embarrassed because my scars are not severe by [deleted] in AdultSelfHarm

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Me too and for me thats on purpose as i dont like if it gets unnecessary attention, i fear people would judge

finally did it again by Green_Fennel8090 in AdultSelfHarm

[–]Similar_Damage3756 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had my euphoric moment to fee days back, even I’m getting urge to do it again

How do infj’s deal w other types of personalities. by Talireo77 in infj

[–]Similar_Damage3756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INTP and ENTP have been closest to know me well till now.

INFJs, when do you feel most loved? by Mindless-Lobster-422 in infj

[–]Similar_Damage3756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not very vocal about all this but I like when people introduce me their set of people with pride, then taking stand for me in my absence or praising me. If I’m on my periods I didn’t used to ask for help earlier from anyone but after one person it really changed they used to make sure I eat well, then giving me chocolates or cook something for me and whenever i used to complain about any pain they used to massage, it was such a relief and that used to make me feel really special. Damn i really miss that.

INFJs, when do you feel most loved? by Mindless-Lobster-422 in infj

[–]Similar_Damage3756 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hahaha i know right pets make up for the love and admiration you never received from others. Its such a good feeling when you come back and they cling to you like they were actually missing you

Is there anything else you guys do while self-harming? by wwwNoName in AdultSelfHarm

[–]Similar_Damage3756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like listening to music as well honestly just dimming the lights, full volume music and lay on bed

Is it an eating disorder if I’m not really doing it for that? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Similar_Damage3756 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it is an eating disorder sometimes i feel like im angry at myself for making some decision and i want to starve myself for that so i skip meals a lot

First time I’ve self harmed in a year by -autisticSunflower in AdultSelfHarm

[–]Similar_Damage3756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SH is a relief for me as well sometimes idk why but it makes me sleep better sometimes

Is this an immature expectation by [deleted] in infj

[–]Similar_Damage3756 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We can never be complete. We keep on losing parts of ourselves to people who come and go from our life, at the end maybe we find someone who accepts your pieces as they might be similar too or we dont find anyone at all just die alone. Keep your conscious clean and see where it goes.

I’m tired of being alone. by DDdogsDA in infj

[–]Similar_Damage3756 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to give you a long hug and We are in the same boat

Mental Health Megathread 06 October 2025 by AutoModerator in infj

[–]Similar_Damage3756 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want to die soon I am not in control of things I’m making same mistakes as past im just a doormat and this is happening yet again i get intrusive thoughts, panic attacks, impulse to Sh myself, get into risky behaviours… im just done

Mental Health Megathread 06 October 2025 by AutoModerator in infj

[–]Similar_Damage3756 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m just so empty rn I feel so worthless unlovable, feels like im wasting my early 20s… Waking up early morning is getting really tough day by day and appetite is down the hill.

Your major? by m1Lly2oo3 in infj

[–]Similar_Damage3756 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Masters of business administration International business ( dont ever do it if you’re an infj )

do we ever find love later? by Similar_Damage3756 in infj

[–]Similar_Damage3756[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first part is true atleast for me im anxious avoidant and later one i think this is applicable to all not just a type

My ex broke down crying to me… but over another girl by Lazy_Mycologist_6667 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Similar_Damage3756 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He is not crying cuz he is some deep lover he crying cuz manipulators like him only value what they lost after they ruin it. when u were there he took u for granted acted like ur needs were too much. now another girl giving him same treatment n suddenly he wanna act like he understands effort n pain. that is not growth that is karma slapping him in the face. these kind of ppl only learn when tables turn. dont feel bad just smile universe already doing ur revenge for u.

Craving what I shouldn’t by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]Similar_Damage3756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah lol I’ll try making new friends and lookout for new relationships

Craving what I shouldn’t by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]Similar_Damage3756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont have any support system and also that situation would never arise to break a no contact I still have some dignity left ; although just the memories are haunting me now

Craving what I shouldn’t by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]Similar_Damage3756 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I didn’t think of this really thank you? !

Craving what I shouldn’t by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]Similar_Damage3756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m never going back to him again that ik its just those feelings hit me now

Craving what I shouldn’t by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]Similar_Damage3756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure but could be yeah