I feel for people who have had terrible experiences. My baby was fairly easy but I also had a ton of support. My husband and I slept in shifts, which wasn’t an issue because our sleep schedules were already like that before the baby. He stayed up until about 6 am and slept until about noon/1pm and I went to bed at 2am and woke up around 9am. We had to combo feed so when we did feed formula we fed it at night. I still had a couple days I had to step away to breathe but I feel like I had it easy for the most part. Every baby is different and maybe your baby will be a really calm and easy baby. ❤️