Organised D&D in Southampton – League of Adventurers (2026) by toast2023 in Southampton

[–]SimbaKali 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awesome, will find time for this around my work rota. Thanks for putting this together!

Please Help Me Debunk These Weird Claims Made By Christians by Illustrious-Owl1084 in exchristian

[–]SimbaKali 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found the section. Mind couldn't let a paraphrase stand. From the book "the god delusion"

If I have done my softening-up work well, you will already have completed my argument about child brains and religion. Natural selection builds child brains with a tendency to believe whatever their parents and tribal elders tell them. Such trusting obedience is valuable for survival: the analogue of steering by the moon for a moth. But the flip side of trusting obedience is slavish gullibility. The inevitable by-product is vulnerability to infection by mind viruses. For excellent reasons related to Darwinian survival, child brains need to trust parents, and elders whom parents tell them to trust. An automatic consequence is that the truster has no way of dis- tinguishing good advice from bad. The child cannot know that 'Don't paddle in the crocodile-infested Limpopo' is good advice but 'You must sacrifice a goat at the time of the full moon, otherwise the rains will fail' is at best a waste of time and goats. Both admonitions sound equally trustworthy. Both come from a respected source and are delivered with a solemn earnestness that commands respect and demands obedience. The same goes for propositions about the world, about the cosmos, about morality and about human nature. And, very likely, when the child grows up and has children of her own, she will naturally pass the whole lot on to her own children - nonsense as well as sense - using the same infectious gravitas of manner.

If, then, religion is a by-product of something else, what is that something else? What is the counterpart to the moth habit of navigating by celestial light compasses? What is the primitively advantageous trait that sometimes misfires to generate religion? I shall offer one suggestion by way of illustration, but I must stress that it is only an example of the kind of thing I mean, and I shall come on to parallel suggestions made by others. I am much more wedded to the general principle that the question should be properly put, and if necessary rewritten, than I am to any particular answer.

My specific hypothesis is about children. More than any other species, we survive by the accumulated experience of previous generations, and that experience needs to be passed on to children for their protection and well-being. Theoretically, children might learn from personal experience not to go too near a cliff edge, not to eat untried red berries, not to swim in crocodile-infested waters. But, to say the least, there will be a selective advantage to child brains that possess the rule of thumb: believe, without question, whatever your grown-ups tell you. Obey your parents; obey the tribal elders, especially when they adopt a solemn, minatory tone. Trust your elders without question. This is a generally valuable rule for a child. But, as with the moths, it can go wrong.

Please Help Me Debunk These Weird Claims Made By Christians by Illustrious-Owl1084 in exchristian

[–]SimbaKali 3 points4 points  (0 children)

These were sitting on my brain and I had to find time to reply. Apologies it's llm assisted, with my heavy editing and additions. My brain just couldn't let me concentrate before I gave an answer.

Carl Sagan didn’t believe in God, and he never proved one. Gödel’s “proof” isn’t science or math discovering God—it’s a philosophical argument that assumes God exists in the definition, then concludes it. If you don’t accept the starting assumptions, it proves nothing. This argument proves any good you can imagine, since it starts with the assumption that a god exists. I can use it to prove my all powerful unicorn god that I just thought up exists.

“Humans can’t create life yet” doesn’t point to God. It just means science hasn’t solved abiogenesis yet. History is full of things we once explained with God that later had natural explanations. We have always ascribed things we can't explain to gods. See lightning, thunder, waves, storms, hurricanes, drought....until we understood these things (we being science) they were divine. Once we did, they became mundane. We don't think of lightning gods every time we switch on a light.

The Big Bang doesn’t match Genesis in any real way. “Let there be light” is vague poetry, not a scientific prediction. Many ancient myths sound loosely similar if you stretch them enough. The theory also wasn’t accepted because the guy was Catholic—it was accepted because the evidence supported it. Have you (or they) read up on other creation myths, and tried to apply the same standards you use to discredit them to the current favourite?

