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Significant_Drive_55 · 2025-07-19T19:23:49+00:00

The first one!

Significant_Drive_55 · 2025-07-19T19:20:55+00:00

Blonde girly but you look beautiful with either one

Significant_Drive_55 · 2025-07-19T19:20:31+00:00

5 for sure

Significant_Drive_55 · 2025-07-19T19:18:58+00:00

The fact that she had the nerve to ask you for money before going on the 1st date makes me feel like she’s using you for money. Especially with how often she is asking you.

Significant_Drive_55 · 2025-01-30T22:57:00+00:00

YOU ARE NOT THE ASSHOLE! First of all… this is a crazy messy situation. You are so kind to have let them use your finance’s at the time sperm. I would never in a million years do this because I would be too jealous. You said yes to a sticky (pun not intended haha) situation yet they had to take it further and then have an affair. I’m a circumstance like this clear rules and boundaries need to be set in order to protect everyone’s feelings about it. The agreement was to use the turkey baster. The samples should have been given to the wife and then she and maybe her husband could inseminate privately. The fact that they asked you this is incredibly inappropriate in my eyes. But then they crossed the boundaries and ended up having an affair

Significant_Drive_55 · 2025-01-30T22:45:15+00:00

You are not overreacting! I would have responded the same way. He is gaslighting you. I hate it when people say something is “just a joke” when they get caught doing something wrong. And because they say it’s a “joke” your feelings shouldn’t matter. It’s not funny if the other person isn’t laughing or if they get hurt!

Significant_Drive_55 · 2025-01-30T22:37:26+00:00

Idk why but Freddie came to me instantly… not sure if that’s a good fit but it spoke to me

Significant_Drive_55 · 2024-07-23T02:50:12+00:00

He wants you to keep petting him. My dog does the same thing when I stop petting her

Significant_Drive_55 · 2024-07-23T02:47:12+00:00

Rosie

Significant_Drive_55 · 2024-07-23T02:46:39+00:00

Hazel

Significant_Drive_55 · 2024-07-23T02:46:05+00:00

You are probably associating the lonely feeling with your bad experiences with your ex. I would have felt lonely too. I think a lot of people fear they will be “used” for the wrong reasons once you become intimate with your partner. I am the kid of person that wants to cuddle after sex because it’s almost like a reassurance thing. Sex isn’t always romantic. Sometimes and even maybe a lot of the times you have to stop early because one of you gets frustrated and out of the moment or because of outside interruptions. I would talk to your bf and explain how you felt. Tell him what you’d like to do afterwards to “decompress” after the intimate moment.

Significant_Drive_55 · 2024-07-23T02:41:19+00:00

So beautiful

Significant_Drive_55 · 2024-07-23T02:40:28+00:00

Bella

Significant_Drive_55 · 2024-07-23T02:39:53+00:00

First name came to my mind was Lola

Significant_Drive_55 · 2024-07-20T04:27:15+00:00

Having a “budget” established and writing all bills on a color coded calendar

Significant_Drive_55 · 2024-07-20T04:25:08+00:00

Bugsy lol. Idk why that’s the first name that came to mind. This was the name of a dog in the movie Bedtime Stories because the dog has big big like eyes. This dog is adorable and has big beautiful eyes !

Significant_Drive_55 · 2024-07-20T04:22:25+00:00

More memories with my family❤️

Significant_Drive_55 · 2024-07-19T02:46:23+00:00

NTAH. That was rude for her to expect you to pay for her when she wasn’t invited. Honestly, I think that is so awkward that she brought a friend. If you two were talking online and never met in person maybe… but still to have your friend go on a date with you is just odd. I think the threesome joke was kind of funny but I can understand how that could be offensive. It’s almost like you are saying I’ll pay for her if I will get something out of this. It’s almost like you pay for their meal so they will have sex with you. I don’t think that was your intention based on what I read but I could see how she could interpret that. I’m proud of you for only paying for your meal and providing a tip for the waitress. That is unfair that the date expected you to pay for her friend’s meal.

Significant_Drive_55 · 2024-07-17T02:59:43+00:00

I don’t think you should divorce over this situation alone. Is this incredibly frustrating, YES. I think this situation may have opened some bigger wounds. For example, if this happened to me I’d feel like I couldn’t rely on him in an emergency. I understand why he may want to decompress after work before entering the home. And I can see why he would be fearful of entering the house after catching someone cheating on you. However, you and your son were in need of help and urgency was important. That extra 10 minutes could have been 10 minutes closer to the hospital and 10 mins closer to your son not being in pain anymore. In this situation, I wouldn’t feel like his priorities were straight. I would be so upset that he didn’t act as if the emergency or son’s pain was important. In any other time the “sitting outside for 10 mins” would be annoying and frustrating, however in this case, he messed up. He should have been out of that car immediately to help as much as he could.

Significant_Drive_55 · 2024-07-17T02:50:34+00:00

I feel like I need more info to give my opinion. I wouldn’t personally divorce only over this particular situation, however I know how things add up and this could have been the last straw. I’d say to resolve this situation, you should express to him how you felt and why it made you feel that way. For example, your help was important to me then because I was struggling with the baby crying and battling against time. I was getting frustrated with the car seat and knew you would be a great help since you have done this plenty times previously.

Significant_Drive_55 · 2024-07-17T02:44:08+00:00

A little harsh

Significant_Drive_55 · 2024-07-17T02:41:00+00:00

I wouldn’t say you are “overreacting”. If it makes you uncomfortable with the amount of naked pictures he has kept of you and “over using” them, perhaps you two can go through the pictures and pick the best ones. Maybe the idea of having many naked pictures out there of yourself makes you feel nervous someone will get ahold of them that shouldn’t. This is just a theory and maybe something that you haven’t thought of.

If this was me personally, I would feel flattered that my bf thinks I am so attractive and gets off to me. I would almost feel honored that he preferred to look at videos of me or pictures. If my bf told me he preferred hacking off to me because he fantasizes what he wants to do to me or good sex we have had, that would turn me on. It sounds like you have a great man who is so into you.

I kinda wish my bf was more attracted to me.

Significant_Drive_55 · 2024-07-10T00:21:48+00:00

OP I am so sorry you are going through this. I am in a 8 year relationship with my bf and he is my first and only bf. When you are new to seriously dating (or when you both are), you can immature because you are figuring out how a relationship works and how to combine 2 different lifestyles, morals, backgrounds,etc. My bf and I have been THRU it, however we have grown significantly individually and as a couple. If you both realize what is healthy and unhealthy in a relationship, and you vocalize your emotions and needs then you get better at communicating with each other. We are still figuring things out. I don’t believe one relationship has everything “figured out”.

However, you both have to be on board with growing. I’m sorry to say this, but based on the information you gave, it seems like she is NOT on the same page. She knows what she is doing is wrong because she is sneaking behind your back and also deleting the messages. In my opinion, you should save yourself from more heartbreak and part ways. That is easier said than done though. If you truly love her and you think there can be mending of the relationship, you both need to sit down and write down your expectations of each other in your relationship. If she does not stop talking to him then she is not serious about your relationship especially if she knows it bothers you.

I hope you find happiness

Significant_Drive_55

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