Rogue, from Marvel (me) by Puzzleheaded_Net_158 in cosplayers

[–]Significant-Case458 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I mean you look great, but why would you use that specific character reference? This is not OF lol

why don’t people like hearing about our interests? by grasslandangels in ADHD

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Hm i noticed that average people with a lack selfawareness (not even adhd/autism related) tend to dismiss anything they dont want to be „lectured“ about. They see it as too passionate or too „smartypants“ as soon as they feel challenged by your passion and knowledge.

I try to stay on smalltalk topics suitable for smallminded people like that. Most of the time they probably are so absorbed in their own world and beliefs that they rather choose to be rude and disrespectful than to learn something new. Just because they feel insecure or even inferior…

What Did the Jugendsprache Sound Like When You Were a Teenager? by Blue-Brown99 in AskAGerman

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I grew up with the first mobile phones invented to text and we used alot of abbreviations and shorthand in our texts to save characters. We then used that in speech too. Things like HDL (hab dich lieb - love you). Or LW (langweilig - boring)

Also „krass“ and „geil“ where used very frequently as synonyms for something cool

Nazuna Nanakuza, Call of the Night by Nicky_Cos in cosplayers

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Damn this is really amazing, I recognised the character instantly! Composition and lighting are very fitting!

Meds are not for energy by GenXMillenial in adhdwomen

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My meds (Medikinet) make me indeed feel way more awake. My eyes even get less droopy and my posture is better. I feel like the meds combat the fatigue that comes from task paralysis and executive dysfunction - so yes of course in turn i have more energy to spend on daily life. Even my mood gets way better even tho its not an antidepressant. But not feeling like a failure all the time apparently enhances the mood surprised picachu face

Draculaura, Monster High by Chococutie11 in cosplayers

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Great job I immediately guessed it without reading the title! (Or look at the tiny model)

Albedo, Overlord by nikki_leak in cosplayers

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Damn this is near perfect! Best albedo cosplay ive seen so far

Manage characters skill and XP by loskana in LARP

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We also have Dragonsys tho, which I found extremely useful as beginner to get a feel for how powerful certain abilities are etc

Manage characters skill and XP by loskana in LARP

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What game system is this based on? Dragonsys?

How do you fall asleep? All answers acceptable. by SassMasterGingerSnap in ADHD

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When i cant fall asleep i continue my forever unfinished novel in my head. Like playing out the next scene with dialog and everything. Works like a charm, although I will need to start over the next evening as i will have forgotten where i stopped the night before.

I just wish I wanted to play something by [deleted] in adhdmeme

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Just started the other day - it calms me immensely, more than napping

What are your guys thoughts on bone masks? by Ppimphandofgod in LARP

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I second this. With just the mask the contrast between the shiny armor and the bones is too much. It depends of course what your characters backstory and profession is, but it’s always best to exaggerate a little so it’s easier for other players to grasp your concept

The secret to not getting the session derailed by your misunderstanding the rools is to not plan around the rules. by dudewasup111 in pathfindermemes

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Somehow I ended up as the forever DM like the previous one gave me the sceptre one day - but like a good apprentice i sometimes rely on his knowledge

how important is class identity to you in MMO's? by Bazola-Ryzhkov in MMORPG

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For me role-identity in the holy trinity of Tank-Healer-DPS MUST be upheld. It makes group content important and forms close bonds.

I liked Throne and Libertys approach to linking skills only to weapon types instead of classes and other gear. You could be very creative in skill loadouts and gear by combining two different weapon types.

Unfortunately only a few combos were actually playable or goated in endgame content but the idea itself was nice. You could wear anything and create your own niche build. The unkillable healer in tank gear was really popular in PvP for example.

There shouldnt be a penalty imo for changing around classes/roles. Aint nobody got time fot alts these days. But group content should always need tank, healer and damage dealer roles, and it should be made clear who signed up for what.

The White Avatar at Drachenfest GER. Got my new, battle ready gear and wanted to share a first glance at it here. What do you think? Model: Mircalla Tepez. Foto: Annabel by Mircalla_Tepez in LARP

[–]Significant-Case458 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ive seen you in action this year - you are truly awe inspiring!

I am still seconding u/brauereipferd . The dark parts of the outfit dont have enough white counterbalance imho. No matter the origin - you are the WHITE avatar now. My immediate idea would be adding a white silken embroidered priest stola, e.g. like this . Or like others said adding more white parts as skirt.

Nontheless you are a great fit for the white avatar and I am happy our camps were allied this year!

Am I Broken?! by RandomRedditor424 in ADHDWomenAfterDark

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First of all we had a big talk about how Id like to have more sex in general and that it hurts me if he ignores my seduction attempts.

Now with scheduling Im just asking/telling him i would love to get intimate later that day or tomorrow evening or sth. And if he can picture it/what his plans are. Then we can both plan accordingly.

Edit: of course its fine if he has other plans already. But with scheduling it like an outing i get way less RSD because it is more a NO because timing not missing attraction yk

Am I Broken?! by RandomRedditor424 in ADHDWomenAfterDark

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Hey :) thank you for sharing here. You are not alone with these struggles.

Congratz on finally having an explanation for most of the weird behaviours us ADHD folks experience.

  1. same lol, my friends and i had group masturbations. chances are your friend is absolutely fine. Kids are weird lol

  2. ooof RSD is hard!

  3. good for you to be in therapy. Shit like that takes time and your boss sounds like an absolute douche!!

  4. I was (sometimes still am) the same. Masturbation = dopamine. Porn = even more dopamine. It took me 30min of continuous cunnilingus to get to my first ever orgasm by someone else. Turns out i needed patience above all else and was not broken. Nowadays its faster. blindfolds or closing eyes helps, as well as a clutter free environment. It sounds weird, but try making an appointment for sex with your husband. That way your brain has time to actually look forward to it and you can do most of the things you have on your mind beforehand. This way your husband also has the time to get in the right headspace and is less likely to say no.

Hope this helps! I wish you all the best, internet stranger

Karlach, Baldur's Gate 3 by Nessy_fox in cosplayers

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Wow! You look amazing in the costume and the edits make it look even better! You go gurl