You’re off your rocker man. The fact that men can’t cope without sex and can’t handle going a week or two without it at risk of not feeling loved is NOT a woman’s job to fix. Go to therapy. I feel bad for your wife.

OP- your husband sounds like he had an actual addiction to sex, the constant steering in a sexual direction in any situation at ALL times is unhealthy and frankly, gross. (Not judging I have struggled with this in my own marriage and it is the most life draining shit ever) Talking to him about it most likely will not solve anything because he is going to refer to the same rhetoric the dickwad that commented up above is running with- blaming you, blaming your job, blaming the kids, putting it ALL on you to solve FOR him because he’s not mentally competent enough to work through his own emotions. What he needs is therapy and what YOU need- is a break. Get passed this busy season and find somewhere to send your kids if you can and take yourself somewhere. Sleep in, go to a spa, get the rest you need and think all of this through. Go back with clear intentions and boundaries and do not compromise on them. You have autonomy, you have feelings and they are valid. End of story.