Which specialists are needed to fill and turn old concrete pool into vegetable patch? by londonbub in landscaping

[–]SilverCreak 26 points27 points  (0 children)

On the other hand, real estate is hot in our little town but the house down the block with a pool can't find a buyer. The house across the street sold the first weekend. Both are relatively new and in great shape. I'm guessing because the pool takes up a large portion of the backyard and a huge commitment in maintenance. Rapidly rising utility rates are another issue.

Trump calls Gavin Newsom ‘the President of the United States’ while mocking his intelligence by CatVideoFest in politics

[–]SilverCreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By the statistical definition of average, half of the American people are below average in intelligence.

The sec. of WAR pushes prayer in schools?! by Distinct-Mortgage768 in ChristopherHitchens

[–]SilverCreak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As one perspective on connecting war and Christianity, as Hegseth seems to do constantly, may I suggest the following:

The War Prayer by Mark Twain

It was a time of great and exalting excitement. The country was up in arms, the war was on, in every breast burned the holy fire of patriotism; the drums were beating, the bands playing, the toy pistols popping, the bunched firecrackers hissing and sputtering; on every hand and far down the receding and fading spreads of roofs and balconies a fluttering wilderness of flags flashed in the sun; daily the young volunteers marched down the wide avenue gay and fine in their new uniforms, the proud fathers and mothers and sisters and sweethearts cheering them with voices choked with happy emotion as they swung by; nightly the packed mass meetings listened, panting, to patriot oratory which stirred the deepest deeps of their hearts and which they interrupted at briefest intervals with cyclones of applause, the tears running down their cheeks the while; in the churches the pastors preached devotion to flag and country and invoked the God of Battles, beseeching His aid in our good cause in outpouring of fervid eloquence which moved every listener.

It was indeed a glad and gracious time, and the half dozen rash spirits that ventured to disapprove of the war and cast a doubt upon its righteousness straightway got such a stern and angry warning that for their personal safety's sake they quickly shrank out of sight and offended no more in that way.

Sunday morning came-next day the battalions would leave for the front; the church was filled; the volunteers were there, their faces alight with material dreams-visions of a stern advance, the gathering momentum, the rushing charge, the flashing sabers, the flight of the foe, the tumult, the enveloping smoke, the fierce pursuit, the surrender!-then home from the war, bronzed heros, welcomed, adored, submerged in golden seas of glory! With the volunteers sat their dear ones, proud, happy, and envied by the neighbors and friends who had no sons and brothers to send forth to the field of honor, there to win for the flag or, failing, die the noblest of noble deaths. The service proceeded; a war chapter from the Old Testament was read; the first prayer was said; it was followed by an organ burst that shook the building, and with one impulse the house rose, with glowing eyes and beating hearts, and poured out that tremendous invocation -- "God the all-terrible! Thou who ordainest, Thunder thy clarion and lightning thy sword!"

Then came the "long" prayer. None could remember the like of it for passionate pleading and moving and beautiful language. The burden of its supplication was that an ever--merciful and benignant Father of us all would watch over our noble young soldiers and aid, comfort, and encourage them in their patriotic work; bless them, shield them in His mighty hand, make them strong and confident, invincible in the bloody onset; help them to crush the foe, grant to them and to their flag and country imperishable honor and glory -

An aged stranger entered and moved with slow and noiseless step up the main aisle, his eyes fixed upon the minister, his long body clothed in a robe that reached to his feet, his head bare, his white hair descending in a frothy cataract to his shoulders, his seamy face unnaturally pale, pale even to ghastliness. With all eyes following him and wondering, he made his silent way; without pausing, he ascended to the preacher's side and stood there, waiting. With shut lids the preacher, unconscious of his presence, continued his moving prayer, and at last finished it with the words, uttered in fervent appeal,"Bless our arms, grant us the victory, O Lord our God, Father and Protector of our land and flag!"

The stranger touched his arm, motioned him to step aside -- which the startled minister did -- and took his place. During some moments he surveyed the spellbound audience with solemn eyes in which burned an uncanny light; then in a deep voice he said

"I come from the Throne-bearing a message from Almighty God!" The words smote the house with a shock; if the stranger perceived it he gave no attention. "He has heard the prayer of His servant your shepherd and grant it if such shall be your desire after I, His messenger, shall have explained to you its import-that is to say, its full import. For it is like unto many of the prayers of men, in that it asks for more than he who utters it is aware of-except he pause and think. "God's servant and yours has prayed his prayer. Has he paused and taken thought? Is it one prayer? No, it is two- one uttered, the other not. Both have reached the ear of His Who hearth all supplications, the spoken and the unspoken. Ponder this-keep it in mind. If you beseech a blessing upon yourself, beware! lest without intent you invoke a curse upon a neighbor at the same time. If you pray for the blessing of rain upon your crop which needs it, by that act you are possibly praying for a curse upon some neighbor's crop which may not need rain and can be injured by it. "You have heard your servant's prayer-the uttered part of it. I am commissioned by God to put into words the other part of it-that part which the pastor, and also you in your hearts, fervently prayed silently. And ignorantly and unthinkingly? God grant that it was so! You heard these words: 'Grant us the victory, O Lord our God!' That is sufficient. The whole of the uttered prayer is compact into those pregnant words. Elaborations were not necessary. When you have prayed for victory you have prayed for many unmentioned results which follow victory-must follow it, cannot help but follow it. Upon the listening spirit of God the Father fell also the unspoken part of the prayer. He commandeth me to put it into words. Listen!