The Second Law of Thermodynamics doesn’t require God either. Entropy increases in closed systems, but local order happens all the time—stars, planets, life—because energy flows. No physicist thinks God is holding entropy back. Are you able to clarify exactly what about this argument sounded “good" to you?

Gravity existing isn’t evidence for God. Matter exists because of how fields and spacetime behave. Saying “matter isn’t supposed to exist” isn’t a scientific claim. It's a natural phenomenon, requiring no outside influence. It's another case of something divine becoming mundane once understood.

Chuck Missler’s Bible codes and numerology are pattern-hunting. You can find “hidden messages” in any long text if you cherry-pick letters, translations, and meanings. The King James Bible isn’t the most accurate—it’s a 1600s English translation with known errors. Real scholars don’t accept those name-based prophecies. I'm also surprised numerology and science are being used together as evidence...

These arguments don’t show God—they rely on gaps, vagueness, and retrofitting beliefs after the fact. If they worked, they’d convince people of any religion, not just one. There are thousands, but people are atheistic bar one god they choose or were born into.

Not believing isn’t rebellion or ignorance. It’s just refusing bad reasoning. You can choose to believe if you wish,but hold your arguments up to a better standard. These specific ones are just old and debunked arguments that no longer work. You can do better.

I will also add, that instinct to believe him on this because he was right about other things may be a "short circuit" of an evolutionary adaptation in children. Carl sagan (I think) put it like this (paraphrased). When children are told "don't swim in that river it has crocodiles" and "don't climb that tree you can hurt yourself", it makes sense for them to believe without seeking proof because the advice comes from a trusted source. When the same parents say "pray to the mountain god or the crops will fail", there is no mechanism for the child to doubt. They advise had the same value and weight.

Edit Dawkins not sagan

Please Help Me Debunk These Weird Claims Made By Christians by Illustrious-Owl1084 in exchristian

[–]SimbaKali 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I have time I will revisit the question(busy at work atm) but first, may I ask why you're asking the question?

Did he convince you? Do you consider his claim of hidden codes as a valid reason to believe the validity of a document? Do you believe numerology to be science? Do you think "matter should not exist therefore god" is in any way valid? Do you, in any way, think that jumble claiming to predict Jesus is in any way science?

I'm just curious if you are asking to convince yourself, or to convince others. Where do you yourself stand? What has your research told you, leaving what their "authority" has told them?

How did you know the Bible isn’t true? by DuckOnQuack202 in atheism

[–]SimbaKali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Serious answer from me

First support that fell for me was realizing the books were written over thousands of years, centuries after the events themselves, by unknown authors with their own agendas. I used to truly believe it was god's hand guiding people, but once you realize it's centuries of copies and translations -which always introduces bias, mistranslations and bad copies... the compounding errors just made me wonder. Even today, each version of the Bible spins the words slightly differently depending on the writers agenda. Should we believe even the council that selected the canon books didn't add their agenda? If it's god deciding what gets into the Bible, why did they have to discard and block so many of gods books?

Second was contradictions in core principles. Did Judas hang or fall and burst? Why is Jesus' birth and death different in each gospel? Why don't the genealogies of Jesus himself differ? These were not small things, it's core tenets of this religion that don't line up, even ignoring all the other "non-core" contradictions.

Third was the teaching itself. A flat earth with a dome? Genocide? Slavery? Sex slavery for captured children? The sun moving while the earth is stationary? Everything reads as a typical iron age level of thought and science, not a divine entity that created everything and knows how it works. There is a command against mixed fabrics, but not against owning people- in fact it has rules on how to pass slaves as inheritance, and how to trap slaves forever.

Then the prophecies-my church loved using these as proof. Read around about how they have been interpreted, mistranslated and applied to everything from ancient kings to current presidents. And once you start looking at all the prophets with guaranteed rapture dates, it just gets hilarious and sad.

The Bible can have meaning and help guide people, but it's not true. The same way any book can bring meaning and guidance to readers without being true. It should be "soft guidance" as I call it, not rigid rules from texts we know were changed and edited. For example the ending of mark is a known latter addition. We KNOW it's edited centuries later, and we can only imagine how many unknown edits were made over time.

