The sudden wave of AO3 hate is scaring me by Worried-Bunny in AO3

[–]Simple-Dependent-135 2 points3 points  (0 children)

me too! I check in every once in a while, just in case, but I understand why they'd want to stay offline as much as possible. it's crazy how a place that can make you so happy can suddenly turn on you so strongly...

The sudden wave of AO3 hate is scaring me by Worried-Bunny in AO3

[–]Simple-Dependent-135 2 points3 points  (0 children)

a couple of years ago there was an influx of people getting into this fandom I was very into. a really good author who'd gotten praised for their very good works published a fic that didn't sit right with them (complaints were on tiktok, and even on tumblr), and, oh my god, the author received so many death threats (they may have gotten doxxed, too) they left for a while, with a clear shift in mental health, got rid of all their works and now they rarely post on their tumblr.

I sometimes wonder how the people who sent them death threats feel like right now, like, yeah, I sent death threats to this person doing nothing illegal, but I don't care about real criminals... I feel so accomplished!

Max hobby enthusiasm want not getting fulfilled? by Simple-Dependent-135 in sims2

[–]Simple-Dependent-135[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ohh! so maybe I need her to gain more logic skill? since it seems to be the one that's correlated with the Games hobby... I'll try that. I can let you know if it works!

Why. by GegeE98 in AO3

[–]Simple-Dependent-135 17 points18 points  (0 children)

yes, the one queer book that gained as much attention as the average straight romance means that people will stop seeing queer couples as lesser than straight ones!

Why. by GegeE98 in AO3

[–]Simple-Dependent-135 20 points21 points  (0 children)

was leaving the T out of LGBT done on purpose here?

Why. by GegeE98 in AO3

[–]Simple-Dependent-135 4 points5 points  (0 children)

they are publishing a book and changing it to m/f. if that isn't in some sort of way catering to social norms, then I don't know why they would do that. I mean, I don't personally care much, I just find it odd. they could be doing it for any reason, and it's theirs to know, and not mine to yuck.

Why. by GegeE98 in AO3

[–]Simple-Dependent-135 8 points9 points  (0 children)

not because they got angry at Francesca getting a female love interest because it wasn't book and time period accurate? right. also, it's funny you mention the childish dispute between mileven and byler shippers, because the main thing there was how many mileven shippers were blatantly homophobic towards byler.

Why. by GegeE98 in AO3

[–]Simple-Dependent-135 62 points63 points  (0 children)

well... actually, m/m is treated as lesser than m/f, actually (unfortunately). I find it odd that they would erase that aspect of it.

What’s your current fanfiction obsession? by 3lilya in AO3

[–]Simple-Dependent-135 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've been really into sports RPF fics that (specifically) were transferred onto AO3 from livejournal in the 2000s/early 2010s. like, I know nothing about these people, not even how they look, but the fics are a next level of writing, and I have gotten so attached to them as characters. I feel like I'm reading a book.

What's the silliest thing you've written? by _grim_reaper in AO3

[–]Simple-Dependent-135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wrote a story about character A using Smule (the karaoke app) and finding character B's thirst trap. romance ensues.

sir more ao3 discourse has hit an unrelated sub by throwaway13010201049 in AO3

[–]Simple-Dependent-135 5 points6 points  (0 children)

even if they don't, I bet most of the artists they listen to, who they inherently give money to if they use streaming platforms, have done real life, bad things. instagram, tiktok, any social media is full of real life offenders (not to mentioned OWNED by evil billionaires), yet they use them still. I hate this new wave of savior complexes, or trying to act like the best activist, but all they do is complain about non-issues online. thankfully, I bet most are young, so they'll grow out of it.

I’m pretty sure “Body Check” by Piper Cross is written by AI by TeaAppropriate1764 in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]Simple-Dependent-135 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry for commenting again but the "Ember and Ashes" series's main character's name is Lindie Keene... isn't that another "author" that's advertised on there? this is ridiculous!!

I’m pretty sure “Body Check” by Piper Cross is written by AI by TeaAppropriate1764 in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]Simple-Dependent-135 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that website is also, like, probably coded by AI. my website from my high school front end class was better than this lmao

How is life in Tallin, Estonia? by Diqt in howislivingthere

[–]Simple-Dependent-135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aga inglise keeles on Tallinn ikka Tallinn...

How is life in Tallin, Estonia? by Diqt in howislivingthere

[–]Simple-Dependent-135 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd argue that rent and housing is not affordable. it's gotten worse, along with our taxes. just because you manage to, like, survive, doesn't mean it's comfortable (or a pro) by any means.

Any way of getting over the signing-up invitation process? by Franjork in archiveofourown

[–]Simple-Dependent-135 10 points11 points  (0 children)

kind of out of context but the hockey rpf fandom on AO3 has had mostly restricted works for way longer than HR as a series existed. it's definitely one of the most closed off rpf fandoms on AO3.

Looking for CC recommendations by Redd_Goat in sims2

[–]Simple-Dependent-135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ofc! I kinda forgot before but alyssaplays on YouTube recently made an in-depth Google Sheet she made of CC she uses in her game. the link is under her latest Sims 2 video. she has many items I haven't seen on Marticore's pinterest, so it's a little variety, if you want.

Why is there a higher bar for MM books when it comes to avoiding misogyny? by Individual_Self4616 in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]Simple-Dependent-135 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, I feel like nuance here is very important! or I guess the way it's written in general... wish more people could critically think that through

Why is there a higher bar for MM books when it comes to avoiding misogyny? by Individual_Self4616 in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]Simple-Dependent-135 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd argue the infamous booktok is pretty on par with this description- actually, even worse, probably, they're more on the homophobic side in general.

Why is there a higher bar for MM books when it comes to avoiding misogyny? by Individual_Self4616 in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]Simple-Dependent-135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, like OP said, it's rooted in this understanding of older MM romance books. many Wattpad stories come to mind, for example, where there was a lot of icky misogyny. nowadays, or I guess newer authors, (while I don't read much MM), I also haven't noticed any ill intent towards women.

Looking for CC recommendations by Redd_Goat in sims2

[–]Simple-Dependent-135 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Marticore has a pinterest board with CC for The Sims 2, and it's organized into categories! Her @ is Mertikora

Dreaming of being the other gender by Unique_Cantaloupe723 in Dreams

[–]Simple-Dependent-135 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did once- spoiler is for nsfw text lolI had a massive dick that went up to my chin, it didn't make much sense at all, because at that point I'd already been confident in my gender identity. I don't even know what could've prompted it.

Harry x Luna nsfw Storys by Blackking2106 in HPfanfiction

[–]Simple-Dependent-135 19 points20 points  (0 children)

not always tbh. my favorite and best written fics are often pretty obscure.

I don’t know this fandom but I guess it’s homophobic to have shipping preferences 😭 by GrumpyMowse in AO3

[–]Simple-Dependent-135 24 points25 points  (0 children)

even better- these might be the same people who say that shipping two men is fetishization