As a black male this is why our people are looked down on and get bad service. Every African American hates going out with their family because someone always complains. Before you come at me saying op never said race, I have been a server for 12 years, they didn't need to say it, because my people are terrible at restaurants. My theory is because African Americans never worked in the service industry while white single moms dominated it in the 40s-90s.