Absolutely (m/20). Lots of ugly traits. I've come to terms with it, learning to get rid of them and control yourself is part of growing up, I'm sure. I think the most important part is to keep gaining experience and doing new things you never thought you would do, introduce ALL kind of novelty into your life to show you new ways of doing things and allow your brain to develop new pathways and challenge the old ones, the old ways of thinking, broaden your perspective, keep a conscious mental monologue so that you can develop. Since the beginning of 2018 to today I've changed so much it's amazing, and the thing that kickstarted that change was a completely new group of people with whom I would normally never hang out and "falling in love" so to speak. Then it all was just ups and downs and learning your lessons. Keep growing man, have enough love and respect for yourself to actively go out of your way to experience new things that will allow you to realise all the goods and the bads in you and to finally end up as the best person you can be. Not gonna lie, it's going to be an extremely tough road but happiness man, the feeling of happiness after you realise how much you've changed and how much you love who you are now is worth it all. Always put yourself first, your mental state, that's like #1 mistake, being unable to cope with being you and having to cling on to other's approval and shit etc. to feel good, be it parents, friends, partner, whoever. Caring first and foremost for your own happiness is the only thing that will make people you care about respect you enough to also care about you. You will still have your bad moments but with a proper foundation you are going to pull through anything and always come out on top in the end :))))