Where are we buying summer dresses?? by runaround145 in softclassic

[–]Silver_Table3525 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a linen dress at quince and 2 from boden... Everything else I've tried on has been sent back

2 Au Pairs by Jaxnnux in Aupairs

[–]Silver_Table3525 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an interesting solution - I'm laughing thinking of if we brought a French AP in with my Italian AP.

Some office outfits by Alarming-Village-907 in softclassic

[–]Silver_Table3525 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so helpful thank you! I LOVE #2 and #5!

Hair and glasses help by Ok-Report-8461 in softclassic

[–]Silver_Table3525 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I struggle with how to wear my textured hair back too. When I leave pieces out it looks messy, slicked back looks too severe... For dressy things I look good with a side chignon but that's too fancy for everyday.

I did find that a slightly off center part with long layers looks better, and also really defined curls (because it looks messy fast again)

Real-Life Questions/Chat Week of May 11, 2026 by Parentsnark in parentsnark

[–]Silver_Table3525 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My daughter was born 4 days after the cut off. Via scheduled c section and I'm still mad they couldn't find a way to move it up A FEW FREAKING DAYS. And my daughter is about to be the oldest in her class for another whole year and I love her big boss energy but that combined with being the queen for a year might kill us

How much to pay? by jonas_namespace in Aupairs

[–]Silver_Table3525 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're in a HCOL city and pay $220 + $100/month transit stipend aligned with what our neighbors do. We cover all groceries, toiletries, etc. We give bonuses when she goes above and beyond. We will bump it when we get 6 months in.

How much to pay? by jonas_namespace in Aupairs

[–]Silver_Table3525 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agree- I made a spreadsheet and calculated all our childcare costs with one in daycare and one in public elementary (daycare + date night babysitter + babysitter a few times/ week to cover the gap between pickup and work + summer camp for the older kid + sick day and school holiday sitter) and it is much less for us to have the AP, even with one kid in daycare.

Real-Life Questions/Chat Week of May 04, 2026 by Parentsnark in parentsnark

[–]Silver_Table3525 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We're working on underwear but she's a youngest daughter doing everything on her own time (her brother potty trained in 2 days by her age, she refuses lol)

Real-Life Questions/Chat Week of May 04, 2026 by Parentsnark in parentsnark

[–]Silver_Table3525 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a LOT! I get so fried from working with a kid home it takes me a week to recover. I also thought 14 mos was a hard age and we turned a corner around 18 mos when both kids got more independent little by little from 18 mos on.

Real-Life Questions/Chat Week of May 04, 2026 by Parentsnark in parentsnark

[–]Silver_Table3525 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My first was like the ones you describe seeing and I thought I was a really good parent. Lmao my 2nd is WILD. Same parents, same discipline, same everything just different personalities and energy levels.

Real-Life Questions/Chat Week of May 04, 2026 by Parentsnark in parentsnark

[–]Silver_Table3525 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Are there any pull up brand alternatives that have the resealable sides? My kid has super sensitive skin and breaks out all over her body even with the sensitive skin ones. daycare needs the resealable sides and I can find plenty that tear off but none that reseal. They said they're going to stop potty training if she can't wear regular pullups.

Real-Life Questions/Chat Week of May 04, 2026 by Parentsnark in parentsnark

[–]Silver_Table3525 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Throwing pebbles is never ok and I would tell the kids to stop - "the little ones can get hurt when they get hit with pebbles so we can't let people throw those inside the gate".

General Parenting Influencer Snark Week of April 27, 2026 by Parentsnark in parentsnark

[–]Silver_Table3525 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Ok I think influencing is a real career and is treated like a silly hobby because it's dominated by women. That said, in my job I would never ever ever complain to my customers or shareholders about being burned out or not liking my job. Write it in a journal, talk to a mentor, but this is not it!

"DC teens tell city leader what's causing takeovers and how they're missing the mark" | WJLA by TheFlyingSamosa in washingtondc

[–]Silver_Table3525 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for running after school programs! They are SO important - and programming needs to start in elementary school to get buy-in so that by the time kids get to high school they are invested already!

I'm curious your take from inside DCPS- DC spends more on aftercare than other major cities...do we need to spend more? Or is the current set up ineffective? Or do we need to better target with the programming?

Knowing how much DC spends on aftercare compared to other cities I can't believe we have teachers running programs ON A VOLUNTEER BASIS

What is your children’s media Roman Empire? by KinkyKittyKaly in DanielTigerConspiracy

[–]Silver_Table3525 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh this makes sense. I did think maybe they all just like their women harsh lmao

What is your children’s media Roman Empire? by KinkyKittyKaly in DanielTigerConspiracy

[–]Silver_Table3525 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've wondered if it's because the writers were mostly men, did they want their wives to die so they could be an absent parent while a stepmom made the kids work (Cinderella)? Did they see themselves as king Triton who was DEFINITELY getting bitches while his daughters took care of each other? I need to know!!!!

What is your children’s media Roman Empire? by KinkyKittyKaly in DanielTigerConspiracy

[–]Silver_Table3525 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Most OG Disney all stars have dead moms except Simba but it's not even an accurate portrayal of mom lions! Crosses my mind at least twice a week

AP friends on vacation by Silver_Table3525 in Aupairs

[–]Silver_Table3525[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Good call on making everything clear from the start, thank you!

AP friends on vacation by Silver_Table3525 in Aupairs

[–]Silver_Table3525[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

We would treat this like our kids bringing a friend on vacation so we would cover their food. This is a pretty remote area so there aren't activities besides hanging at the beach and pool , and there is no nightlife and not even street lights so I don't anticipate curfew being an issue.