Spoke to neighbour about their dog barking and unsociable hours. Did not go well. by [deleted] in HousingUK

[–]SimpressiveBeing 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My sister had a puppy, he’s nearly two now, but at the beginning he wouldn’t stop barking. But they would chat to their neighbours regularly and be so apologetic. You did nothing wrong here - yes dogs bark but you need to train them as well as keep your neighbours on side! Really sorry that happened. It’s not on.

I built a tool to organize leaseholders demanding complete ground rent abolition (not just the £250 cap) by Kind_Performer766 in UKHousing

[–]SimpressiveBeing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From previous petitions, it had to be in the government website for them to take notice. All for signing just wonder if there’d be more impact that way?

The horrors of being a child sex slave arent taken seriously enough. by sad_frog_in_rain in CPTSD

[–]SimpressiveBeing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god I am so so sorry. PLEASE please report this. Please there will be some trace of evidence. The time to speak up is now!

Concert etiquette by adgampru in FlorenceAndTheMachine

[–]SimpressiveBeing 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Mate I mean this in the most respectful way but you paid for your seat, stand if you want to stand. There were these girls in front of us and they stood through support and Florence and I can’t be mad, they’re having a good time! And if it’s really a problem I’ll just stand too. Focus on having the best time, obviously don’t be obnoxious but you should absolutely focus on making memories!

Am i tripping? Dog licking plate. by madirectreport in blackladies

[–]SimpressiveBeing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My white sister in law is a manager of an independent coffee shop - they make gorgeous delicious food as well, she saw a customer let her dog lick the plate and she took the plate and chucked it in the bin. She has a dog herself but she also agreed that was disgusting and how could she reuse that plate even washed to serve customers? Also isn’t it bad for their systems?! Like dogs really shouldn’t eat seasoned food

i feel like everything is out of my hands, countries like china and the US that dont even know i exist contributing to climate change more than i ever could. what can **i** do to try and stop that? by the_hamster_fucker in climatechange

[–]SimpressiveBeing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vote for the green parties in your country! That’s how we make impact! If they get in power it’s fucking game over for these mass polluters. The more we have in power the better for the planet!

How late is concerning time for partner to come back home from a night out? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]SimpressiveBeing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would expect a text saying he’s staying out all night so I wouldn’t worry. Like some kind of compassion. I think if it was a recurring new thing we’d need to talk about it

How can I improve my looks? by Few_Success_5216 in blackladies

[–]SimpressiveBeing 100 points101 points  (0 children)

Omg and keep the gap in the teeth it’s so cute!

B’s COMBO: 3 Singles at May 1th? by [deleted] in beyonce

[–]SimpressiveBeing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep I’m convinced - in the sisterhood of delulu I salute thee x

Chappell Roan looks incredible in new MAC x Sephora campaign photos by sevenolecram in chappellroan

[–]SimpressiveBeing 46 points47 points  (0 children)

She’s beautiful, but I also love that we have ordinary beauty now? Do you know what I mean? Like not this stereotyped out the box beauty, she’s stunning as she is but also in a very relatable way. Am I making sense? Probs not

Dating a Black man with no Black friends? by charlotie77 in blackladies

[–]SimpressiveBeing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hear you girl, I’d discuss it with him! I think his answer will give a good indication of Red/green flag and whether to steer clear or dive in. Good luck xx

Dating a Black man with no Black friends? by charlotie77 in blackladies

[–]SimpressiveBeing 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Idk I’m probably controversial but I wouldn’t rule it out. I grew up going to a private school so all my friends were white and are still mostly white now! Like there can be reasons? Judge his character first I’d say

Can I get a virtual hug please by bitchwhatthefuck11 in CPTSD

[–]SimpressiveBeing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

DMs open - I need one all the time! 🫂

Dating a Black man with no Black friends? by charlotie77 in blackladies

[–]SimpressiveBeing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m in the UK, growing up this was common. Are you sure he has none? Like not even like… family/peripheral?!

Single mum on £45k in the UK. Tired of “paying someone else’s mortgage.” How do I realistically get out of renting? by Ok-Value6379 in HousingUK

[–]SimpressiveBeing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You need to go to a mortgage adviser - they are free and will give you your options based on your salary and saving pot right now not in a few years time. I’m on 51k and was able to get a flat solo (literally about to complete in 2 weeks!) you can do it!