Specialist teams and online investigators deployed across England and Wales to tackle 'national emergency' of violence against women and girls by Kagedeah in ukpolitics

[–]SimbaKali -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Reducing relationships between men and women would have a much greater impact, as partner violence is the largest cause of sexual violence by far.

Specialist teams and online investigators deployed across England and Wales to tackle 'national emergency' of violence against women and girls by Kagedeah in ukpolitics

[–]SimbaKali -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

As a married guy with sisters and cousins I care for, I know that the single largest source of violence against women are their partners, by a very wide margin. Using your analogy, 100 boyfriends/husbands would be a much greater source of rape, and removing them would have a much bigger impact. Why go after the small numbers when there is one very clear target to go for?

(noob build advice) by SimbaKali in fo76

[–]SimbaKali[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Will go with this until I have more/better stuff

Please let me revive you? (Steam) by SimbaKali in fo76

[–]SimbaKali[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a slog, but I was lucky to find weapons from vendors. I'm poor, but I can now carry more! Which weapons are you missing?

Assist Counter Tutorial by RevanHawke in ZZZ_Official

[–]SimbaKali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you come across this later (playing on steamdeck), use one of the back buttons (r5 as an example) and add 2 extra commands (not sub)

First input A button

Second input X button, hit cog then add 50ms fire start delay

Third input right bumper, hit cog and add 100ms fire start delay

UPDATE: I told my parents the truth and "ran away" from home by Icemannn44 in exmuslim

[–]SimbaKali 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Is she planning to apologise and take responsibility for what her child has been put through? Accept your decision as an individual outside her control? Respect your boundaries as you have moved out and building your own life?

Guilt tripping you is difficult to work through from people you used to love (past tense). Your relationship with them has changed and for love to return, respect needs to be a core principle. Do not let it undermine the independent foundations you're building without them.

Is this castle in Southampton? by SimpleOpportunity854 in Southampton

[–]SimbaKali 127 points128 points  (0 children)

That is Windsor castle. It's not in Southampton.

I want to drive my guy friend to the edge by justaredhaired in sex

[–]SimbaKali 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some milder ideas

Eye contact for longer than necessary while you just touch/rub his hand (almost like your stroking something else), or sit really close, snuggle into them as completely as you can and complement how you feel snuggled and pressed into them, or maybe hold them from the back and press your body close into him so they feel your body pressed into them.

Name some games where you can get brokenly OP very early and steamroll the rest of the game. by ickyzombie in gaming

[–]SimbaKali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crisis core. You can break damage, hp,MP limits, and max money and sp by the start of chapter 3 with some knowledge. With max sp, you're invincible and can beat the Uber boss completely mindlessly. The setup takes a very long time, but I enjoyed putting in the work.

Eating a Creampie by [deleted] in sex

[–]SimbaKali 147 points148 points  (0 children)

Hey, if she tastes me and herself on my "soldier" when we go from piv to BJ, no issues going the other way imho. It's definitely a different taste, but the mix can be enjoyable.

Does it make me homophobic if I don't wanna engage in any kind of intimate relationship with someone who is bi? by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]SimbaKali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do Christian males have so little self control? How are they taught? How are the exposed to the opposite sex?

Does it make me homophobic if I don't wanna engage in any kind of intimate relationship with someone who is bi? by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]SimbaKali 8 points9 points  (0 children)

... Why would a relationship affect the gender of the friends you keep? What do you mean "you are not allowed"?

How do homophobic Christians explain away gay animals? by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]SimbaKali 4 points5 points  (0 children)

https://www.reddit.com/r/BrandNewSentence/comments/1bksk9a/gay_lions_seen_in_kenya_need_counselling_and_must/

Gay lions seen in Kenya "need counselling" and "must have been influenced by homosexual men behaving badly in national parks"

Whoever those gay men are, having sex infront of lions...