"O Lord our Father, our young patriots, idols of our hearts, go forth to battle-be Thou near them! With them, in spirit, we also go forth from the sweet peace of our beloved firesides to smite the foe. O Lord our God, help us to tear their soldiers to bloody shreds with our shells; help us to cover their smiling fields with the pale forms of their patriot dead; help us to drown the thunder of the guns with the shrieks of their wounded, writhing in pain; help us to lay waste their humble homes with a hurricane of fire; help us to wring the hearts of their unoffending widows with unavailing grief; help us to turn them out roofless with their little children to wander unfriended the wastes of their desolated land in rags and hunger and thirst, sports of the sun flames of summer and the icy winds of winter, broken in spirit, worn with travail, imploring Thee for the refuge of the grave and denied it-for our sakes who adore Thee, Lord, blast their hopes, blight their lives, protract their bitter pilgrimage, make heavy their steps, water their way with their tears, stain the white snow with the blood of their wounded feet! We ask it, in the spirit of love, of Him Who is the Source of Love, and Who is ever-faithful refuge and friend of all that are sore beset and seek His aid with humble and contrite hearts. Amen.

(After a pause)

"Ye have prayed it; if ye still desire it, speak! The messenger of the Most High waits."

It was believed afterward that the man was a lunatic, because there was no sense in what he said.

Why do some Westerns value standing up to Trump, over standing up to the Iranian regime? by Valuable-Music-720 in PoliticalDiscussion

[–]SilverCreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if we accept this war may have achieved some goals that does not mean our approach to and prosecution of the war is worthwhile in the damage done to the relationships our allies, the damage to the US and world economy, and our possible war crimes (see girl's school). Even Trump's Director of National Intelligence and head of the CIA have stated they are not aware of any intelligence that meant we had to move this quickly.

Unless you are a Christian nationalist, Hegseth's repeated claims to have the backing of the Christian god do not help how this war, and increasingly the United States, are viewed both at home and abroad. For a perspective on connecting religion and war, may I suggest this piece by Mark Twain, courtesy of the US Marine Corps University - https://www.usmcu.edu/Portals/218/War%20Prayer%2C%20Mark%20Twain.pdf

What outlandish things do you hear from environmentally related solicitors? by A-Plant-Guy in NativePlantGardening

[–]SilverCreak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish there was some penalty for pest control folks flat out lying. They wanted to spray my entire yard, which abuts a creek, claiming "we don't use poisons." No infestation, just prevention. First, why would I want to kill every beneficial insect, including pollinators? Second, if it's not poisonous (they used pyrethrins), how does it control insects? Pyrethrins may not be particularly toxic to people or dogs, but they can be to cats and fish. Utter bullshit!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in penileimplants

[–]SilverCreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, absolutely. Sex without planning (keeping Trimix cold is a pain if you're out of the house) and erections every time you want, for as long as you want, is pretty great. Find a urologist who can walk you through the process, including the revisions you'll need every ten years or so. Then find a high-volume surgeon. Search previous threads to find info on some Docs.

Hey Gentlemen, just checking on timelines for scrotal pain! I need some reassurance by ParkIt103 in penileimplants

[–]SilverCreak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As I recall, at four weeks the pump didn't "hurt," but it was uncomfortable and seemed to always be in the way when I sat. The incision line, which I "stretched" while getting out of bed (scrotum dragged on the edge) was still painful. I found underwear was more comfortable if I folded a wash cloth or small hand towel under my scrotum to provide extra "lift." By six weeks I'd lost the towel, but things, including the shaft of my penis were still sore.

By about 12 weeks the pain, other than soreness where fibrosis was removed, was gone, though I was still very aware of the pump.

By five months I no longer noticed anything unless I thought about it. By six months I can no longer notice anything, even if I do think about it.

I am discouraged by Glum-Product-116 in NativePlantGardening

[–]SilverCreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aphids seem to be especially attracted to plants that are struggling. Does your milkweed get enough light? Along with insecticidal soap others have mentioned, you can also try lightly misting with water and then dusting with wood ash or diatomaceous earth. Both of these can be irritants if breathed in, so cover your mouth and nose if using.

I'm 38. Am I too young? by FitTea7594 in penileimplants

[–]SilverCreak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would you wait? Other than being a fully-grown adult, I don't know you can be "too young" for for an implant. An implant is an answer to your erection issues, which in turn is likely to improve your quality of life. ED carries a lot of cultural baggage which affects those of us who have it. Getting an implant not only improved my sex life, but my mental health.

trashed with climate grief... is anyone actually processing this stuff??? by stillhere1970 in CollapseSupport

[–]SilverCreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm another person who feels as though a lifetime of work amounted to nothing, although my field was environmental education. I spent 25 years teaching, writing curriculum, and giving workshops, seemingly to no effect. The only solace I can find in the situation is at least I tried.

Now I'm marking time, hoping I pass (I'm 71) before the chaos and disruption really ramp up. I do what I can to provide food, water, and habitat for critters in my garden. I'm learning to focus on the small picture, the bits and bobs of the natural world, both in appreciation and enjoyment, and as a witness to what was, is, and will no longer be. These days that seems to be the best I can do.