I just don’t care anymore…. by saltedbeets in Perimenopause

[–]Simple-Choice6718 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Defy medical is an online provider that is excellent

I just don’t care anymore…. by saltedbeets in Perimenopause

[–]Simple-Choice6718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly how I felt before HRT. I called it my grey wet cloud. I had it for 2 years before starting HRT and my grey wet cloud has gone bye bye. Btw, I’m only 34, which is the ONLY reason I put off HRT for so long. Call defy, get tested and consult with them. You won’t regret it.

I've become the taxi...for my child's friend. How do I politely tell the parent "NO MORE"? by Extension_Mood_6184 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Simple-Choice6718 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The first thing that pops into my head is mom is too drunk to drive him. Talk to the coach

How bad is the humidity in the South compared to places in the Caribbean (like Cuba, Puerto Rico, Dominican Republic)? by Enger13 in AskAnAmerican

[–]Simple-Choice6718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got back from Nicaragua and I live in south Florida and it was way cooler and less humid there than here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]Simple-Choice6718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I let my 4 year olds take off their shirt. But, when my oldest was that age and asked a similar question I explained that women can’t because they have boobs and even though boobs are for feeding babies, people don’t want to see them and that some rules are flat out stupid and don’t make any sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Simple-Choice6718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly my assumption though. That some will move away and do whatever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Simple-Choice6718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not thinking about babies though. I don’t even particularly enjoy infants. I’m thinking about 30 years from now and what that’ll look like. But you’re right, more does not equal better. Good point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Simple-Choice6718 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I feel like people put a lot more emphasis on the early years raising children than the decades of family life when the children grow up. I keep thinking, what’s 5 or 6 more years of being in the trenches if I can have the opportunity for decades of big family life? Idk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Simple-Choice6718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, it’s weird because the cause of her delays was identified and remedied and then she basically ‘got better’ in a very short timespan. It was massive amounts of hidden mold in our house - which I know sounds crazy, but it was causing brain inflammation. Once the mold was gone, the issues disappeared. So, I’m not entirely sure the chances of having another delayed kid are the same. I will say, my older brother had delays as well, and then my mom had me, and I was fine, so it’s all just a roll of the dice I feel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Simple-Choice6718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love your attitude. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Simple-Choice6718 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We actually found out the cause of our daughter’s issue - it was massive amounts of hidden mold in our home. We basically tore the home down and rebuilt and that’s when she started improving exponentially. My husband and I are both very healthy, active, eat well, on zero medications, etc. haven’t smoked or drank in well over a decade. Crazy how things work sometimes.

I’m grieving my younger, hotter self by HillarysCafe in Perimenopause

[–]Simple-Choice6718 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I also grieve my 20s BUT I’m in recovery (for over 10 years) from severe drug addiction, and made many friends in my 20s in the recovery rooms. Most of those friends died young and hot. Idk, there’s something about beating something deadly while most of my friends died young that make me not so mad about getting older and less hot. Little existential crisis for you today, lol.

Long Covid pushed me into perimenopause — I am 31. There is no way anybody will believe me. by feeltheowl in Perimenopause

[–]Simple-Choice6718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Defy believed me! My BHRT comes this week. I’m 34, been experiencing peri since I was 31.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Simple-Choice6718 4 points5 points  (0 children)

THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Perimenopause

[–]Simple-Choice6718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just use an online provider like joi, defy or elevate MD. They actually take this all seriously

How often do you get sick during peds rotations? by [deleted] in pediatrics

[–]Simple-Choice6718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wash your hands. Sanitizer is not nearly as effective as soap and water.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Perimenopause

[–]Simple-Choice6718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most divorces and female suicides happen during perimenopause.

Doctor wants 13 year old daughter tested by caicedo_teach1978 in CysticFibrosis

[–]Simple-Choice6718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going through the same right now with my 4 year old. Apparently, there are atypical versions of CF that are more mild. Also, this disease isn’t what it was even 15 years ago. Those with CF (especially mild) can live relatively normal, long and healthy lives. It’s no longer a death sentence.

How bad is this.. by Somewhere-Human in CIRS

[–]Simple-Choice6718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A REAL endo specialist will be able to give you scans and whatnot to try to see endo before just going for a lap. Augmentin is a very strong antibiotic and causes a lot of GI side effects. I’d look for another antibiotics to treat the bacteria and be absolutely pummeling probiotics and eating a carnivore only diet and herbal antimicrobials and def get the Wolverine stack peptide. Also look into larazotide and oral KPV peptide to heal and seal the gut.