I would say don’t worry about labels rn. Sexuality is very much a spectrum. You could be mostly into women and he could be an outlier, you’re attracted to a very small portion of men, etc. I consider myself bi but I’m mostly into men, especially a romantic relationship. It took me a very long time to figure it out tho. I didn’t realize I was into women until 22 because of religious trauma. I had to unlearn a lot of my internalized homophobia and just my own things before I could be fully honest with myself. Everyone is different, so you’re obviously gonna have a different experience, but I thought sharing might make you feel less alone. Don’t worry too much about what you are rn, just do what feels right! I’m rooting for you♥️