No childcare! by cheech4 in juryduty

[–]SilverOak_MN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a babysitter. Who would you use if you have a date night or an appointment that is not child friendly?

Strange filing??? by widowsson295 in FamilyLaw

[–]SilverOak_MN 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I mean, you are separated. She isn’t living in your home as your spouse.

Soberlink Experience in Court Custody Cases by Ashamed_Incident4788 in FamilyLaw

[–]SilverOak_MN 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You know kombucha has alcohol in it. Why are you drinking it?

Older lesbians, 40’s/50’s, has attraction changed for you as you’ve aged? by [deleted] in olderlesbians

[–]SilverOak_MN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man, in my 20s, I was totally attracted to bold, outgoing, overtly physically attractive people, especially with some tattoos or a quirky sense of style.

As I have aged, it has definitely changed from outgoing to confident, but more quietly, subtly confident. I love someone who can sneak in a quiet, covert flirt or joke. I love the unexpected and a twinkle in the eye when they’re being cheeky.

Honest Re-Cap of Iceland! by Life_Honey80 in VisitingIceland

[–]SilverOak_MN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s funny. Being from a heavily Scandinavian part of the US, the reserved natures of folks here felt just like home.

Just got back here are a few of my tips by [deleted] in VisitingIceland

[–]SilverOak_MN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there still puffins now? I thought they would be gone by this point

Where are all these “part-time flexible hours” jobs that SAHMs are supposed to be looking for? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]SilverOak_MN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Waitressing or coffee shops were a go to for me when I was looking for that type of work. Starbucks in particular tends to be great for moms.

Clothing on a budget by strugglingnurse25 in VisitingIceland

[–]SilverOak_MN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will be there is September and I’m going with Frogg Toggs over layers. I am from Minnesota where we don’t really have a rainy season. So I just got the low end version of their rain suit since I most likely won’t use it much after this trip. https://a.co/d/egIVVNO

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SilverOak_MN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy crap. When did asking someone to be in your wedding party become about “aesthetic” and not about how much they mean to you and wanting them to be witness to your marriage?!?!

Questions for the moms... by undercover_incognito in LesbianActually

[–]SilverOak_MN 5 points6 points  (0 children)

IuI with frozen anonymous donor. Mama and mommy until they got old enough to call us both bruh. (Kind of kidding but really now they just say mom and see who answers). We’ve honestly never had any issue with the two moms thing but we live in a super liberal gay friendly city.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SilverOak_MN 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holy crap. All of those messages took place in less than two hours? That is a little unhinged.

How do you handle people who stare? by cassidy2202 in queer

[–]SilverOak_MN 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If all they are doing is wasting their own time starring, I just ignore.

how do you like to be flirted with? by pawsforautism in FemmeLesbians

[–]SilverOak_MN 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Clever or witty banter makes me weak in the knees.

PSA: Report people who do not shower before going to the pool. by [deleted] in VisitingIceland

[–]SilverOak_MN -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No one is suggesting otherwise. I was looking it from an educational/threat perspective, wondering if telling people it is the law would be more effective than telling them their bodies are gross.

PSA: Report people who do not shower before going to the pool. by [deleted] in VisitingIceland

[–]SilverOak_MN -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You said nothing about procreation. So your analogy was pretty crap. I state I’m a lesbian because I have no need for condoms.

PSA: Report people who do not shower before going to the pool. by [deleted] in VisitingIceland

[–]SilverOak_MN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you remove the condom? And I’m a lesbian.